TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Megg33k]

I thought it might be nice to list names, dates of most recent loss, and then BFP dates when we have them. For future TTC After A Loss girls will see the possibilities! I will go through the "share your story" thread (that inspired this thread... thanks TripleB) and add the ladies in it as well. If you haven't posted or I miss you, just reply with your info to be added!


1st month of thread: 18 (18)
2nd month of thread: 9 (27)
3rd month of thread: 19 (46)
4th month of thread: 11 (57)
5th month of thread: 19 (76)
6th month of thread: 20 (96)
7th month of thread: 10 (106)
8th month of thread: 17 (123)
9th month of thread: 12 (135)
10th month of thread: 11 (146)
11th month of thread: 11 (157)
12th month of thread: 7 (164)
13th month of thread: 13 (177)
14th month of thread: 12 (189)
15th month of thread: 4 (193)
16th month of thread: 8 (201)
17th month of thread: 4 (205)
18th month of thread: 4 (209)
19th month of thread: 0 (209)
20th month of thread: 1 (210)
21st month of thread: 1 (211)
22nd month of thread: 0 (211)
23rd month of thread: 0 and counting! (211)

Date of BFP Username Date of most recent loss (# of losses + # of stillbirth, neo natal losses, loss of any living child)

??? sparkle83 2006 (3)
Jun 2, 2010 3yearsttc Dec, 2006 (2)
Jan 21, 2010 banana1975 2008/2009 (1+1)
??? mumanddad Jan, 2008 (0+1)
Feb 3, 2010 wantababybump Jun, 2008 (2)
??? bbhopes Oct, 2008 (1+1)
Apr 4, 2010 zoe87 Jan, 2009 (2)
??? Dannib247 Feb, 2009 (1)
Jun 23, 2010 danielle1987 Mar, 2009 (1)
Mar 4, 2010 blondee Mar, 2009 (1)
Jan 25, 2010 babytots Apr, 2009 (3)
??? rockabyebaby Apr, 2009 (1)
??? Jaxvipe May, 2009 (1)
Feb 15, 2010 Stacey_89 May, 2009 (1)
Mar 15, 2010 MissyMojo May, 2009 (1)
??? FBbaby Jun, 2009 (1)
Mar 23, 2010 c-demers Jun, 2009 (2)
Apr 1, 2010 somedaymama Jun, 2009 (1)
Jun 7, 2010 impatient1 Jun, 2009 (1)
Dec 7, 2010 SammieGrace Jun, 2009 (1)
Jul 26, 2010 Jamaicabride Jul, 2009 (1)
Aug 29, 2010 AS1 Jul, 2009 (3)
Oct 1, 2010 Groovychick Jul, 2009 (1)
Mar 18, 2011 BABYCAREY Aug, 2009 (1)
May 30, 2010 wish2bmama Aug, 2009 (1)
Feb 20, 2010 thesmiths88 Sep, 2009 (1)
??? Ten Sep, 2009 (1)
Feb 13, 2010 tabbicles Sep, 2009 (1)
Feb 27, 2010 39YrMumtoOne Sep, 2009 (1)
Jun 14, 2010 SunShyn2205 Sep, 2009 (2)
Jan 10, 2011 MrsCrabsticke Sep, 2009 (3)
May 9, 2010 TripleB Oct, 2009 (1)
Mar 17, 2010 KimmyB Oct, 2009 (1)
May 21, 2010 smiler79 Oct, 2009 (1)
Feb 4?, 2011 maybabydoll Oct, 2009 (1)
??? LeaArr Oct, 2009 (2)
Jan 22?, 2010 Niffycat Oct, 2009 (1)
Oct 26, 2010 Mummytofour Oct, 2009 (1)
Jul 6, 2010 surreysharon Oct, 2009 (2)
Apr 6, 2010 Bella's Mamma Nov, 2009 (1)
Jul 8, 2010 SmileyShazza Nov, 2009 (1)
Feb 12, 2011 KittyKatBabe Nov, 2009 (2)
May 14, 2010 fluffyblue Nov, 2009 (5)
Feb 4, 2010 wanabamummy Nov, 2009 (1)
Mar 24, 2010 babyell Nov, 2009 (1)
Nov 1, 2010 babyhopes10 Nov, 2009 (2)
Jan 29, 2010 BeanieBaby Nov, 2009 (1)
May 4, 2011 truly_blessed Nov, 2009 (1)
Mar 23, 2010 RileysMummy Nov, 2009 (1)
Mar 27, 2010 lolly25 Nov, 2009 (1)
Aug 30, 2010 BizyBee Nov, 2009 (1)
Feb 21, 2010 nickynoonoo Nov, 2009 (3)
Jun 16, 2010 Rainbowpea Nov, 2009 (1)
Jun 17, 2010 julie_h Dec, 2009 (1)
Mar 5, 2010 sue247 Dec, 2009 (1)
Sep 9, 2010 tinybutterfly Dec, 2009 (1)
May 10, 2010 hb1 Dec, 2009 (1)
Mar 12, 2010 Tulip Dec, 2009 (1)
Jul 20, 2010 debgreasby Dec, 2009 (1)
??? Serene123 Dec, 2009 (2)
Feb 24, 2010 chocolate Dec, 2009 (1)
May 9, 2010 QueenieMurphy Dec, 2009 (1)
Jan 25, 2010 starsunshine Dec, 2009 (1)
??? mika Dec, 2009 (4)
Jun 19, 2010 Daisygirl82 Dec, 2009 (0+1)
Jan 29, 2010 WantaBelly Dec, 2009 (2)
Mar 19, 2010 Lolly W Dec, 2009 (2)
Mar 11, 2010 lilboo Dec, 2009 (2)
Jan 23, 2010 scarlett83 Dec, 2009 (1)
May 6, 2010 rach83 Dec, 2009 (2)
Mar 20, 2010 price27 Dec, 2009 (0+1)
Mar 9, 2010 louise1608 Dec, 2009 (1)
??? HappyJacky Dec, 2009 (1)
Mar 24, 2010 Hannah76 Dec, 2009 (1)
Jan 27, 2011 Lincoln Girl Dec, 2009 (1)
Apr 27, 2010 MrsRoughton Dec, 2009 (2)
Aug 18, 2010 Charliemarina Jan, 2010 (3)
Feb 3, 2010 Dimbo Jan, 2010 (1)
Jan 26, 2010 Boozle Jan, 2010 (1)
Apr 8, 2010 Bexyboop Jan, 2010 (1)
Feb 15, 2010 Kaylz--x Jan, 2010 (1)
Jun 14, 2010 goddess25 Jan, 2010 (2)
Jul 16, 2010 bumble b Jan, 2010 (2)
Jul 11, 2011 beadyeyes Jan, 2010 (1)
??? Truffleax Jan, 2010 (1)
Jan 25, 2011 groovygrl Jan, 2010 (1)
Sep 19, 2010 xshell79 Jan, 2010 (1)
Mar 23, 2010 everthingX Jan, 2010 (1)
Sep 6, 2010 Aerdrie Jan, 2010 (1)
Apr 24, 2010 sar35 Jan, 2010 (1)
??? w8ing4bean Jan, 2010 (1)
Apr 17, 2010 sincerevon Jan, 2010 (1)
Jun 18, 2010 Loren Feb, 2010 (1)
Mar 22, 2010 Wantabean Feb, 2010 (5)
Jan 4, 2011 doddy0402 Feb, 2010 (3)
Apr 12, 2010 mrsG5 Feb, 2010 (1)
May 1, 2010 emdeb Feb, 2010 (2)
Sep 19, 2010 cutelou101 Feb, 2010 (1 - Twins)
??? Dazed Feb, 2010 (1)
Sep 22, 2010 mintypeas Feb, 2010 (1)
Apr 5, 2010 hmu04146 Feb, 2010 (1)
??? Sydd Feb, 2010 (1)
Sep 26, 2010 Chase Feb, 2010 (2+1 - 1 Twins)
Sep 14, 2010 shiseru Feb, 2010 (1+1)
Apr 17, 2010 2016 Mar, 2010 (2)
Jul 5, 2011 Kaylakin Mar, 2010 (1)
May 27, 2010 ROSSLOUN Mar, 2010 (2)
Jul 24, 2010 Jaymes Mar, 2010 (1)
May 29, 2010 kazimotto Mar, 2010 (1)
Jun 29, 2010 Vickieh1981 Mar, 2010 (2)
Jul 1, 2010 sugartush08 Mar, 2010 (1)
Aug 21, 2010 prgirl_cesca Mar, 2010 (1)
May 2, 2010 eclipse Mar, 2010 (3)
Apr 19, 2010 Josiejo Mar, 2010 (3)
Jul 9, 2010 Minimin Mar, 2010 (3)
Feb 13, 2011 NatoPMT Mar, 2010 (1)
May 31, 2010 mandy121 Mar, 2010 (1)
Apr 19, 2010 ablacketer Mar, 2010 (1)
Aug 26, 2010 Lindyloo Mar, 2010 (1 - Twins)
??? Felicia Mar, 2010 (1)
Jul 19, 2010 lovehearts Mar, 2010 (1)
Aug 12, 2010 Mummy2Angel. Mar, 2010 (1)
May 31, 2010 sugrplum Mar, 2010 (1)
Oct 19, 2010 heva510 Mar, 2010 (1)
May 30, 2010 KitKatBit Mar, 2010 (1)
Jun 25, 2010 Heulyn Mar, 2010 (2)
Jun 28, 2010 zoefromsussex Mar, 2010 (1)
Oct 25, 2010 lilly77 Mar, 2010 (1)
Jun 14, 2010 Ava Grace Apr, 2010 (2)
May 7, 2010 mamaxm Apr, 2010 (1)
Mar 9, 2011 maratobe Apr, 2010 (3)
Jul 7, 2010 posh Apr, 2010 (1+1)
Jun 23, 2010 Nixilix Apr, 2010 (1)
Jul 4, 2010 Chimpette Apr, 2010 (2)
Sep 14, 2010 Lucia Apr, 2010 (2 - 1 twins)
Aug 8, 2010 Beadette Apr, 2010 (2)
Jul 9, 2010 EpdTTC Apr, 2010 (2)
May 29, 2010 WannaB Apr, 2010 (4)
May 22, 2010 VGibs Apr, 2010 (3+1)
Jun 17, 2010 Lucina Apr, 2010 (1)
Jul 7, 2010 mushmouth Apr, 2010 (1)
??? Becs4410 Apr, 2010 (0+1)
??? CaosDivino Apr, 2010 (1)
May 17, 2011 bluesky Apr, 2010 (1)
Jul 18, 2010 pea-in-pod May, 2010 (3)
Jul 1, 2010 roonsma May, 2010 (3)
May 20, 2010 alisarose May, 2010 (0+1)
Jun 29, 2010 Firedancer41 May, 2010 (1+1)
Aug 11, 2010 Mrmojo1971 May, 2010 (1)
Apr 16, 2011 babywanted73 May, 2010 (3)
Aug 17, 2010 meow951 May, 2010 (1)
Jun 19, 2010 msarkozi May, 2010 (1)
??? Rikki May, 2010 (4)
Sep 16, 2010 FierceAngel May, 2010 (4+1)
Nov 7, 2010 stacey_ May, 2010 (1)
Mar 17, 2011 Jasa1911 May, 2010 (6+1)
Jul 14, 2010 Sarah+3 May, 2010 (2)
Dec 24?, 2010 lisamumof1 May, 2010 (1)
??? 1szfitzall May, 2010 (1)
Sep 14, 2010 Poisonwood May, 2010 (3)
??? puppymom32 June, 2010 (6)
Aug 31, 2010 Rmar June, 2010 (2)
Sep 20, 2010 aussiettc Jun, 2010 (3)
Oct 16, 2010 strawberry19 Jun, 2010 (1)
??? mlyn26 Jun, 2010 (2)
Jul 27, 2010 parkgirl Jun, 2010 (1)
??? bellascar Jun, 2010 (3)
Feb 10, 2011 maaybe2010 Jun, 2010 (1)
Dec 12, 2010 svetayasofiya Jun, 2010 (1)
??? princessjulia Jun, 2010 (1)
Oct 7?, 2010 Lynsay Jun, 2010 (1)
Sep 5, 2010 Lucy1973 Jun, 2010 (2)
Nov 20, 2010 sunshinegirl Jun, 2010 (3)
Sep 3?, 2010 KatienSam Jun, 2010 (3)
??? nicole1980 Jun, 2010 (0+1)
Sep 24, 2010 klcuk3 Jun, 2010 (1)
Oct 19, 2010 Flybee Jun, 2010 (1)
Nov 9, 2010 Babyfever02 Jun, 2010 (1)
Aug 20, 2010 MADLYTTC Jul, 2010 (1)
Mar 30, 2011 tryforbaby2 Jul, 2010 (1)
??? africaqueen Jul, 2010 (3)
Oct 18, 2010 foxforce Jul, 2010 (1)
Oct 11, 2010 Sassy_TTC Jul, 2010 (4)
??? heart tree Jul, 2010 (3)
Oct 24, 2010 dan-o Jul, 2010 (2)
Sep 23?, 2010 fish girl Jul, 2010 (1)
??? Becci_Boo86 Jul, 2010 (3)
??? moochacha Jul, 2010 (4 - 1 twins)
Sep 26, 2010 Fergie89 Jul, 2010 (1)
Nov 20, 2010 raisin Jul, 2010 (1)
Sep 25, 2010 chevelle383 Jul, 2010 (3)
Mar 2, 2011 Tititimes2 Jul, 2010 (1 - twins)
Nov 8, 2010 shelldodds Jul, 2010 (1)
Dec 18, 2010 susan36 Jul, 2010 (1)
Jan 15, 2011 Fallen Angel Jul, 2010 (1)
Feb 4, 2011 Daniele89 Jul, 2010 (1)
Mar 1, 2011 hopenfaith90 Jul, 2010 (2)
Aug 8, 2011 gueyilla1985 Jul, 2010 (1)
??? C&J Aug, 2010 (2)
Dec 8, 2010 reversal Aug, 2010 (1)
Sep 17, 2010 zippy4 Aug, 2010 (2)
Jan 31, 2011 littlebabyno4 Aug, 2010 (1)
?Aug 14, 2011 Whitbit22 Aug, 2010 (1)
Apr 7, 2011 ariesmandy Aug, 2010 (1)
Oct 22, 2010 Chelsea41205 Aug, 2010 (1)
Dec 6, 2010 yogi77 Aug, 2010 (1)
??? Shellhawk Aug, 2010 (1)
??? animalcracker Sep, 2010 (1)
Nov 2, 2010 babesx3 Sep, 2010 (1)
Dec 1, 2010 Cupcake1979 Sep, 2010 (2)
Dec 3, 2010 sequeena Sep, 2010 (3)
Nov 24, 2010 Lawa Sep, 2010 (7)
Nov 7, 2010 JackiePed Sep, 2010 (1)
Feb 3, 2011 grandbleu Sep, 2010 (1)
??? kdd0311 Sep, 2010 (1)
Dec 28, 2010 eviestar Sep, 2010 (0+1)
??? babysimpson Sep, 2010 (4)
Feb 26, 2011 hoping Oct, 2010 (4 - 1 twins)
??? Round2 Oct, 2010 (2)
Feb 16, 2011 Fairybabe Oct, 2010 (2)
Feb 6, 2011 jules1 Oct, 2010 (1)
Dec 8, 2010 MissMummy2Be Oct, 2010 (1)
??? Tasha16 Oct, 2010 (5)
Dec 16, 2010 LucyJ Oct, 2010 (3)
Feb 23, 2011 fides Oct, 2010 (1)
??? MinnieMone Nov, 2010 (4)
May 25, 2011 LunaBean Nov, 2010 (6)
May 2, 2011 MrsGAnderson Nov, 2010 (1)
??? sar0417 Nov, 2010 (1)
Dec 4, 2010 Shashy Nov, 2010 (2)
Feb 18?, 2011 SuperKat Nov, 2010 (1)
Jan 18, 2011 Tigerlilies Nov, 2010 (3)
??? laura_2010 Nov, 2010 (1)
??? mandy1985 Nov, 2010 (2)
Feb 28, 2011 coco84 Nov, 2010 (1)
May 21, 2011 honeybee28 Dec, 2010 (1)
??? BFPSeeker Dec, 2010 (2)
Mar 29, 2011 jonnanne3 Dec, 2010 (7)
Jan 6, 2011 kelly89 Dec, 2010 (1)
??? 1stbabylost Dec, 2010 (1)
May 4, 2011 truthbtold Dec, 2010 (0+1)
??? mrphyemma Dec, 2010 (1)
Jul 26, 2011 ovenbun Dec, 2010 (3)
Mar 8, 2011 ttcstill Jan, 2011 (4)
Feb 18, 2011 Rabbittchild Jan, 2011 (5)
Mar 11, 2011 stardust22 Jan, 2011 (3)
??? pinkmeringue Jan, 2011 (1)
Feb 25, 2011 joey300187 Jan, 2011 (5)
Apr 27, 2011 lynnb Jan, 2011 (2)
??? katiemc88 Jan, 2011 (1)
??? Megg33k Feb, 2011 (3)
??? Amos2009 Feb, 2011 (7)
??? Doodar Feb, 2011 (2)
??? hopefulmama2b Feb, 2011 (2)
??? Rumpskin Feb, 2011 (4)
??? Bittersweet Feb, 2011 (5)
Mar 21, 2011 Sarah12 Feb, 2011 (1)
??? MsJMouse Feb, 2011 (1)
??? Ruskiegirl Apr, 2011 (6)
May 18, 2011 MissMaternal Apr, 2011 (1+2)
??? BabyRuby11 Apr, 2011 (0+1)
Jun 2, 2011 Mellybelle Apr, 2011 (2)
Jul 19, 2011 waiting 4 bfp Apr, 2011 (1+1)
??? greeneyes26 May, 2011 (2)
??? mommyandbump May, 2011 (1+1)
??? yorkshire May, 2011 (2)
??? padbrat Jun, 2011 (5 - 1 twins)
??? Embo78 Jun, 2011 (3)
??? helenttc Jun, 2011 (2)
??? jenny25 Jul, 2011 (3+2)
Nov 21, 2011 cla Jul, 2011 (4)
??? MrsMM24 Jul, 2011 (1)
??? Sparkly Jul, 2011 (2)
Sep 26, 2011 petitpas Jul, 2011 (5)
??? Mrs.Garcia Aug, 2011 (2)
??? selina3127 Aug, 2011 (3)
??? beachlover1 Aug, 2011 (3)
??? butterfly00 August, 2011 (1)
??? pink80 Sep, 2011 (2)
??? Lamburai1703 Jun, 2011 (8)
??? Razcox Dec, 2011 (4)
??? dawny690 Dec, 2011 (5)

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Our stats!!!

2008
33.3-50% of our girls have BFP's!

2009
(parentheses show # of people in a given month)
Jan 100% (1)
Feb 0% (1)
Mar 100% (2)
Apr 50% (2)
May 67% (3)
Jun 80% (5)
Jul 100% (3)
Aug 100% (2)
Sep 83% (6)
Oct 87.5% (8)
Nov 100% (14)
Dec 87% (23)

2010
Jan 82.4% (17)
Feb 61.5% (13)
Mar 100% (23)
Apr 87.5% (16)
May 87.5% (16)
Jun 65% (20)
Jul 85% (20)
Aug 77.8% (9)
Sep 66.7% (9)
Oct 71.4% (7)
Nov 60% (10)
Dec 71.4% (7)

2011
Jan 71.4% (7)
Feb 12.5% (8)
Mar N/A (0)
Apr 60% (5)
May 0% (3)
Jun 33.3% (3)
Jul 40% (5)
Aug 0% (4)
Sep 0% (2)
Oct N/A (0)
Nov NA (0)
Dec 0% (2)

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If I have a / in your loss date, it's because I couldn't tell from your post when exactly it happened. Please let me know and I'll be happy to correct them! Same for anyone that I might have messed up your date for some reason or another!

Bring on those s!

~*BABY DUST*~

Time drags on, as months roll by.
Each month we say, "Just one more try!"
It seems our goal is out of reach,
A little one to love and teach...
A precious baby, to watch her grow.
Will it ever happen? We need to know!
As the days pass by, we all lose hope.
We wonder how we're going to cope.
The OPKs, the temperature chart,
The knowledge we hope they will impart.
The baby dance then our legs in the air,
To Mr. Storky, a silent prayer.
Soup in the bowl and sticky beans,
Our husbands don't know what it means.
The two week wait, the early tests,
Squeezing to check for tender breasts!
The urge to to test that we try and fight.
We always fail, try as we might.
With hopeful hearts, we pee on a stick!
Please let our charts be triphasic!
Is there a line? We strain our eyes.
We're waiting for that grand surprise!
We need a BFP to end our plight!
So,we hold the stick we hold up to the light.
We dissect the cartridge to photograph the test,
Every day we just get more obsessed!
Just two pink lines, it's all we ask,
So we'll know we've finally completed our task.
With heavy hearts, a BFN!
We promise not to test again...
Unless Aunt Flow just doesn't show!
That is when we'll truly know!
We'll wait and hope, worry and cry.
We'll symptom spot until we nearly die!
But, our time will come... in this I trust!
I wish you PMA and BABY DUST!​

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Off Topic: Codes for requested "smilies"... sort of!

DUST

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and

BFE

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[Beadette]

Sounds great Meg! x

 

[Serene123]

So do we put our names down after we get our next or before?

 

[Bella's Mamma]

Hey Megg, Great idea hon.

Mine was a MMC on the 25th November, I was ten weeks. Hoping for my BFP this cycle pleeeease!

 

[Serene123]

My last one was 5th Dec x

 

[Megg33k]

Thanks! Yeah, before Toria... That way we can watch those ???'s turn into dates! I'll update now!

Bella - If it was up to me, you'd have it! I'd like the same!

 

[TripleB]

What a fab idea Megg, I love it! Can't wait to see some of those BFPs getting dates after them - good luck all!

 

[Serene123]

Maybe you could put how many losses too, so people can see it's possible to have a successful pregnancy after -- number of losses?

 

[Megg33k]

I could totally do that... maybe a (#) at the end there? Uhm... lemme have a look!

Edit: Have added them... I put 2 for you Toria... but I could be wrong! Please correct me if I am!

 

[blondee]

Hi Meg33k,

I had an mmc in March 2009, could you pls add me?

I LOVE this thread, it's exactly the kind of thing we need to give us hope.

Thank you so much for doing this.

M X

 

[fluffyblue]

Hey babe last loss Nov 09 xx

 

[Megg33k]

I'm happy to do this... I just hope it helps us all find the hope we need! I've added you girls... since I'm posting # of losses... let me know if I have any of them wrong!

 

[dan-o]

My loss was in march 2009 xx

 

[Serene123]

2 is right x

Hopefully we'll all be leaving hope in here soon x

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Mine is correct, just hope I can have you update with the BFP in the next few months x x x

 

[Beadette]

Love this idea! Lots of BFP's coming our way in 2010!!! X

 

[Charliemarina]

hey huns iv now lost 3 beans the most recent being 4th jan 2010 could u add me huns thanks

 

[scarlett83]

My loss was December 2008

 

[SmileyShazza]

What a great idea - thank you Meg

I really hope we can see all those flashing BFPs with some dates next to them soon.

Good luck ladies

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To each and every one of you xxx

 

[FBbaby]

Hi Megg,
My loss was June 09