fob sees lily on a wednesday 3 till 6 and has her overnight friday til 5pm saturaday, I think this is enough were both in college all day and by the time we get home lily has he tea bath and bed, ibut fob thinks he should have her more he says that lily forgets who he is between saturday and wednesdaylily is settled in her rountine and I dont want to changer it do you think he sees her too little?
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I think it's nice that he wants to see her more...maybe you guys could add 3-6 on Monday? If it is too much trouble for you maybe not, but it seems like if he is working with the routine and genuinely wants to see her more, I'd be willing to do that.
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Whoa, are FOB who wants to see his child?! Strange! Lol.
I suppose adding a monday visit wouldn't hurt? Her routine is going to change constantly over the next 6 months anyway, so it won't throw her out of sorts too much
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I suppose adding a monday visit wouldn't hurt? Her routine is going to change constantly over the next 6 months anyway, so it won't throw her out of sorts too much
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Whoa, are FOB who wants to see his child?! Strange! Lol.
I suppose adding a monday visit wouldn't hurt? Her routine is going to change constantly over the next 6 months anyway, so it won't throw her out of sorts too much
but to the op... yeah maybe add a couple of hours on the monday as well? or an all night stay...
i think its lovely ur ex wants to see his lo tho.
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Agree with girls. No harm giving him more time with LO and gives you more of a break. Find a day/time that suits you both.
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How much time do you get to spend with her? Are you in college all week?
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well do u nd ur ex still get on?
if u did maybe on a sunday u could do somethin together??
my best friend is no longer with his baby's mum but every sunday afternoon they go nd do somethin as a threesome... its nice for his son to see his parents be friends with each other... nd nice for him that he can have them both at the same time.
i know this isn't possible for everyone... so maybe he could have an extra night stay every other week?
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if u did maybe on a sunday u could do somethin together??
my best friend is no longer with his baby's mum but every sunday afternoon they go nd do somethin as a threesome... its nice for his son to see his parents be friends with each other... nd nice for him that he can have them both at the same time.
i know this isn't possible for everyone... so maybe he could have an extra night stay every other week?
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i agree with what someone else said could you do something as a family at the weekend? my friend goes on holidays with his daughter and always pays for her mum to go as the baby was young even at 7 they go on days out as a family his new gf goes to as does her oh!
could he come to your house on a monday if not? x
could he come to your house on a monday if not? x
