TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[poppy666]

Lol. Funny how we're all now excited by BFN's!
I'm running a lovely bubble bath girls as i've done the dishes too. Time to relax I think.
Speak soon xx

Oooooooooooo can i join you your bath sounds better than mine ive got no bubble bath

 

[emilyrose.x]

haha! i agree babes!!! xx

 

[pip7890]

Hi Girls,

Could i joing this group please. I started ttc in October 2009. I had a mmc in August at 20 weeks, and miscarried on the 18th December at between 6-8 weeks.
I am waiting one cycle & will then be trying again as i feel ready to start again quite soon. It was hard over xmas as my due date with the first baby was 2nd jan.
Hope all you girls are doing ok. I have had a good laugh at the conversations going on last nite!!!
Love to you all Tootsie xx

Welcome Tootsie. I am so sorry to hear of your losses. There's lots of support to be found here so feel free to share.

Anyway I hope you're all well, has been an epic task reading all your posts but I thought I'd skim straight over the pregnant with puppies and dog humping sessions you appear to have had....

Me too puppycat. I don't know where they get the energy from!

Hi ladies
Can I join please? I MMC-ed at 9.5 weeks just before Christmas - had ERPC on 29th and was fine for a few days until I started to bleed like crazy a few days ago. Thankfully that's cleared up now and I've got antibiotics. Just want to get back to TTC and hopefully get a BFP soon!
It took us a good few months last time and I really hope it's quicker this time round. I ovulated on day 28 the month I got my BFP and am wondering if that caused the MC. Who knows. Looking forwards to lots of BFPs on this thread!
xxx

Welcome Sunshine31. I'm sorry about your loss. I miscarried at 10w3d on Boxing Day. I'm on antibiotics too for a chest infection following swine flu (which we think caused the miscarriage). Hope you start to feel better soon.

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

Hi ladies

Sorry for my absence - it's been a weird couple of days mood wise and quite reassuring to read that many of you are also going through something similar.

I've really been struggling to get to sleep and once I am asleep I'm having really vivid dreams about babies and miscarriage. Being so tired isn't helping me recuperate from the flu and is not doing my relationships with my OH and DS much good either.

I think the antibiotics are starting to have a positive effect. I also decided today that I needed to start taking control back rather than just drifting from day to day. I set myself a few targets today and managed to achieve them.

I also booked myself in for a facial (which I had this afternoon) and a manicure and body polish (tomorrow afternoon) before going for a colour on my hair tomorrow night. I also decided to defuzz. I normally epilate but when I was pregnant my skin was so sensitive I couldn't bear to use it. Anyway, I decided to do the deed today. OW!!! It didn't half hurt and, as I hadn't charged it for a month or so, I was only able to complete one armpit before it ran out of charge!!!! Doh!!

I've promised OH I won't be on here late tonight. I think I might have been overdoing it lately and given that I won't have internet access after next Wednesday I suppose I need to wean myself off slowly!

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day for us all.

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

I've really been struggling to get to sleep and once I am asleep I'm having really vivid dreams about babies and miscarriage. Being so tired isn't helping me recuperate from the flu and is not doing my relationships with my OH and DS much good either.

Im sorry to hear about your dreams, its not fair its playing on your mind.

I also booked myself in for a facial (which I had this afternoon) and a manicure and body polish (tomorrow afternoon) before going for a colour on my hair tomorrow night. I also decided to defuzz.

that sounds like a brill idea! a good pampering..bliss.

I've promised OH I won't be on here late tonight. I think I might have been overdoing it lately and given that I won't have internet access after next Wednesday I suppose I need to wean myself off slowly!

haha its so hard to resist..im gettin pretty addicted to this website lol!!

Hope you feel better soon Pip, big hugs xx

 

[puppycat]

I wouldn't say i'm addicted, just scared that if I stay away too long I won't be able to catch up! Lol
Join me? Oooh err Mrs! Lol.
Well i'm all clean now and tucked up in bed from the cold... Well avoiding DH actually heh heh.
On a TMI note my lady bits feel a bit sore, anyone else had this? They feel like they did after I had DD, a bit chafed I suppose but not had BD since Sat? Odd x

 

[BellasMummy]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

 

[poppy666]

I wouldn't say i'm addicted, just scared that if I stay away too long I won't be able to catch up! Lol
Join me? Oooh err Mrs! Lol.
Well i'm all clean now and tucked up in bed from the cold... Well avoiding DH actually heh heh.
On a TMI note my lady bits feel a bit sore, anyone else had this? They feel like they did after I had DD, a bit chafed I suppose but not had BD since Sat? Odd x

Not been humping OHs leg like Emily have ya lol I need a bath but cba to get undressed its cold even with the heating on

 

[poppy666]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

Swim >>>>>>>>>>> good luck Bellasmummy

 

[Deethehippy]

How long did you ladies bleed for? I had a natural miscarriage with the main 'event' of bleeding on sunday just gone, i am still bleeding quite heavy on and off, is that ok? i feel fine physically otherwise.

 

[pip7890]

On a TMI note my lady bits feel a bit sore, anyone else had this? They feel like they did after I had DD, a bit chafed I suppose but not had BD since Sat? Odd x

Snap puppycat although I'm yet to BD. I'm almost at the point where I'm thinking I need a cushion to sit on. I have to lower myself really carefully, particularly onto hard chairs.

Ouch!

Pip x

 

[poppy666]

How long did you ladies bleed for? I had a natural miscarriage with the main 'event' of bleeding on sunday just gone, i am still bleeding quite heavy on and off, is that ok? i feel fine physically otherwise.

I only bled the day of the procedure then constant spotting Dee still am x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

Glad your feeling better babes go spermy go! haha xx

Not been humping OHs leg like Emily have ya lol I need a bath but cba to get undressed its cold even with the heating on

haha i was just about to say "mines been abit sore puppycat,but think thats down to the friction haha !! xx

How long did you ladies bleed for? I had a natural miscarriage with the main 'event' of bleeding on sunday just gone, i am still bleeding quite heavy on and off, is that ok? i feel fine physically otherwise.

Dee i was bleeding 2 weeks very very heavey then a few days light, a day of discharge and now no blood x

 

[pip7890]

How long did you ladies bleed for? I had a natural miscarriage with the main 'event' of bleeding on sunday just gone, i am still bleeding quite heavy on and off, is that ok? i feel fine physically otherwise.

Hi Dee. I started spotting on 25/12 but the main bleed started on 26/12 which was also the day I passed the baby. I continued to bleed heavily until 01/01 after which I've been spotting dark brown blood. I've had nothing today so fingers crossed that's it.

According to Fertility Friend I'm at CD12, although as I've mentioned before it thinks I have an average 47 day cycle!

I feel physically crap - I'm still very woosy when I'm walking about outside, and haven't got the energy to walk for more than 5 or 10 minutes at a stretch. I think that that has more to do with post-swine flu fatigue than just the miscarriage.

Pip x

 

[puppycat]

On a TMI note my lady bits feel a bit sore, anyone else had this? They feel like they did after I had DD, a bit chafed I suppose but not had BD since Sat? Odd x

Snap puppycat although I'm yet to BD. I'm almost at the point where I'm thinking I need a cushion to sit on. I have to lower myself really carefully, particularly onto hard chairs.

Ouch!

Pip x

Well at least i'm not the only one! It seems to be worse when I walk. Please God let it go quickly. Weird eh.
I don't think i've been humping DH's leg, i'm sure he'd have told me! lol
Nice to see you're back anyway Pip x

 

[Deethehippy]

My 'bits' are also getting a bit sore but i have put it down to the constant wiping with toilet tissue

 

[puppycat]

Dee I had 2or3 days heavy red followed by a day of off and on pinky then today it's been brown spotting. I hope it's over now x

 

[lilrojo]

Dee I bled for a week and a half... i had spotting though from about six weeks on and had my natural mc at 12 weeks in nov. af arrived 30 days later...

 

[lilrojo]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

just wondering when did you mc and what are your cycles like... i have been testing since right after my cycle ended... no pos yet... just curious what your story is....and good luck!!

 

[BellasMummy]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

just wondering when did you mc and what are your cycles like... i have been testing since right after my cycle ended... no pos yet... just curious what your story is....and good luck!!

Hey lilrojo

Sorry for your loss

I miscarried on 20th Dec and also needed ERPC on the same day.
I bled for about 2 weeks in total but mostly spotting at the end. We decided we wanted to ttc straight away without waiting for AF. I started to do HPT's on mon and yesterday got a neg although I think I saw a very very very faint line! I did OPK's since Mon and were all neg until today had first pos. I have counted my miscarriage as CD1 so today would be CD18 which is totally normal as my cycle is between 32-34 days and I usually ov bout 17/18 days.
Hope this is of some help!
When did you mc and have you stopped bleeding?
Sending lots of baby dust xx