Trying to get over a miscarrige

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by Piglet77, Aug 25, 2009.

  1. Piglet77

    Piglet77 New Member

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    Hi, I am new to all of this, but really need someone to talk to. I had a missed miscarrige last November, which resulted in me having to make the decision to wait and see if happened itself or have a procedure to remove it. I choose to wait as long as I could with the hope that a miracle might happen, however it didn't... It is now August and I cant seem to move on, I just feel very empty, like something is missing... Any help would be much appriciated.

    C xx
     
  2. zoe87

    zoe87 Im a new mammy!

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    hi chick i am so very sorry for urloss, I have had to M/C's the 1stwaslost naturally whilst the second i opted for medically management i was in that much pain and lost tomuch blood.
    Its been 7 months since my last m/c and 2be honest some days are harder then others. I really hit rockbottom and i thought i got over it but i guess it nveer really goes away it just gets easier in time but u will still find u have bad days where all u feel like doing is crying. ( well thats how i feel)
    if u eva need to talk im here x
     
  3. Liz2

    Liz2 Well-Known Member

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    Hey Hun, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a MC in Oct. 07'. I don't believe that it is something we ever get over, it's just something we learn to live with. I went and got a tattoo to remember. It is angel wings in the shape of a heart. I promise you the days do get better. They have for me. There are still things, songs, movies, hearing about other peoples stories that trigger so much pain and I just break down a cry. I have a very healthy 7 1/2 month old now. Having him has not filled the empty spot but it has made me realize that it all happend for a reason. I wouldn't have him if I would have had the other baby.Our bodies are amazing at detecting when something is wrong and maybe they know what is best. I hope this helps and I am always available to talk. Feel free to message me. Sending tons of hugs your way!!
     
  4. Zoey

    Zoey Well-Known Member

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    I too had a M/C in April, and I still think about it everyday, Im so sad and low everyday, i just dont know what to do anymore :( trust me your not the only one..pm me if you want to chat x
     

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