Trying to conceive still after two years of trying...

[vonyu82]

Hi ladies,
I'm here cos someone introduced me here, and I'm hoping to journey with a few whom we can lend support to each other and cheer on until our little one comes along the way.

Husband and I have been trying for 2 years since, and it's been arduous and challenging. Every month was such a disappointment that I gave up two years into it. Not to mention I slipped into depression. Not because of this, but due to my Dad's passing 4 years ago and I haven't properly dealt with it.

Im sharing also because I'm sure there are other ladies out there who are struggling too desiring so bad to be a mummy. I can't wait to hold one of my own in my arms. And I still can't believe it's so hard to conceive.

I haven't been hard working in taking opks, until my desperation point now!! haha... so I had my first cycle of opking, and I had a beautiful positive on day 12. So now I'm keeping fingers crossed but not very hopeful honestly, because we came back from a check for my husband's spermy and it's super low in mobility rate plus the quality isn't there. That's why I'm not hopeful even though we got a positive and we dtd 3 times a week, every other day.

We also bought fertilAid for men, and I can't wait to try it out and hope in 6 month's time, we would be pregnant. I dreamt a million times how I would react when I see the whooping positive pregnancy test. Silly I know. But oh well... So 6 months it is. I also hope I am not going to have to wait another year to only have to try again and again and again!! Bleah!!

Hope to hear from you ladies...

 

[Dreambaby69]

Welcome to b n b. We r here to support each other and here for u. We understand ur struggle with ttc and hope that soon u will have ur sticky bfp. Good luck xx

 

[bubbles_cymru]

Welcome - I am on month 4 TTC!! It is such a frustrating time!

 

[tinadecember]

Hiya hun, welcome to the boards!

I too am in a similar situation to you, we've just had my husbands sperm analysis results back last week and he has really low motility and sperm count. We've only been trying for 9 months but decided to get tests done due to being pregnant twice before and catching the egg within 2 months both times.

A few days go we ordered the Fertilaid along with Motilityboost and Countboost, I believe that when used together you should see quite a difference in 3 months time.

Are you being referred to an infertility specialist? We are waiting for an appointment to see somebody but at the minute feel like we've hit a brick wall! xx

 

[froggyfrog]

Hi ladies,
I'm here cos someone introduced me here, and I'm hoping to journey with a few whom we can lend support to each other and cheer on until our little one comes along the way.

Husband and I have been trying for 2 years since, and it's been arduous and challenging. Every month was such a disappointment that I gave up two years into it. Not to mention I slipped into depression. Not because of this, but due to my Dad's passing 4 years ago and I haven't properly dealt with it.

Im sharing also because I'm sure there are other ladies out there who are struggling too desiring so bad to be a mummy. I can't wait to hold one of my own in my arms. And I still can't believe it's so hard to conceive.

I haven't been hard working in taking opks, until my desperation point now!! haha... so I had my first cycle of opking, and I had a beautiful positive on day 12. So now I'm keeping fingers crossed but not very hopeful honestly, because we came back from a check for my husband's spermy and it's super low in mobility rate plus the quality isn't there. That's why I'm not hopeful even though we got a positive and we dtd 3 times a week, every other day.

We also bought fertilAid for men, and I can't wait to try it out and hope in 6 month's time, we would be pregnant. I dreamt a million times how I would react when I see the whooping positive pregnancy test. Silly I know. But oh well... So 6 months it is. I also hope I am not going to have to wait another year to only have to try again and again and again!! Bleah!!

Hope to hear from you ladies...

My husband also has a very low sperm count. He was on clomid for six months and it didn't work. So he star

 

[froggyfrog]

Hi ladies,
I'm here cos someone introduced me here, and I'm hoping to journey with a few whom we can lend support to each other and cheer on until our little one comes along the way.

Husband and I have been trying for 2 years since, and it's been arduous and challenging. Every month was such a disappointment that I gave up two years into it. Not to mention I slipped into depression. Not because of this, but due to my Dad's passing 4 years ago and I haven't properly dealt with it.

Im sharing also because I'm sure there are other ladies out there who are struggling too desiring so bad to be a mummy. I can't wait to hold one of my own in my arms. And I still can't believe it's so hard to conceive.

I haven't been hard working in taking opks, until my desperation point now!! haha... so I had my first cycle of opking, and I had a beautiful positive on day 12. So now I'm keeping fingers crossed but not very hopeful honestly, because we came back from a check for my husband's spermy and it's super low in mobility rate plus the quality isn't there. That's why I'm not hopeful even though we got a positive and we dtd 3 times a week, every other day.

We also bought fertilAid for men, and I can't wait to try it out and hope in 6 month's time, we would be pregnant. I dreamt a million times how I would react when I see the whooping positive pregnancy test. Silly I know. But oh well... So 6 months it is. I also hope I am not going to have to wait another year to only have to try again and again and again!! Bleah!!

Hope to hear from you ladies...

My husband also has a very low sperm count. He was on clomid for six months and it didn't work. So he started taking a supplement called horny goat weed and it has made big difference in a short time. I recommend it. Its worth a try

 

[Elz]

Welcome to B&B!
I'm in a similar situation to you too. Me and DH have been TTC for 2 and a half years now and DH has a low sperm count. He's been given a testosterone injection to boost his own testosterone levels and consequently produce more sperm. He had his first injection just before Christmas and a booster injection at the end of February and still no sign of a BFP yet!
It is a very frustrating process as we desperatly want a little baby. It's difficult to stay positive but at least after this long, the good days outnumber the bad!
Best wishes to you on your TTC journey

 

[Molly123456]

Welcome! We are getting close to our two year point of ttc. Our problem seems to be unexplained. And we have moved onto IUI. Had two unsuccessful attempts so far and currently am 2 days into the two week wait. I know how frustrating it can be! Especially when everyone around you seems to be getting pregnant (at least that's how it feels in my situation). Hopefully we can all be here to support one another!

 

[vonyu82]

Welcome - I am on month 4 TTC!! It is such a frustrating time!

I know right?? I totally get you. Sigh...

 

[vonyu82]

Welcome! We are getting close to our two year point of ttc. Our problem seems to be unexplained. And we have moved onto IUI. Had two unsuccessful attempts so far and currently am 2 days into the two week wait. I know how frustrating it can be! Especially when everyone around you seems to be getting pregnant (at least that's how it feels in my situation). Hopefully we can all be here to support one another!

Molly123456, thank you for sharing so honestly. Hang in there. Must be tough. We pray that this month would be it!! Keep updating...

 

[vonyu82]

Hi ladies,
I'm here cos someone introduced me here, and I'm hoping to journey with a few whom we can lend support to each other and cheer on until our little one comes along the way.

Husband and I have been trying for 2 years since, and it's been arduous and challenging. Every month was such a disappointment that I gave up two years into it. Not to mention I slipped into depression. Not because of this, but due to my Dad's passing 4 years ago and I haven't properly dealt with it.

Im sharing also because I'm sure there are other ladies out there who are struggling too desiring so bad to be a mummy. I can't wait to hold one of my own in my arms. And I still can't believe it's so hard to conceive.

I haven't been hard working in taking opks, until my desperation point now!! haha... so I had my first cycle of opking, and I had a beautiful positive on day 12. So now I'm keeping fingers crossed but not very hopeful honestly, because we came back from a check for my husband's spermy and it's super low in mobility rate plus the quality isn't there. That's why I'm not hopeful even though we got a positive and we dtd 3 times a week, every other day.

We also bought fertilAid for men, and I can't wait to try it out and hope in 6 month's time, we would be pregnant. I dreamt a million times how I would react when I see the whooping positive pregnancy test. Silly I know. But oh well... So 6 months it is. I also hope I am not going to have to wait another year to only have to try again and again and again!! Bleah!!

Hope to hear from you ladies...

My husband also has a very low sperm count. He was on clomid for six months and it didn't work. So he started taking a supplement called horny goat weed and it has made big difference in a short time. I recommend it. Its worth a try

Great to hear that so did you guys get preggy after that?

 

[vonyu82]

Hiya hun, welcome to the boards!

I too am in a similar situation to you, we've just had my husbands sperm analysis results back last week and he has really low motility and sperm count. We've only been trying for 9 months but decided to get tests done due to being pregnant twice before and catching the egg within 2 months both times.

A few days go we ordered the Fertilaid along with Motilityboost and Countboost, I believe that when used together you should see quite a difference in 3 months time.

Are you being referred to an infertility specialist? We are waiting for an appointment to see somebody but at the minute feel like we've hit a brick wall! xx

Hi thank you for sharing your journey. We have been to a chinese TCM, and got recommended to get him checked up. But other then that we are not seeing any specialist. We are very much hoping that these FertilAid supps would help. Did you guys see any different in the following check ups?