Its been one month taken a test my aunt flow, is due on 23rd which is also my birthday. Lol neways taken test today and negative �� feeling sad good look everbodyelse. I could still be pregnant just wanted to vent trying for a baby is so frustrating!!! Partner drinks he has tryed to cut down, just wish he would try harder, says he loves me and wants us to have a baby of our own. I asked him to stop drinking for a month to up our chances, but its like talking to a brick wall. �� he hates me nagging him, so we don't speak about it much. Its just so anoyen! He keeps saying for me not worry even alcoholics conceive children. So he says his drinking of cider everyday wont effect me getting pregnant. He smokes fags to that doesn't help. Trying for baby should be 50/50. Vent over.