This is going way too far.

[newmommy23]

Ok so there is a really long back story, but basically this girl has know my OH for about 6 years now and has liked him the whole time but he doesn't see it that way. However, she's insane and threatened to beat my @ss when we started dating and always tries to get him to come over to her house and get drunk with her even though she was a boyfriend....she's a slag basically and she's insane obsessed with my boyfriend.
She got a job at the store by our house and I went in to get milk and she was just staring daggers at my belly.
I get home and my boyfriend shows me this text he got from her, it went like this:

her: "um is keegan pregnant?"
him: "yeah that's kinda obvious isn't it?"
her: "is it your's?"

that pissed me off a lot and then she goes on asking all these questions, how far am I, are we having a boy or girl, the name, due date whole thing.

that was a month ago.
so today she posts huge on her fb
"SO EXCITED" and she's just got a BFP.

She is a huge drinker and can't even keep a steady job or take care of herself, and she seriously got pregnant on purpose to try and get back at Elie for having a baby with me. She's been with her boyfriend for like 3 months. And has she not realized that announcing it that early is...like really scary....to everyone you know?! She sends him this message about how our kids can hang out and play. Oh HELL no my daughter is not going anywhere near that slag!

She's freaking 23 and the least responsible person in the world. She said horrible things about me when I got pregnant and even tried to get Elie to sleep with her because "you wouldn't want to hurt the baby"

FING WHORE.
OMFG.

 

[sequeena]

She sounds irrespnsible but are you sure she got intentionally pregnant because you are?

I wish I could pregnant so easily! Lucky her!

 

[newmommy23]

she sent him a text saying "so did you see I'm going to have a baby too?" after not texting him since that last text. her entire demeanor is like LOOK I HAD A BABY WITH SOMEONE ELSE TOO. >.<

 

[sequeena]

she sent him a text saying "so did you see I'm going to have a baby too?" after not texting him since that last text. her entire demeanor is like LOOK I HAD A BABY WITH SOMEONE ELSE TOO. >.<

Mmmm not good at all is it?

I think she's trying to get to you, trying to compete somehow. I don't think she actually wants your OH (probably did at some point) but now her problem with... probably because you have what she wanted...

I don't know, I've not had to deal with this. Try to ignore her as best as you can

 

[Leanne020807]

How irritating!! she needs to keep her nose out and get on with her own life!!!!

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Wow how weird does she sound. What does OH think of it all?

What I would say if if yours and her child do ever meet and play, please don't stop them playing as it isn't the childs fault Hope it gets sorted soon
xx

 

[newmommy23]

She's just so very offputing, when I started getting bigger she's made fun of me for being "fat" and stuff. >.< I'm just not talking to her at all. My OH is super freaked out that she did that and wishes she'd stop talking to him lol. I feel bad for her child but maybe having some responsibilty will make her grow up....and I still haven't forgiven the trying to have sex with him. That was so not ok. Who would even suggest that?!!?

 

[sequeena]

Perhaps he should tell her to go do one!

 

[MommyGrim]

^
Agreed! That is totally unacceptable!

I hope she finally grows up and leaves you alone before Molly gets here! That is total uneeded stress for you and her!

(I'd say kick her ass but...since she's pregnant that'd be kinda harsh!)

 

[Leanne020807]

Yeah i think he needs to tell her to **** off!!!!!

 

[MissMamma]

Yup i agree with the other girls, get OH to teel her to get lost. It seems like she would listen to him more than you.
She sounds like an immature lil brat who cant stand it that she hasn't got her way and is trying to ruin you two.
I hope things get sorted out, don't let her ruin your pregnanc or relationship, just stay away from her, dont reply to her texts etc etc. Just dont give her any sort of attention and hopefully she'll disappear..xx

 

[Leanne020807]

Can i ask if your OH replys to her texts?? Because if he is then he should stop and just totally ignore her and i'm sure in time she will get bored and stop.