hello,
I'm really rather upset at reading this. It doesn't matter to me where the thread is, but it obviously does matter to some and so I'm not quite sure why the thread can't be put back to where it was.
I'm LTTTC; previously AC; TTCafteraloss; TTC35plus; TTC40plus so I fall into all sorts of categories of the disaster that is infertility. I find the thread under discussion to be a complete lifeline - I left fertilityfriends.com after my IVF miscarriage as they didn't have a miscarriage support section - the TTC after a loss supported me here wonderfully until I could no longer bear to read it and needed to move on - then I found this thread. It simply keeps me going.
This particular thread has become extremely special to its members, hence the emotional language used in its defence. We support each other during the hardest time in TTC - when time is simply running out, in fact according to most statistics, has already done so. Most of us have miscarried; most have a really hard time TTC in the face of impossible odds. Some of us know that it is entirely possible we may have to face a life without children at all. When we have a BFP on our thread we shout it loud and clear, against the wishes of moderators, as we are so close we like to celebrate each others success, even in the face of our own failure. I was upset when the BFP sticky thread appeared and we agreed that on our single thread, we would keep the BFP announcements going to keep up morale that what we're trying to do is actually possible. Once again, members have been upset by the moderators decisions. Is it not possible just to leave us be, let us enjoy the huge support provided by your wonderful site?
To move back other threads, but leave ours seems to me to be a reaction to the strong language used - correct me if I am wrong. As Isaid, I don't mind where it is, although i do not wish to trawl through 'I've been trying for 3 whole months' threads to find it, but some do and what is a site for if not for its users? As moderators, surely it is possible to do what the users wish?
My hands are actually shaking as I write this, as BnB has become so important to me in my struggles and the thought of anything upsetting our thread really hurts. As my would-have-been due date approaches I need this thread more than ever. Please don't upset everyone.
Thank you for reading,
Reb