You don't need to understand why if you are going to judge the opinion or option to do so. If that is what you do in your country fine I guess. but its no wrong way its an option regardless of how you feel and im sure ladies on this thread who decided to do D&C didn't care any less for their baby then you did. Its a very sensitive subject so to question someone's reasoning for their option is unacceptable and rude to me, we are all grieving.
I never said anything rude or personal or nasty or incorrect, I asked a simple question which is why these forum exsist
what I find rude is people giving out offensive, outdated, incorrect propergander to induce fear and remove people choices with lines line 'suffering alone' and 'flushing your baby down the toilet'
I provided factual infomation on other option and asked about the D&C at no point did I state the offensive, outdated, incorrect propergander on D&C about 'scaring' and 'infertility' because im smart enough to know that stuff is known to be wrong and offensive to anyone thats been through it
look at what you post and how seriously damaging it can be before you get annoyed at some asking a legitimate question
this post wasnt aimed at just D&C it also said 'or miscarraige' which allows anyone who had any other type of miscarraige to post here, I answered your question about months to concieve and yet you launched personally into an attack on choices due to my simple question (which no one has to answer if they dont want or feel it was a personal choice) the question was mainly to ask if that had been the only option offered and to allow some people to know their are other MMC options
I also didnt say ANYONE here loved their baby less at any point or werent grieving, you litrally wrote that we 'flush or babies down toilets' so it was you that said that
im sorry MY experiance with MY baby and MY choice somehow makes you feel that but thats not my fault