hans2009
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I have been thinking about becoming a surrogate for a deserving family (no one in mind, would just go through an agency)..
First question - Would I even qualify? It took my husband and I 4 years to conceive. We never saw a doctor about it (our appointment ended up turning into a confirmation appointment!!) but I'm pretty sure my body was the problem. I've never had a regular cycle. Also, I had gestational diabetes with my son, does this matter?
Second question - My husband isn't totally on board. He doesn't think I could do it emotionally. I have tried to find stories of women who thought they could do it but regretted it. I can't find any. I think I could handle it but I am concerned that when time comes to deliver I wouldn't want to give the baby up. I do know I couldn't do traditional surrogacy, but gestational-it's not my egg. I'm trying to think of it as babysitting for 9 months! I just worry I won't feel that way in the hospital!
If anyone had any input-even if unrelated to my questions, please let me know!! I am just starting to look into it!
First question - Would I even qualify? It took my husband and I 4 years to conceive. We never saw a doctor about it (our appointment ended up turning into a confirmation appointment!!) but I'm pretty sure my body was the problem. I've never had a regular cycle. Also, I had gestational diabetes with my son, does this matter?
Second question - My husband isn't totally on board. He doesn't think I could do it emotionally. I have tried to find stories of women who thought they could do it but regretted it. I can't find any. I think I could handle it but I am concerned that when time comes to deliver I wouldn't want to give the baby up. I do know I couldn't do traditional surrogacy, but gestational-it's not my egg. I'm trying to think of it as babysitting for 9 months! I just worry I won't feel that way in the hospital!
If anyone had any input-even if unrelated to my questions, please let me know!! I am just starting to look into it!