I was thinking harmony was prob what they were offering too. It seems most likely from the research I've done since they called.
I did not have any markers on us, BUT, baby was not cooperative and I'm significantly overweight, so the combination led to reduced clarity. I was at my regular yesterday and she did a quick scan to check heartbeat (Doppler doesn't work on me yet) and it was much clearer (baby wasn't moving as much as the other day), but she wasn't looking at it diagnostically.
Right now I'm leaning towards the blood test first (although waiting two weeks for results just sounds like torture) because I'm really worried that the risk from the other test may be increased by my weight. They didn't indicate that over the phone, but it seems possible to me.
I'm so sorry about your daughter by the way, that's so rough.