MrsDuck~ It is best to stay away from Dr.Google
. I've never had surgery before, and while it was not fun, it wasn't terrible. I was so scared going in that I was sedated. It will be painful to swallow and move your head for a couple of days, but I was given great pain meds and I slept alot. I had surgery at 10:00 in the morning, and was sent home around 4:00 in the afternoon the next day because they wanted me under observation for 24 hours after the procedure.
I'm not sure where you are, but I am in the US. I went to the hospital at 8:30 am and got registered and prepped for surgery. My mom, husband, sister-in-law, and baby were with me up until they wheeled me off to surgery. The nurse was so sweet and told my husband to buy me an expensive diamond necklace to cover my scar. First, they changed me into a gown, then gave me an IV. At around 10:00, they gave me a sedative and wheeled me to the operating room. I remember they covered me with a cozy warm blanket and put a pillow under my legs...and that was it. I remember nothing past that point. I woke up in recovery crying (not sure why), and my voice was completely gone because of the breathing tube. I kept dozing off for a while. The nurse in recovery was so nice, and kept calling me sweetie and I remember her complimenting my hair. They brought me to my room at around 4:00 in the afternoon, and I was in a bit of pain. The meds they gave me made me nauseated, so that night wasn't fun. Also, the general anesthesia can thicken the mucous in your lungs, so you might feel like you have a chest cold after surgery. That wasn't fun. The first night was by far the worst, but it got much better the next day. My voice came back (though really weak and hoarse and remained that way for about a week) and I was able to swallow soft foods.
Whisper~ I have learned to be an advocate for my own healthcare, and my children's. Thank goodness the process is moving along for you! I hope everything turns out alright!!! I'm worried I will gain weight too. I'm still 40lbs above my pre-pregnancy weight, and I don't want to get bigger!
About the scar...it really doesn't bother me much. I'm muslim and wear hijab, so no one ever sees it. My skin is super fair though, so scars usually take forever to fade on my skin. My doctor told me to use cocoa butter cream, or a vitamin E cream to help it fade.