TTC #1- Looking for buddies!

[jmack54]

Wahhh I know! Hoping AF doesn't show today...

 

[SunnyBe]

It better not show! I'm not willing to give up just yet and hope you won't either

Sorry to hear that Amber Will you still be actively trying or switching to NTNP? FX!

Good luck packing babylights!! Can't wait to hear about your trip.

 

[babylights]

I'm still believing for you jmack!!!

How's the sneaky bd-ing coming along sunny??

Hi amber sorry about af, will you do anything new this month?

afm I have a sinus headache so trying to neti pot it away

 

[jmack54]

Thanks gals! I'm still in a good mood today so I'm ok with whatever happens

Sorry you aren't feeling well babylights!! Get some rest and get healthy before your trip!

Sunny do you think you O'd? Hope this is your cycle!!! We will be here egging you on during the TWW!!!

 

[babylights]

Yay jmack whatever happens it will be great! As my friend who conceived against all the odds says to me, it just needs to be the right egg!

Ugh DH and I are hot messes from allergies! I think we really need a vacation

 

[jmack54]

Thanks sunny! Definitely vacation time!!

I am just excited that my mood is positive. I feel like a lot of times the day I get a big temp drop I feel super sad and emotional ya know?

Are you going to use OPKs while you're traveling?

 

[babylights]

Yes I'm so so glad you are feeling positive! I feel like through this hard process those are the monthly wins.

I think I'm gonna opk but I realized that my times will be all flipped, at least for the few days when I think I'm gonna O. I'm actually just hoping I O at all after coming off the hormones. I'm realizing now how much better I felt after starting the hormones, this transition off of them has been rough!

 

[jmack54]

Well gals I started spotting. Looks like I'm out. Onto the next cycle with you loves! Keeping my spirits up. Xoxo

 

[babylights]

Hugs jmack ❤❤❤

 

[SunnyBe]

I don't know what to say jmack. I'm really sorry. Just by looking at your chart I was so convinced you'd get your BFP this cycle. I'm glad you're feeling positive though, that's the most important thing! If we only all found a way to cope better this journey wouldn't be so bad. On to the next!

Babylights, sorry to hear your allergies are acting up! Hope you still have time to recover a bit before Tuesday. It'll be interesting to see what your bodies does without the added hormones. I'm hoping it'll be this super-ovulation-thingy! Unless you wind up with triplets lol. Or maybe that won't be so bad, you'd probably be done having kids all in one go

Sneaky-BD has been sorta fun lol. I hate that we have to be so damn quiet but well, that also made it a bit exciting The only annoying part is that I already had a (small) temp jump today, so that could mean I O'd yesterday.. the same day as my positive OPK. It was still negative the night before so not sure what to make of it. Same thing happened last month and I manually adjusted it to O-ing the day after. We'll see what tomorrows' temp brings!

 

[jmack54]

Yay Sunnybe!! Glad you got in some sneaky BD!! Hope it was perfect timing for you this month

Babylights- are you getting ready to leave?? Do you leave tomorrow? Hope you have a wonderful vacation and conceive a little one in Paris!!

So this month I've decided not to use OPKs or temp. My cycles have been crazy regular. I've started spotting or my period every cycle on day 24. I always ovulate day 11, 12 or 13. So I'm going to try to go a little more relaxed and natural this cycle.

Also, the same month I went off the pill, we got a new house with an in-ground hot tub outside. It was the winter and we went in there every.single.night. Obviously I started researching and hot tubs can be terrible for sperm. So after a few months my DH stopped going in. I read recently it can take up to 3 months for sperm to mature to be able to conceive. So this upcoming cycle will be just about 3 months. So we are going to consider this our first real cycle trying

 

[babylights]

Yay for both of our first month of trying jmack!!! I have a really good feeling for us!

sunny I'm so eggcited for you to have stealthily caught that eggy!! Can't wait to see your bfp soon!!

I'm trying to nip this sinus headache in the bud before we leave. Hopefully the European air will be just what I need - maybe? Is that a thing? lol

 

[jmack54]

Yes Sunny get us going on a BFP streak this month!! Can't wait to check in and see how you are doing during your TWW!

I have a great feeling for us too on our "first" cycles babylights!! I think European air is exactly what you need.

I say I'm not going to temp or OPK but I'm already freaked out letting all that go haha maybe i'm a control freak?

 

[SunnyBe]

Thanks ladies! I first have to get my LP longer before I can even think about getting that BFP, so I think it'll be awhile.

Good for you jmack that you're trying a more relaxed approach. I wish I could go that route but its just not part of my personality.

Have a great trip babylights I hope you'll feel better soon!

 

[jmack54]

Hope you get a nice long LP SunnyBe!

Have an amazing trip babylights, can't wait to hear all about it!

Trying my relaxed approach this month already feels good so I'm gonna keep it going

 

[SunnyBe]

I will miss looking at your charts jmack

 

[Babydust1234]

Hey ladies haven't been on for over a month wow! Been so caught up with work I didn't even realise! This month I've been ntnp as I'm just so tired and we've had a few arguments due to me being stressed etc... we have bd'ed about twice this month. Couple of days before O and last week.. for the last week or so I've had a sharp stabbing pain in my cervix area that keeps occurring not just here and there but most of the time... I do hope i get a bfp otherwise I would be worried if It is something really serious as I never get this we haven't really tried this month so I'm not so hopeful.. other times we try so hard but this month has just flew... good luck ladies it's been nice to catch up on the posts over the last few weeks or so xx

 

[babylights]

Hey girls we're about to take off wheee! Thanks so much for thinking of me!
And I got some ewcm today - ew ish? But just hopeful my body is doing its thing.

jmack I'm so glad you're loving the more relaxed approach, I feel like it's hard to stay super chill after about 5dpo though haha!

sunny - fx you caught that eggy!!! Have you looked into how you can make your lp longer?

Hi babydust!

 

[SunnyBe]

Hiiii babydust, nice to have you back! What DPO are you? FX the stabbing pain precedes your BFP

Hope you're safely landed by now babylights! It'll be an amazing trip for sure Looks like your body is resetting itself nicely.

 

[SunnyBe]

Just read about the attacks in London. Hope you're okay babylights