TTC #4 at 41.

[goddess25]

A little about me.

I am almost 41 next month and currently trying to conceive #4. I have 3 children Boy 6, Girl 4, Boy 18m. My hubby doesn't want another but he is kind of going with the flow, he didn't want anymore after #1.

My cycles are roughly 28-29 days although my last was 15 days late. I am hoping that my body cooperates with me. Luckily we have had no trouble conceiving up to this point, I have been pregnant 6 times, and I have PCOS which has got better for me as I got older.

I am currently in my first proper TWW.

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey hun xx I too am trying for baby number 4 I am blessed, blessed, blessed with 3 amazing LO's - I have 2 blue (8 & 4) and then my pink (2) and often I do think I am mad to keep trying but something makes me want to complete my family with baby number 4!? ....... Like your situation, my honey would have stopped at 1 but bless him he is still by my side trying for number 4!!

I have found it much harder ttc as I am now 43 but I'm not quite ready to give up yet - but I know what will be will be

Anyway hun how did your tww go? I am cd1 today xx

 

[goddess25]

Still in my TWW, due to test approximately next Tuesday but I don't feel pregnant. I feel a bit lost, we have semi tried 2 months in a row and my husband is now point blank refusing to keep trying. I am hoping that he changes his mind because I just don't feel that our family is complete however I think this may be it for us.

I just keep thinking please let me be pregnant already..as i feel my chance is over.

Good luck to you.

 

[Sunshine14]

Ahh sorry to hear that hun xx big hugs xx I had the very same problem with my honey where he was saying he had had enough of the sleepless nights, etc............... I told him that I would love him forever if he would let me try for our final baba and if he didn't I would always resent it. He thought about it for a while and then said yes and then after about a week he said he wanted a new secondhand nice car as well!! That was 2 years ago and I'm still waiting for the baba and he's still waiting for his car lol! So sometimes they can change their minds ........... good luck anyway hun hope you manage to get him to see your point of view xxx

 

[goddess25]

Thanks. AF arrived a week early although it wasn't a normal cycle. 2 months in a row my cycle has been off. I think I am having some hormonal changes. Going to head to the dr to get my hormones checked out.

I most certainly think we are done. Good luck, hope you catch soon and hubby can get that car.

 

[goddess25]

Back on track. Hubby agreed to try again this month so we will see