TMI POST Anyone get really horny???

[Pixie2982]

Just wondering if anyone gets really horny like several times a day??

Usually before I got pregnant I had no sex drive whatsoever or very little interest in sex tbh
But now I can’t get enough! And as I’m doing it on my own(single) now I’ve actually bought a vibrator and feel like I’m addicted already but the worst thing is that I’m a lesbian and the thought of sex with a man is a disgusting thought for me so why would I crave a vibrator

Sex toys have never interested me before either lol

 

[Talia12]

Just wondering if anyone gets really horny like several times a day??

Usually before I got pregnant I had no sex drive whatsoever or very little interest in sex tbh
But now I can’t get enough! And as I’m doing it on my own(single) now I’ve actually bought a vibrator and feel like I’m addicted already but the worst thing is that I’m a lesbian and the thought of sex with a man is a disgusting thought for me so why would I crave a vibrator

Sex toys have never interested me before either lol

Yeah, I have a whole bunch of sex toys because I often get the urge when DH is at work haha. Totally normal in pregnancy, I swing between that and having a whole week where I'm 0% interested and telling DH to f*ck off when he tries it on, haha.

 

[nordicpixie83]

Ugh ladies I'm jealous as since being pregnant I struggle to reach the big O , I get so frustrated with DH as he just gets it wrong and I even struggle myself to get there . . Penetrative sex doesn't get me to the good place anyway , so Lord knows what I'll do .

 

[Hopfl4bbynbr4]

Yess! The past few weeks I have been so horny it's like I'm the one begging him to dtd rather than him begging me lol it's a strange turn of events for me 😂 he actually has been working a lot lately and is tired when he gets home so I've told him a few times I'm going to break in the vibrator if he tells me no one more time 😂

 

[Talia12]

That would be frustrating! When I was pregnant with my son sex became so painful from around 20w onwards, I could only do it if I was on top and keeping things really shallow, and I was only doing it for dh's benefit as I would've preferred not to have any penetration. I remember being really upset thinking I might never enjoy sex again. But it must've been like swollen/low cervix or whatever, or just serious blood flow to the area. That probably explains the pregnancy horniness too!
I also have orgasms in my sleep during pregnancy 😱 Haha! I feel like a bloody teenage boy

 

[Pixie2982]

Ugh ladies I'm jealous as since being pregnant I struggle to reach the big O , I get so frustrated with DH as he just gets it wrong and I even struggle myself to get there . . Penetrative sex doesn't get me to the good place anyway , so Lord knows what I'll do .

You’ll have to buy and experiment with a vibrator, I didn’t think I would be interested once it arrived so I just bought a cheap rabbit for £9.99 but now I’m finding myself looking at others with different functions
They don’t have to be used alone

 

[Pixie2982]

That would be frustrating! When I was pregnant with my son sex became so painful from around 20w onwards, I could only do it if I was on top and keeping things really shallow, and I was only doing it for dh's benefit as I would've preferred not to have any penetration. I remember being really upset thinking I might never enjoy sex again. But it must've been like swollen/low cervix or whatever, or just serious blood flow to the area. That probably explains the pregnancy horniness too!
I also have orgasms in my sleep during pregnancy 😱 Haha! I feel like a bloody teenage boy

I wish I did, the only dreams I’m having is stuff like walking in on my cheating ex or I’m a fly on the wall when they are having conversations and laughing at me or when they are playing happy families with the in laws

 

[Myshelsong]

Craving the feeling of a vibrator is really not like craving sex with a man I don't think. It is just a different sensation than you normally incorporate into your sex life. Like who can say "no" to hard and soft vibrating goodness??

On a side note I wish I had a sex drive right now, I am just so nervous with this pregnancy sex is the last thing on my mind. I feel bad for my hubs, but oh well.

 

[Pixie2982]

Ok maybe I should have said penetration vibrator then which is the basically the same as a penis without the body attached lol

 

[MrsB_2015]

I am so jealous of you ladies haha. I have no sex drive whatsoever. Just the thought of sex and/or orgasms turns me off most of the time. I just feel gross all the time with this pregnancy. Before I got pregnant, my DH was the one telling ME he was too tired and such because I wanted it so much. I'm just so tired!

 

[nordicpixie83]

Ugh ladies I'm jealous as since being pregnant I struggle to reach the big O , I get so frustrated with DH as he just gets it wrong and I even struggle myself to get there . . Penetrative sex doesn't get me to the good place anyway , so Lord knows what I'll do .

You’ll have to buy and experiment with a vibrator, I didn’t think I would be interested once it arrived so I just bought a cheap rabbit for £9.99 but now I’m finding myself looking at others with different functions
They don’t have to be used alone

Over the years I've tried lot of different things . Nothing penetrative makes me orgasm. I enjoy the sensation but that's it really . Thankfully DH is more than happy to put the work in down south hehe

In my last pregnancy I had awesome orgasms in my dreams , I'd always wake up at the end of it feeling rather flustered with a rock hard bump .

 

[Talia12]

In my last pregnancy I had awesome orgasms in my dreams , I'd always wake up at the end of it feeling rather flustered with a rock hard bump .

Haha this! I'm like looking round the empty room like ahem... I remember orgasms towards the end of pregnancy with my son were crazy, I could properly feel the shape of his body my bump was so tight afterwards.

 

[nordicpixie83]

In my last pregnancy I had awesome orgasms in my dreams , I'd always wake up at the end of it feeling rather flustered with a rock hard bump .

Haha this! I'm like looking round the empty room like ahem... I remember orgasms towards the end of pregnancy with my son were crazy, I could properly feel the shape of his body my bump was so tight afterwards.

It's bizarre Isn't it !!! . Supposedly the babies enjoy it though , the gentle contractions apparently soothe them

 

[Talia12]

Haha well that suits me fine

 

[WackyMumof2]

I just don't enjoy sex at the moment - probably because my pelvic floor has taken one Hell of a beating and I'm often changing my underwear so I'm too scared to even orgasm. My biggest fear is that I am going to pee all over hubby.

 

[nordicpixie83]

I just don't enjoy sex at the moment - probably because my pelvic floor has taken one Hell of a beating and I'm often changing my underwear so I'm too scared to even orgasm. My biggest fear is that I am going to pee all over hubby.

The only way to fix that is pelvic floor exercises and lots of them . I do them constantly and I try to keep my core engaged when active as well . I have horses so ride a lot when not pregnant , this helps my core and pelvic muscles. Pilates is good too . There are lots of Pilates for pregnancy programmes out there

 

[veganmum2be]

Not really but I have just ruled out sex subconsciously because I have had bleeding and don't want to do anything than could influence that.

However I have had I voluntary sleep orgasms which were intense and unexpected!

 

[Talia12]

Not really but I have just ruled out sex subconsciously because I have had bleeding and don't want to do anything than could influence that.

However I have had I voluntary sleep orgasms which were intense and unexpected!

Totally understandable, I was that way until just a few weeks ago too, and because we sometimes engage in back door action haha I'm happier to do that at the moment because I'm still nervous I might hurt the baby with sex. On my own with a toy it's different though because I'm controlling the depth etc.

Your typo made me think for a second you'd said voluntary sleep orgasms, I was gonna say omg HOW teach me!!

 

[Pixie2982]

Talia

I was going to say that too, how does that happen

 

[veganmum2be]

Haha yes definitely involuntary sorry to be a let down haha!

I don't actually want to reach orgasm through any means incase the uterine contractions cause bleeding also, however I may relax as time goes on as I haven't bled anymore after the sleep ones!