Hi all,it's been a while! We decided,well I decided and persuaded hubs to try for number 4,anyway my AF is due on the 27th,sometimes a day early,sometimes a day late. For the week before I get cramps and diareha(sp). The last 6 months AF has been getting earlier,lasting longer,heavier and no warning. This month AF arrived on the 15th. I had no warning except in the morning I had ripping pains,then in the evening I went to the loo and sorry for the TMI but it was like a bloodbath,there was blood everywhere,luckily I had the forethought to wear a pad. No cramps either. It lasted a whole (!) day and a half,then it was gone as suddenly as it appreared. Nothing for a day then I had light pink spotting,then nothing,today I woke,had a pee and now I have brown spotting. I have had 3 misc's in the past and with my 2 older sons I had bleeding in early pregnancy and had the red then pink then brown. I dont have brown spotting when I have a AF. I tested and it was a BFN. We've not actually DTD for a good few weeks due to me feeling like sh*t. Anyone know what could possibly be going on? I'm a big girl,I wasnt ovualting for a long time,I had a gastric bypass and fell pregnant soon after,then 2 more miscarriages then had my younger 2 sons. Its getting me down now. I know I am lucky to have my sons when others dont.