thecurlymama
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Ah, okay so I apologize but it's time to get down and dirty.. haha..
So, first of all... the sex drive during second tri. Any experiences? Because I'm going crazy and I think i'm DRIVING my man crazy. I swear I feel like jumping him all the time... he has to get up early on the weekdays and so once we get into bed around 10 and I'm all worked up it's another two hours til we actually go to sleep. In the mornings he's grumpy and tired. It's weird bbecause I'm having this combination of feeling really really crazed and wanting him all the time but at the same time I almost feel less and less attractive every day. I told him that last night and he reassured me, but this whole being excited all the time is really starting to get on my nerves!
Along with that^^, my nipples are leaking! Well, not exactly, but if there's any pressure, suction, etc... there's this thick sort of sticky liquid that comes out. Obviously its breast milk or something along those lines but I didn't know it happened this early- I'm only 16 weeks! He got freaked out by it when I showed him and in a moment said "get away from me... you're milking yourself!" He felt really bad about it cause it hurt my feelings and he apologized endlessly but I wouldn't let him get anywhere near my breasts for the next few hours cause honestly !? That was rude! I know he didn't mean it that way and he expressed that- but this is just a really weird change for me.
Anybody have anything to say? I know this is a little bit personal but I could really use some support from other mamas
So, first of all... the sex drive during second tri. Any experiences? Because I'm going crazy and I think i'm DRIVING my man crazy. I swear I feel like jumping him all the time... he has to get up early on the weekdays and so once we get into bed around 10 and I'm all worked up it's another two hours til we actually go to sleep. In the mornings he's grumpy and tired. It's weird bbecause I'm having this combination of feeling really really crazed and wanting him all the time but at the same time I almost feel less and less attractive every day. I told him that last night and he reassured me, but this whole being excited all the time is really starting to get on my nerves!
Along with that^^, my nipples are leaking! Well, not exactly, but if there's any pressure, suction, etc... there's this thick sort of sticky liquid that comes out. Obviously its breast milk or something along those lines but I didn't know it happened this early- I'm only 16 weeks! He got freaked out by it when I showed him and in a moment said "get away from me... you're milking yourself!" He felt really bad about it cause it hurt my feelings and he apologized endlessly but I wouldn't let him get anywhere near my breasts for the next few hours cause honestly !? That was rude! I know he didn't mean it that way and he expressed that- but this is just a really weird change for me.
Anybody have anything to say? I know this is a little bit personal but I could really use some support from other mamas
Would be good to let your midwife or whoever you see know it began though.
If I don't wear it to bed I literally wake up in a puddle! Eww...Also my sex drive went up a lot. Unfortunately DH's has not so I have to do things myself sometimes lol! Be glad your OH is keeping up! Oh also my DH has issues with bodily functions, fluids, etc. Everything grosses him out so I get that reaction about a lot of things that have happened since I've been pg.
