faith2015
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So let me just start off saying that this is an extremely excited time for my dh and I. I came into this marriage with a 5 year old, so we are TTC my dh #1.
We have been trying for about 6 months now and noticed that I couldn't O. So my ob put me on clomid, and now I am 100% O'ing
This is my second cycle on clomid, keep in mind that my OB will only allow me to be on it for a total of 3 cycles.
I am currently on CD14 with + OPK yesterday(CD13) and this morning(CD14). We tried BD on CD12 but he went soft. The next morning (CD13) I woke him up to BD and he shot a blank. Last night CD13 he shot a blank again. By this time I am starting to feel like he is the issue and when I try to talk to him about it he freaks out on me. His words are, I feel pressured to perform (wow low ball way to make your wife feel awesome. Kinda makes me think then why the hell are we TTC when you feel this way or better yet, do I not turn you on????).
I am just wondering if anyone else is in my shoes and has advice for me. I got a high peak window smiley face this morning so tonight I am wanting to "try" again. But 2 things are going through my head.
1. I O'd this morning and BD wouldn't matter.
2. He shoots a blank again.
What do I do? Have some drinks with him to ease his mind to take the "pressure" off?
I am so heart broken
We have been trying for about 6 months now and noticed that I couldn't O. So my ob put me on clomid, and now I am 100% O'ing
This is my second cycle on clomid, keep in mind that my OB will only allow me to be on it for a total of 3 cycles.
I am currently on CD14 with + OPK yesterday(CD13) and this morning(CD14). We tried BD on CD12 but he went soft. The next morning (CD13) I woke him up to BD and he shot a blank. Last night CD13 he shot a blank again. By this time I am starting to feel like he is the issue and when I try to talk to him about it he freaks out on me. His words are, I feel pressured to perform (wow low ball way to make your wife feel awesome. Kinda makes me think then why the hell are we TTC when you feel this way or better yet, do I not turn you on????).
I am just wondering if anyone else is in my shoes and has advice for me. I got a high peak window smiley face this morning so tonight I am wanting to "try" again. But 2 things are going through my head.
1. I O'd this morning and BD wouldn't matter.
2. He shoots a blank again.
What do I do? Have some drinks with him to ease his mind to take the "pressure" off?
I am so heart broken