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Hello,
So I know this is a phase and I know my son is just fascinated by his new skill, but my 3 year old will not stop throwing things in the air. In the house he's almost hit the tv and windows several times and outside he keeps throwing things over the fence (not on purpose, he just throws them up and they happen to go over).
My neighbour has just complained to me that she doesn't mind shoes but has hurt her feet on the stones he's thrown over and can I get him to stop. Well quite honestly my answer is no! I don't know how to stop him bar locking him indoors or constantly being by his side to take stones off him.
I've tried everything all the general articles say like tell him that some things are ok to throw but he shouldn't throw stones - he either doesn't get what I'm saying or doesn't care. I've tried buying him throwing games like a frisbee aim game and a ring toss. I've got him things he is allowed to throw like scarves and foam toys that aren't hard or heavy, but he still always reverts back to other things that I've told him he shouldn't throw.
Any advice? I don't want to have to stop him going outside but besides having eyes in the back of my head/never cooking, cleaning or going to the loo whilst he's outside or ignoring my other child I don't know how to get him to stop.
Oh and just a note we have those annoying slate stones all around the edge of our garden which is where he's getting the stones from to throw.
So I know this is a phase and I know my son is just fascinated by his new skill, but my 3 year old will not stop throwing things in the air. In the house he's almost hit the tv and windows several times and outside he keeps throwing things over the fence (not on purpose, he just throws them up and they happen to go over).
My neighbour has just complained to me that she doesn't mind shoes but has hurt her feet on the stones he's thrown over and can I get him to stop. Well quite honestly my answer is no! I don't know how to stop him bar locking him indoors or constantly being by his side to take stones off him.
I've tried everything all the general articles say like tell him that some things are ok to throw but he shouldn't throw stones - he either doesn't get what I'm saying or doesn't care. I've tried buying him throwing games like a frisbee aim game and a ring toss. I've got him things he is allowed to throw like scarves and foam toys that aren't hard or heavy, but he still always reverts back to other things that I've told him he shouldn't throw.
Any advice? I don't want to have to stop him going outside but besides having eyes in the back of my head/never cooking, cleaning or going to the loo whilst he's outside or ignoring my other child I don't know how to get him to stop.
Oh and just a note we have those annoying slate stones all around the edge of our garden which is where he's getting the stones from to throw.