TTC Baby M
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Ok well the story is my hubby and I had one girls name that we could both agree on from since the time we conceived lets call it M. Since then we found out his brothers, wife's sister miscarried just before 20 weeks and referred to her baby by this same name. (this happened around xmas time) I have only met this girl once and she lives thousands of kms away in another town. My hubby doesn't have any regular contact with her apart from having her on his facebook (among many others that he doesn't really have anything to do with!). He now says that we can't use our original name as it was going to be used by her; whereas my argument against is that we don't really have anything to do with this girl at all (if it was his brothers wife that would be another story of course) so I don't really see the problem? I know it is really sad what happened don't get me wrong but the way I see it is there will always be one story or another behind whatever name we pick and she will have to encounter another bub with this name sooner or later. I have tried making up a new list of names I might consider but he doesn't like any of them so really this is literally the only name we agreed on! What do you guys think?? Am I being rude/unreasonable by still wanting to use this name?