mum2liam
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Hi Ladies,
Well my hubbie and i have talked on and off about adopting, for the past few years.
We have 4 boys, and hubbie had the snip done after our last, who is 2 1/2 now.
We had talked about him having a reversal as we felt that we should not have got the procedure done so soon after the birth of our son, obviously there was alot of talking to decide, we got to the morning of the app and hubbie backed out, i mean i was upset, but would never make him do something if he was not 100%
He explained his reasons for it, and totally got what he was saying.
The main thing being that it may not even work, and the stresses and upset that can come from that.
I have always yearned for a daughter,i feel very lucky and i adore my boys and wouldnt have it any other way, a daughter would complete our family.
And to give one a loving home would be very special.
At the moment i am doing lots of reading, research and reading peoples amazing journeys.
We have decided that it would be next year before we would start the process,
We are located in Scotland so im not sure if the process differs from England at all, but just really looking for how the process starts and where you go from there?
Thanks in advance ladies, i understand people have different reasons for their own journeys, but am i being a bit selfish?
Xxx
Well my hubbie and i have talked on and off about adopting, for the past few years.
We have 4 boys, and hubbie had the snip done after our last, who is 2 1/2 now.
We had talked about him having a reversal as we felt that we should not have got the procedure done so soon after the birth of our son, obviously there was alot of talking to decide, we got to the morning of the app and hubbie backed out, i mean i was upset, but would never make him do something if he was not 100%
He explained his reasons for it, and totally got what he was saying.
The main thing being that it may not even work, and the stresses and upset that can come from that.
I have always yearned for a daughter,i feel very lucky and i adore my boys and wouldnt have it any other way, a daughter would complete our family.
And to give one a loving home would be very special.
At the moment i am doing lots of reading, research and reading peoples amazing journeys.
We have decided that it would be next year before we would start the process,
We are located in Scotland so im not sure if the process differs from England at all, but just really looking for how the process starts and where you go from there?
Thanks in advance ladies, i understand people have different reasons for their own journeys, but am i being a bit selfish?
Xxx