That's right
Steph, we told our parents and just a couple of our closest friends. Our parents didn't know we were TTC-ing (and they never asked or pressured us, we were one of the lucky ones) so it was a bit of a shock. We said something like... "hey we have some bad news... we'll be starting IVF treatments in a few months."
They responded by almost congratulating us and that they were so excited and all. Not the kind of response I expected haha. DH did most of the talking as for some reason I was bawling my eyes out lol. They were both extremely supportive and cried/laughed etc. with us. I schooled them about the success rates though because I don't want them to get their hopes up. It's not likely that it'll work the first time, it may not work the second, third, or forth time either. Keeping expectations in check.
We agreed that they shouldn't ask for updates and that if we want to discuss something, we'll take the initiative. They completely understood. I was a bit afraid that if we didn't set boundaries, they'd bring it up when I might not have been in the mood to talk about it. So far so good
If I remember correctly, you decided against telling people right?
Good luck with your appointment tomorrow!! Looking forward to hearing more about your protocol and comparing notes
And massive respect to you for being a police officer's wife. I know I'd be a nervous wreck each and every day hehe. Hope the transition to his new team goes smoothly