can i rant to you ladies please
Were moving house next Thursday, and ever since we got our moving date, my mum has said she will have Finn in the daytimes for us so that we could crack on and get everything sorted. She works shifts, but she told us to let her know what days she wanted to have him, and she would sort it so that she had those days off. So we did just that, and she even said she would have him overnight one of the days so we didnt have to worry about getting him to bed and being up at night with him. We thought great, at least we will be able to get things done. Moving is hard enough work when theres just 2 of you to do it, let alone when you've got a baby to look after that doesnt nap!
Well basically, for the last week, its been excuse after excuse as to why she can no longer have him. First it was gunna be that she'd have to go to work half a day, but she would drop him off at my nans and then pick him up again straight after. Now its come to the point where she cant have him at all. All im asking for is a bit of help
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We've tried all of hubbys family but theyre all working so cant do it. Hubby doesnt drive, so its up to me to drive the van between the old house and the new house. I dont see how I can physically do that, load a van, and look after Finn all at the same time
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im getting so stressed out now, and it just feels like everything is getting ontop of me. I even lost it with Finn earlier when he wouldnt nap, i feel terrible
I dont bloody ask my mum for much, even when i came out of hosp from my c section, i never asked her for nothing, and done everything by myself from day 1. And ontop of that, she couldnt even be bothered to give me a card on my birthday.
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