TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[PJ32]

Hi Ladies

Poppy - wow thats early FX'd chickadee

Hope everyone else is doing well and not going too crazy in the TWW.

ASFM - Think I O'd on CD 13 so am in the TWW but am still getting really dark OPKs so am still DTD every other just in case.

 

[poppy666]

Hey PJ yep early toooooooooooooooooo early my cycle still not back to normal fx you catch that eggy this cycle lovely

 

[PJ32]

Hi Pops,

Hope we both do this month I have a good feeling but still not sure if iv'd O'd or not. Just need to keep until my OPKs go negative.

Hows everything with you after the crappy weekend?

 

[poppy666]

Yeah settling down thanks Gage is ok and starting councelling next month, he scared to go out drinking now so staying at home atm bless him. Hope they catch the vile monster soon, but they think they seen Gage on CCTV so fx its him and they can locate the Taxi x

As for positive opks deffo keep dtd every other day till they go negative sweetie.. im going to poas too in a sec b/c i dont trust my cycle lol x

Last month ov'd on CD10 and af didnt arrive till 16dpo so thinking its going to do same this month x

 

[PJ32]

aww pops it must be so hard for you all at the moment. You sound like a really strong family and I am ure you will get through this together. not a good start to 2011 for you but I am sure it will get much better from here on in xx they will find the swine and string him up.

Go a poas hun, think ive done 10 now. mmmmmm glad I didn't stop though.

Might head over to ding dong in a mo, finding it difficult to get online so need to catch up.

 

[poppy666]

Awww lol Yep im off to poas... just ordered some more frer's too ready for next week.. its all money money catch you over there later x

 

[PJ32]

see you later aligator :wave:

 

[lilrojo]

Morning ladies...

Hope you all catch your eggys!!! Af still sticking around and seems to have taken revenge on the 3 days of no flow.. I must say I liked that better lol! Hopefully be gone in 2 days... and we can move on to the fun part.. and hopefully the more carefree part this month.. that will prob be when Im off for a bit.. just to have some fun...
hope you all are well.. ive ordered my opks so they should be on their way!

 

[pip7890]

Hi lilrojo.

AF has completely dried up this afternoon. Hopefully that's it for this month and it isn't going to suddenly reappear.

On way home now. My thermometer and monitor have arrived so looking forward to playing with them tonight. Any hints and tips greatly appreciated.

Enjoy the rest of your day folks.

Pip x

 

[mami2karina]

Ladies I'm having a major problem with my OB and I'm not sure what to do.

Okay here goes. I am so upset right now. I have been really sick with this pregnancy and I'm not quite 7 weeks yet. I have had to go to the ER several times to be rehydrated but I also ended up with the flu really bad over the weekend. Friday evening I started getting a really bad pain over by my right ovary. So by Saturday it was even worse. I called the nurse pracitioner on call for my OB and she said I needed to go to the ER immediately to have an ultrasound to check it out. Well my pelvic ultrasound was perfect, no cysts, no bleeds, baby was measuring 6+3 and HB was 117. They sent me home and said if I had any more trouble to come back. Well by the time I got home I was so sick and in so much pain I couldn't move. I had to have my grandma take me back to the ER. Needless to say when I returned there was a different doctor and nurse tending to me and they were HORRIBLE. They treated me like absolute shit. I was in tears. All the doctor wanted to do was a pelvic exam, my pelvic u/s was fine there was need for it. I refused so he called my OB down how then informed me I was having too many problems this early one. He finally admitted me just to shut me up. I was bawling for over 2 hours. I just don't know what to do. When I got home Sunday I posted about my horrible experience on Facebook and a "friend" of mine took it upon herself to call my doctor and make up a bunch of lies and I just got a phone call from my OB chewing my ass out. I don't know what to do. I trust my doctor, he's been my OB/GYN for 9 years now. I don't want to switch doctors. But he told me he didn't appreciate my complaining and he'd be more than happy to help me switch doctors. I told him I don't want that. And what my "friend" was saying was untrue. I had a problem with the ER staff. And I let everyone at the hospital know it too. I just don't appreciate getting a phone call from my doctor chewing me out because I had a complaint. I wasn't going to say anything to him. Even though he made some out of line comments to me while I was in the ER. I am just lost right now. He's very mad at me and now I have to deal with him for the next 7 months or so and I'm afraid I won't get the care that baby and I deserve from here on out thanks to this "friend". He said he would do his best to treat me. But now I'm scared that this is going to be horrible. I'm in tears now and I just don't know what to do.

 

[poppy666]

I know he's your doctors sweetie, but get another one and fast. This behaviour is terrible and you gotta think of your baby here now there is plenty of lovely doctors out there x Thats what id do you dont need this stress x

 

[puppycat]

Definitely agree with poppy and I'd block and remove the "friend" too

 

[mami2karina]

She's deleted and blocked. I just can't imagine why in the world she would go and do this. I think I'm going to call and see if I can get in somewhere else. I like my OB but that was completely unprofessional and uncalled for. I am beyond upset right now. I'm afraid to go to my appointment next week.

 

[pip7890]

I second Poppy and Puppycat. Your friend and doctor were both out of order.

Keep calm and don't stress. Just take positive action.



Pip x

 

[mami2karina]

Thanks ladies. I just can't believe this is happening. Take about being taken by complete and utter surprise.

 

[puppycat]

Honey please don't stress about it. You have a little bean growing inside your tummy whoneeds mum to stay calm and take care of herself. Forget your so called friend and the OB, seriously there's plenty of nice Drs out there - ones that don't listen to school yard gossip! xx

 

[mami2karina]

I know. I'm alright now. I talked to DH about it and he said it's my decision. I'll see what happens on Tuesday and if I still don't feel right about it I'll tell him I need to switch. I have a doctor in mind, the one that delivered my 2 year old. She was awesome! I can't believe my little man is 2 today!

 

[pip7890]

Happy Birthday Alexander

Pip x

 

[poppy666]

Awww happy birthday Alexander my LO is 1 in 4wks time flies x

 

[lilrojo]

Hey ladies, I also agree change doctors.. you are pregnant and your Dr should know better than to treat you that way, no matter if he is mad or not.. hes a professional.. a Dr... not a friend.. and ppl will do things to hurt us all the time, which is what your so called friend did, her life may suck so she is trying to bring you down too.. dont let her.. stand up and be the bigger person, and get a new dr.. Hugs feel better.. and happy second bday to your son!

My daughter is 19 months.. they grow too fast..

Pip hope you catch your eggy.. and happy af is done, cant wait for mine to end.. ugh she has shown her wrath.. lol!

Poppy-cant wait for you to test! Good luck
Em-when r you testing hun.. havent heard much from you today, hope your doing well..

Puppy-stay positive, still early, your BFP is just around the corner...