TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

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Just back in. Still very confused. No cramps. Very watery mucus streaked with red and brown. Feels nothing like a period. Still nauseous. Still got sore boobs. If it's :witch: she should bloody well get on with it.

Night all.

Pip x
 
Thanks ladies.. still not full force af.. at times it feels like af and others i feel completely normal.. i never realized my cycle would be so messed up after a miscarriage.. so annoying.. I mean come on Im 24 years old.. i have started vitamin B6.. to help make my lp longer.. its been around 10 days now.. think i will still use opks.. and see what happens.. feeling confused though about this af.. so strange usually day 2 is heavier than whatever this is.. ugh will keep you all posted.. good luck to the rest of you..
 
Snap lilrojo. I would have expected first AF post m/c to be odd but not second. It's more like the bleeds I used to get on the mirena.

I'm off out for the day. Enjoy whatever you're up to.

:hug:

Pip x
 
I know this is crazy, pip... I had my miscarriage back in November, so this is the 3rd af.. and still not normal at all...there is no flow.. just brown and some darker red now when i go to the bathroom.. waiting to tom morning i think, if no actual flow testing again..

hope your all well..
 
Sorry you're both having a confusing time. I had my first AF after m/c on Jan 29th and it only lasted 3 days. Was very heavy though and then I spotted for about 5 days after. It's definitely not a normal AF the first time but like you said, you're on second and third AF's and I'm not due second AF until next Saturday so don't know what it'll be like (hoping it doesn't arrive at all though obviously!)

Well I have had a lovely day today. I went out for lunch with my best mate who is 18weeks pg, I've been groping bump and hearing stories about indigestion and heartburn all day so it makes me even more determined to get knocked up ASAP! lol

I have been so impatient and tested last night AND this morning AND again about 10 mins ago. lol. I have stared so hard at the HPT but I still can't see anything - of course it's so early but jeez I want to know NOW!! I have had a faint second line on the OPK's but I know that doesn't mean anything because you can get a line on those before AF is due anyway.

Enough about me, tell me about you!
 
Evening lilrojo and puppycat.

I've decided to treat it as AF even though it doesn't feel like a normal period. I've had no cramps; I'm changing a regular tampon every 2 or 3 hours and it isn't even soaked through; and it's still very mucousy with both red and brown blood. My boobs have stopped hurting and are now really soft, but I still feel a little nauseous.

I'm focusing on the positive: (1) if this is AF then I'm on CD1 [not counting yesterday as it was just spotting] of a new cycle therefore it is a new opportunity to TTC; (2) my Clearblue Fertility Monitor should arrive on Tuesday or Wednesday so I can start using that; and (3) well, struggling to find a third positive so guess I'll just have to stick at 2!!

Pip x
 
Glad you are keeping positive Pip. That monitor sounds intriguing, what does it do exactly?
 
puppycat said:
Glad you are keeping positive Pip. That monitor sounds intriguing, what does it do exactly?
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Thanks puppycat. I have lived with depression most of my life and had a nervous breakdown 16 years ago. Every day I look for the positive because I never want to be that low again. I'll be honest, I'm finding it very hard to be positive at the moment. However, I'm determined that I will get a :bfp: and so losing my head over it all won't make it happen any quicker. I must say that the support I receive on BnB, particularly this thread makes such a positive difference.

As to the monitor, this is a link to the manufacturer's website: https://www.clearblue.com/uk/clearblue-fertility-monitor.php and the page on Amazon where I ordered it: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Clearblue-81104584-Fertility-Monitor/dp/B0012PB8EO

Whilst it is expensive, if it helps me establish the key dates in my cycle sooner rather than later it has got to be worth it. I don't have the luxury of spending the next 6 months charting my cycles to see when I ovulate, cycle length and so on and then start TTC. I'm going to use it in conjunction with temping and monitoring my CM. I've read the Fertility Friend tutorials so feel much more knowledgeable about what's going on.

Me, me, me!!!

Enjoy your POAS. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

:hug:

Pip x
 
Im thinking its af too but there hasnt been any flow.. its so weird.. just brown and red.. usually heavier and it to me doesnt feel like af at all.. usually im having cramps and just feeling bleh.. just keeping an eye on it i guess.. might order my opks and stuff off the interent.. and test again if no flow starts.. wasnt due till tues for my af.. so we will see...
 
I know. Weird. Still no cramps for me but I've had a constant light pain (like ov pain) on left hand side for about last hour. Haven't been sick and no temp - ectopic pregnancy had crossed my mind.

Absolutely wrung out emotionally so heading off to bed now.

Night night.

Pip x
 
Hi Puppycat

I'm bleeding slightly heavier than yesterday but it's still not much (super tampon lightly soaked in 7 hours). No cramps despite there been some clots. Nausea gone and boobs heavy but soft. :bfn: last night and didn't bother to test this morning. Don't feel pregnant and don't feel like I'm on my period. Weird!

Got confirmation that my monitor will be delivered tomorrow. Going to save my fmu in the morning so I can test when I get home.

How is everyone else?

Pip x
 
pip7890 said:
Hi Puppycat

I'm bleeding slightly heavier than yesterday but it's still not much (super tampon lightly soaked in 7 hours). No cramps despite there been some clots. Nausea gone and boobs heavy but soft. :bfn: last night and didn't bother to test this morning. Don't feel pregnant and don't feel like I'm on my period. Weird!

Got confirmation that my monitor will be delivered tomorrow. Going to save my fmu in the morning so I can test when I get home.

How is everyone else?

Pip x
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Can you test tonight Pip just to be sure? Good luck but maybe it is just one of those slow to get going AF's?? My 1st AF after the MC was very weird and stop/starty. :flower:
 
Very weird Pip, it's so frustrating not knowing one way or the other.
 
Morning ladies, my "normal" part of af finally kicked in.. heavier now.. finally.. hate being happy about my af but at least I know whats up.. CD4, yay hopefully this wont affect the length of my af.. usually 7 days, has never been more so we shall see...

Started Vit B6 so make my lp longer, 200mg a day.. hopefully that will be the trick!

cant wait for af to be out the door.. may take a small break from bnb... i will still check in to see how you are all doing.. just want to get back to the fun of ttc.. sex for fun not just to make a baby.. less stress.. I wish you all the best and hope for some BFPs.. Hopefully we will have have Nov-Dec babies!
 
Thanks Puppycat.

My first AF after the m/c was "normal" Dee which is why I'm concurrent this strange one. My boobs have started hurting again as well now!!

Enjoy your break lilrojo. I'll miss you so do drop in every now and then to let us know how you are

:hug:

Pip x
 
Thanks Pip, I will still be around prob just not a ton in a day.. which is what Im doing now, stay at home mom so plenty of time to sit on my computer on BnB all day, lol! My cycles after mc was normal too, which is why this one was strange to me, but seems to be back to normal now.. dont know what was up, the flow was delayed a bit.. but here now.. ordered some opks so start back with them once they arrive.. maybe post pics everynow and then.. get some opinions..

how is everyone doing.. Poppy-havent heard much from you must be busy catching that eggy!

Em-how are you doing..

Puppy-any symptoms?? when are you planning to test again?

CD4... oh well I guess.. o time will be here before I know it.. and hopefully my BFP will be right behind... hope your all well....
 
Hi sweetie ive been quiet for a change :haha: looks like ive ovulated early again since mc CD10 will know in a few days from fertility friend. If a repeat of last month it will mean i ov on CD10 and have a LP of 16 days???:wacko: dont know why but wish i had my 28 days cycle back
 
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