Tricky witch 9 days and counting no AF!

[YouandMe]

Ladies I am in need of some serious help!

I am on CD47 of an average 35 to 38 day cycle. Around 26DPO and 9 days late for AF!!!

I have had copious amounts of creamy CM, exhaustion, a pinching/pulling feeling in my abdominal area, and dark nipples. All of which I truly did not feel like I was making up in any way. ESPECIALLY extra CM, you can't make that one up!! LOL

I have tested and got BFN's on all of the ones I took. Totally stark white, not even a faint line to try and guess at! I told myself to back off all the googling and stop posting on bnb for a while to relax, and the only thing that did was make me feel sad and alone in this! NOT what I need right now

I am thinking that stressing and hoping that I was pregnant is making AF play her witchy games on my body and is holding back.

The problem is I don't feel as though I am consciously worried or stressed about it! We are only in month 2 of TTC, we JUST began our journey I'm not worried yet or anything. So my question is this, how do I calm myself down in order to get AF back to normal if I don't even realize I am that stressed about it???? Have any of you ever had AF arrive late due to stress or other factors? I could really use some feedback!! Thanks everyone!!!

 

[sarahh]

Sorry no usefull feedback but hope you get some answers soon

 

[Lady H]

Hi Youandme

You say you have been ttc for 2 cycles. Were you on BCP's before that? That can mess with your cycle for a good 3-4 months before it settles. If not it may be one of those Witchy things, but I read stress does not make you infertile unless is is top level stressers like death of a loved one etc. I have heard some people say the were a fair way late before they got the BFP. Have you tried testing with a different brand?

Good luck and hope you get a resolution soon one way or another

 

[YouandMe]

Thanks for the input Lady H, I have been off BC since August so I don't think that is to blame. I would love to be pleasantly surprised with a BFP but I am at least hoping for AF to start to keep TTC!!

Just need to get myself to CALM!

 

[YouandMe]

Maybe if I could stop checking bnb so obsessively I would relax hahaha

 

[amyv15]

I am in a similar situation as you! AF was due Jan 13-15 and no sign of her. I did stop my BC at the beginning of November so it's possible that bc is to blame for me. Although, once I stopped I got AF a week later and then AF showed up 30 days later and now I'm waiting for my next visit. On the 14th I had cramping, but it didn't feel like my usual AF cramps and then the 15th I had bad leg cramps and she has yet to visit. I took a HPT yesterday morning and BFN so I dunno what's going on!