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Hi ladies, my DH and I have been thinking about taking a break this month due to the fact I if I got a bfp I would be due around 4th of January and we're worried about bub coming early and having to deal with a Christmas birthday for the rest of their lives. Also we have family coming to stay this Christmas/New Years so it seems like a really inconvenient time to be having my first with all those people around.
I'm just still not sure. I want this so bad. I keep thinking a christmas baby is better than no baby... And if I do take a break and then go back to it in May and still don't fall I also need to take a break June/July so I'm not ready to pop or in labour during my best friend's wedding. I am so conflicted. I know what the right thing to do is but I'm not sure I can deal with taking breaks now I've started.
Does anyone have any advice if I do decided to take a break on how to keep busy or just how to deal in general. Or maybe someone wants to give me some input on my situation, what they would do in my shoes etc. DH says it's up to me. Please help me make up my mind.
I'm just still not sure. I want this so bad. I keep thinking a christmas baby is better than no baby... And if I do take a break and then go back to it in May and still don't fall I also need to take a break June/July so I'm not ready to pop or in labour during my best friend's wedding. I am so conflicted. I know what the right thing to do is but I'm not sure I can deal with taking breaks now I've started.
Does anyone have any advice if I do decided to take a break on how to keep busy or just how to deal in general. Or maybe someone wants to give me some input on my situation, what they would do in my shoes etc. DH says it's up to me. Please help me make up my mind.