The we are too shy to talk to people and have ended LONERS group :)

[Hayley90]

i spoke to my midwife, who *thinks* it might be my hind waters going, judging by feel/smell/look of them but obv cant be sure.

triage think its a show simply because i havent had much of one before, and they dont want to jump to conclusions.

so i have a nappy on (pad ) and we will see.

liam has gone into "army mode" and has started to clean. This is what happens when he gets excited. I think its nothing.

But she said the pains would start higher up and work down... and by ribs/bump still hurt. so does below my shoulderblades. I dunno.

we will see!

 

[Glitterfairy]

Maybe it's trapped wind and you need to have a big fart LOL
Let us know if anything happens xxx

 

[daniellelk]

oooh trust something exciting to happen while I'm not on

Hope everything is ok Hayley x

 

[jenniferannex]

Maybe it's trapped wind and you need to have a big fart LOL
Let us know if anything happens xxx

 

[Hayley90]

if its trapped wind i wanna know what this leaky stuff is

argh. so frustrating. want the baby to either come out, or stay put. not hover in between typical.... an indecisive baby just like me

 

[Hayley90]

im scared

 

[daniellelk]

aw you'll be fine hun, is it just you and your OH at home? x

 

[ALY]

hayley have i missed something

why you scared

 

[Hayley90]

aw you'll be fine hun, is it just you and your OH at home? x

Yep, no one else is allowed to know till stuff definately happens... im just scared that itll last for days

hayley have i missed something

why you scared

im leaking! my mw thinks its waters & triage think its a show. But my pad is wet now.. there is more stuff coming out still. im scared, im not ready for baby yet, stuff isnt ready

 

[daniellelk]

aw i'v not been there yet so haven't a clue what to expect, and I'd probs be worrying just as much if it was just me and OH in house, i'd be ringing my mum lol

I'm of to bed now anyway, shatterd. Why don't you try and get some sleep? Or have a soak on the bath?
Night xx

 

[Hayley90]

gonna go to sleep soon, so i can forget about it & wake up tomorrow *hopefully* having pains or major waters or something. i dont like that mw & triage said something different, when i believe my mw... i dont want them to not take me seriously iykwim?

will just have to see! and no, not telling anyone yet or they ALL go into super organisation freak out mode and then i get stressed. last possible minute, then the people that need to know, will know

 

[ALY]

aw you'll be fine hun, is it just you and your OH at home? x

Yep, no one else is allowed to know till stuff definately happens... im just scared that itll last for days

hayley have i missed something

why you scared

im leaking! my mw thinks its waters & triage think its a show. But my pad is wet now.. there is more stuff coming out still. im scared, im not ready for baby yet, stuff isnt ready

HAYLEY YOU WILL BE FINE SWEETIE
i had all my stuff ready well i thought i did until my 1st was born and she was 9lb 15 so didnt have anything to fit her lol
am sure if you have forgotten anything liam will bring them for you

what time did you start leaking babes xxxx

 

[Hayley90]

from about 10pm? getting twinges and pains aswell.

im actually no where near ready.. tomorrow was gonna be my "buy and pack everything i still need" day... typical!! Im still going to bluewater even if im getting pains in the morning, at least ill be closer to hospital then!

Ive told liam he needs to be here at 1pm-2pm on sunday to get my sainsburys delivery... no matter what

 

[ALY]

hayley have a nice warm bath it will either make the pains worse or make them go away

try not to worry have you got some paracetomol in just in case and remember if your worried call hospital

ohhhh il be u l night wondering if you have had little one

 

[Hayley90]

Lol honestly, i'll totally freak out if i have to go in. I will end up waking poor gemma in the middle of the night so she can update you all!!! (SORRY in advance just in case! )

Gonna have bath in the morning unless it gets super painful during the night...

Dont freak if i'm not on here tomorrow though, contractions or not, im off to bluewater. If they get bad i'll go sit in mothercare... could do with some freebies

 

[faille]

Not been on for ages and there's no way I can catch up.
First post I see is yours Hayley and just wanted to send a quick

I had leaking near the end and hospital told me it was pee.......... I was NOT amused, I KNOW what pee is thank you very much and that definitely was NOT it!!! My MW was pretty sure it was waters too, so don't take much notice of the hospital hun. Unless they're 110% sure it's waters they won't do anything and just make you feel stupid
I ended up with low fluid and THEN they say 'ooh maybe it was water after all and not pee'


If it's a show, it'll be mucousy not watery...?! There was no mistaking losing the plug or the bloody show for me and contractions started a couple of hours later but not sure how much it differs from person to person?

Good luck though hun, you'll be FINE, whenever LO comes x

 

[Hayley90]

Faille - i just think they dont want alllll the people leaking calling up every 10 minutes you know? i prefer my MW anyway, but shes been in deliveries all day bless her, so I have to let her know tomorrow what happens either way.

Im going to bed now (liams still cleaning...himself this time) hopefully nothing major happens, i need to get my mum her birthday present, and a baby doesn't count!!!!

night girls & ill keep you posted (Pinkness - gemma - has my phone no + i said id text her when something happens. so if anything DOES happen you'll prob hear from her i doubt it though...) xxx

 

[ALY]

hayley sitting in mothercare is a great idea

you will have to post a quick msg in the morning before you go to blue water otherwise il be thinking ohhh she has had is having little one xxx

 

[Hayley90]

i'll try and update, but bet nothing happens & i'll be here as normal! xx

 

[Emma1980]

you dont get freebies from there, just B&Q the rest are myths, B&Q have probably stopped it now too!

Get a bath sweet it will either make them stop or make them worse!