TTC after Early Miscarriage

[kasey590]

So after our healthy pregnancy that has turned into a healthy 4 year old we found out a week and a half ago that we were pregnant but then miscarried last week. I was only 4 weeks at the most and when they gave me an ultrasound there was no biproduct left in the womb and i didnt need any medication or antibiotics. I have been told we can try again straight away after i stop bleeding however I am curious about what constitutes as bleeding? Im now down to very minimal brown discharge and we are both eager to try again asap as we know that the chances of falling pregnant again are higher straight after having an MC so we want to give it a shot. I want to know if im still getting a brown discharge does this mean my cervix is still open so i risk infection if we have sex and start trying now? Or does it just mean its old blood sitting in my canal (its late and i cant think of a better word lol) and slowly being expelled? Basically I wanna know If i can start BD'ing tomorrow night lol!

any advice??? Its not when i wipe it was only when i went up there (yes i know TMI sorryyyy!!!)

 

[happynewmom1]

I lost one end of March at 6 weeks. When it was just a small amount of brown discharge left, we started to bd again. I do check my cervix sometimes though and I know mine was closed at the time. We bd a lot that cycle.. I wasn't sure when I ovulated but we bd enough it didn't matter so much except for my sanity would have been nice lol we did get pregnant again end of April but sadly lost that one at 4 weeks so for us it was true we got pregnant quickly and I've read many success stories for having a healthy baby quickly after mc. I think when you feel physically ready and the discharge is very minimal, go for it. Good luck to you!

 

[kasey590]

We just don't want to wait. It's time for Bub number two we waited till we were married and now it's just gotta hurry up and happen. We've decided to start trying tonight so fingers crossed!!!