TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[lilrojo]

Hey Ladies,

Hope you are all well! Welcome to all the newbies and so sorry for your losses

I have been feeling so angry and down too today! Must be something in the air!
But reading all your posts have cheered me up!!
So last nite OH didn't fall asleep!! So we woooooop hope the travelled up there as I had a positive OPK today!! Woop woop!!

just wondering when did you mc and what are your cycles like... i have been testing since right after my cycle ended... no pos yet... just curious what your story is....and good luck!!

Hey lilrojo

Sorry for your loss

I miscarried on 20th Dec and also needed ERPC on the same day.
I bled for about 2 weeks in total but mostly spotting at the end. We decided we wanted to ttc straight away without waiting for AF. I started to do HPT's on mon and yesterday got a neg although I think I saw a very very very faint line! I did OPK's since Mon and were all neg until today had first pos. I have counted my miscarriage as CD1 so today would be CD18 which is totally normal as my cycle is between 32-34 days and I usually ov bout 17/18 days.
Hope this is of some help!
When did you mc and have you stopped bleeding?
Sending lots of baby dust xx

I had a natural mc at 12 weeks on Nov 21st.. we also tried straight away but didnt fall pregnant.. not sure if I even o'ed in Dec. My af arrived again on the 21st of Dec.. so 30 days later.. now i have no idea when I will o.. thought I should be any day now.. but still no pos opk.. very frustrating..

 

[BellasMummy]

Hopefully it will be pos soon! What OPK's do you use?

xx

 

[lilrojo]

I have been using the CB digital smiley face ones and the answer brand dip test strips.. no pos on either yet.. thinking my body may be a bit out of whack yet.. hope not.. got my af and everything.. now I need my pos opk.. haha... I do them both at the same time at in between 230 and 300...
any advice.. haha

 

[BellasMummy]

I have been using the answer ones but they don't seem very reliable as the control line doesn't even go very dark, so I used CB digital got neg mon, tues wed and got pos today.
I have read on here tho that some people have used CB and never got a pos but have gone on to get BFN's so they may just not work for you xx

 

[puppycat]

Thought OPK's were better when done in the evening? Not that i'm up on that stuff. I'm a bit of an OPK newbie x

 

[BellasMummy]

Thought OPK's were better when done in the evening? Not that i'm up on that stuff. I'm a bit of an OPK newbie x

Hey Puppycat, yes they are better in eve apparently I do mine bout 4pm xx

 

[poppy666]

Thought OPK's were better when done in the evening? Not that i'm up on that stuff. I'm a bit of an OPK newbie x

They say from 2pm and again if you want before 10pm... i only test at 2pm then wait till the next day x

 

[poppy666]

This is a fab site https://www.peeonastick.com/

 

[lilrojo]

Yeah i used the midstream answer with my first preg. and had my daughter.. and the second was my mc.. didnt use anything but a time go on a week night.. haha and now after af has finished thought i would use something else.. easier to read.. but now im worried maybe im not o'ing.. dont know if that is realistic or if im just letting it all get to me.. so frustrating see all the negatives... what day are you on then for your pos.. is it when you would normally get a pos..

 

[BellasMummy]

I'm on CD18 which is normal so hopefully it is right! I starting thinking I wasn't gonna see a pos after all the negs but did today so your day will come soon too! xx

 

[puppycat]

So what day do you expect Ov and when would you start OPK testing for it?
I understand OPK's are only pos if the test line is the same intensity as the control line? Is that correct? x

 

[BellasMummy]

So what day do you expect Ov and when would you start OPK testing for it?
I understand OPK's are only pos if the test line is the same intensity as the control line? Is that correct? x

Yes that is right, but I have used the CB digital one which shows a smiley face if pos, I just started testing when bleeding stopped, but not sure when I would normally xx

 

[lilrojo]

I'm on CD18 which is normal so hopefully it is right! I starting thinking I wasn't gonna see a pos after all the negs but did today so your day will come soon too! xx

I hope so... and if not I still hope for my BFP!!! Maybe it just isnt being picked up... who knows.. or maybe my day is still coming... dont really know my cycles all that well... since I was preg for 3 months then mc... You better keep up updated and let us know if you get your BFP... how long till testing then???

 

[poppy666]

So what day do you expect Ov and when would you start OPK testing for it?
I understand OPK's are only pos if the test line is the same intensity as the control line? Is that correct? x

Here's a chart for the length of your cycle and when to use OPKs sweetie scroll down to number 8 x https://www.peeonastick.com/opkfaq.html#8

 

[lilrojo]

So what day do you expect Ov and when would you start OPK testing for it?
I understand OPK's are only pos if the test line is the same intensity as the control line? Is that correct? x

They tell you when to test depending on your cycle length, in the pamphlet... so test have 20 sticks so you can test everyday after the bleeding stops.. I also am using CB digital... but no smiley yet... hoping soon...

and yes the test line has to me the same intensity as the control line for the others..

 

[BellasMummy]

I'm on CD18 which is normal so hopefully it is right! I starting thinking I wasn't gonna see a pos after all the negs but did today so your day will come soon too! xx

I hope so... and if not I still hope for my BFP!!! Maybe it just isnt being picked up... who knows.. or maybe my day is still coming... dont really know my cycles all that well... since I was preg for 3 months then mc... You better keep up updated and let us know if you get your BFP... how long till testing then???

Yes I will defo keep posting on here! I am gonna try and be good and wait before testing! Don't know how long that will last tho!!
FX'd for us all! I am logging off now to go wake up OH to
Speak soon xx

 

[puppycat]

Thank you Ladies.
So according to my cycle I should start testing from Sunday. Hmmm I may give it a go as I have quite a few OPK's here.
See if I can catch my surge, if there is one!
Anyway i'm off to bed.
Thanks for the info. I would click the magic thanks button but my phone doesn't like it for some reason. Speak tomorrow no doubt xx

 

[poppy666]

Night puppycat and Bella im off too soon im knackered

 

[lilrojo]

I'm off for now too ladies.. have a great night...
Fingers crossed for us all!! Back again later or tomorrow i suppose...

 

[poppy666]

Night sweetie im off deffo now cya all tomorrow xxx