TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[caleblake]

Morning ladies and welcome Natalie. I got married July 2009 too!
Had awful dreams last night, don't know where they came from but I was in a horror film I think. People getting heads chopped off and ghosts and all sorts of horrid things. Needless to say I am shattered and in need of a few more hours of happy sleep
How are we all today? x

oooooooooo what date, ours was the 11th july xxx

Ours was the 31st July, the very last day of the month!

thanks for making me feel welcome ladies. im on CD10 today is anyone near me in their cycle? xxx

I'm on CD7 so not far off you, how long are your cycles?

they vary between 28-31 days usually, what about you?

 

[jenny25]

evening ladies, ive just found this group and wondered if I could join you all. I had my first mc on 29th december.

My names Natalie, im 31 and married my dh in july 2009 we have a gorgeous baby boy whos 8 months this week and we are trying to make hima playmate.

to you all and im sorry for all your losses xxx

hey hun is that the paisley abbey your profile pic

im originally from scotland too xxx

yes it is hunny, where in scotland are you from? its where i got married xxx

im from paisley hun born and bread moved to essex 2 years ago where are you from xxx

ooooooooo Im originally from Paisley- I went to Paisley grammar but lived in erskine for a long time now xxx

i went to gleniffer high school in foxbar i know a few people in erskine and some people who work for rolls royce too xxx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Sorry for your loss Gash02 xx

Im on CD17 of a 28 day cycle but feeling crampy n very lightly bleeding so not sure if its af or not its doing my head it n im so frustrated not knowing

arw hun well you taking a test weekend aint ya babes? if its a bfn id say it could be strt of your period? big hugs sweety xx
do you count the day you MC'd as CD1?

Hope everyones okay today..xx

 

[poppy666]

Awww thanks Emily

Think im getting stressed out really not knowing n needing to start the Soy on CD2 if its af

Its like im on a really light period its a bright fresh bleed and if i check my cp there is loads there mixed with mucus ( sorry tmi) im having to use something today, ive got af pains and backache so im really messed up and dont know if to class it as my af or not

Any idea's ladies is it possible to get a light af after a mc? x

 

[lilrojo]

Awww thanks Emily

Think im getting stressed out really not knowing n needing to start the Soy on CD2 if its af

Its like im on a really light period its a bright fresh bleed and if i check my cp there is loads there mixed with mucus ( sorry tmi) im having to use something today, ive got af pains and backache so im really messed up and dont know if to class it as my af or not

Any idea's ladies is it possible to get a light af after a mc? x

Stress can affect your body too ya know... you need a good unstressful day to relax and have fun...Im going shopping tom.. hope to get my mind off things.. haha.. I think anything is possible after a mc.. like mine was so light for two days then came normal day three... hope for you neg test this weekend and you can know whats going on...

 

[poppy666]

Thanks lilrojo hope im like you and its heavier tomorrow if its af, i just want my body back now

 

[emilyrose.x]

Awww thanks Emily

Think im getting stressed out really not knowing n needing to start the Soy on CD2 if its af

Its like im on a really light period its a bright fresh bleed and if i check my cp there is loads there mixed with mucus ( sorry tmi) im having to use something today, ive got af pains and backache so im really messed up and dont know if to class it as my af or not

Any idea's ladies is it possible to get a light af after a mc? x

No worries babes really ope you find out by weekend id ring your doctor if i was you and see what they say, then you'l know whats happening with your body and should be able to understand abit more so you know when your oving etc .. xx

 

[lilrojo]

Emily has a good point about calling your dr, thats what you pay them for!

 

[emilyrose.x]

Emily has a good point about calling your dr, thats what you pay them for!

Actually poppy, ring the Womans Health Unit at your hospital - ring hospital and they should be able to put you through

Well when i had some brown discharge (before i MC'd 3 days later) i asked my GP for a referal for an early scan because i was worried - he told me that everything is fine, to stop worrying, if its the start of a MC then its God's way, what was i worried about? i said "incase this rash iv come out in is going to affect baby and i wanna check its growing ok" he said "if the rash was going to affect the baby it would have already done so by now" so i took matters into my own hands and went to A&E that night, then booked me in for scan next morning and everything was fine - the next day i started bleeding and went back, again the hospital said everything okay, the day after i had a MC.

thats just made me remember how useless my doct is so ring hospital babes, then you'l get a defo answer.

my doct saw my mum today and asked her how i was doing because he was worried incase the advise he gave me didnt help (WHICH IT DIDNT! ABSOLUTELY SHIT ADVISE SAYING IT WAS GODS WAY IF I WAS MC'ing) and told me to ring him if i needed to ask anything etc - he can swivel.
When i get pregnant again im dealing with it all through hospital because they are reasuring and actually know whats happening x

 

[joey300187]

bless you hun sorry your doctor was so rubbish! my first was brill but the last 3 mcs the docs have been awful never even had a scan after last 3 losses and with the first i started miscarrying (enough to have lost the baby) and then stopped and had to be re started (via tablets) to make everything left pass. cant believe after that the first time they wouldnt send me for checks after the other mc's just to make sure it had all gone.
some doctors just have no common sense.
i think your right i will just be dealing directly with the hospital in future xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

bless you hun sorry your doctor was so rubbish! my first was brill but the last 3 mcs the docs have been awful never even had a scan after last 3 losses and with the first i started miscarrying (enough to have lost the baby) and then stopped and had to be re started (via tablets) to make everything left pass. cant believe after that the first time they wouldnt send me for checks after the other mc's just to make sure it had all gone.
some doctors just have no common sense.
i think your right i will just be dealing directly with the hospital in future xx

he usually good with like diagnosing problems and giving you good prescriptions etc but during my pregnancy he was a joke. Everything i asked for advice on about pregnancy, his answers were based on his religious views, NOT scientific which pissed me off. im sorry for your losses hun i though confirmation scans were routine? ? supprised they didnt give you one babes.
I dont blame ya hun, i know i will be.
My doctor used to be his mum , but sure shes losing the plot as when i had a chest infection a few months back i had to go in a few times to see her for results etc and on the information the receptionist noticed the doct had put wrong details on my pee pot! ie surname, D.O.B etc, so defo will NOT be going back to her, my doctor (who i have had during pregnancy) made me feel like absolute crap so he can bollocks. My midwife was cool (only had 1 appointment with her but she would let me ramble on about anything to here and ring her if i was worried - she was awesome and the women and doctor at Womans Health Unit were great, cheered me up and could understand how i was feeling so im putting myself under them rather than doct when i next get preggers xx

 

[puppycat]

Evening ladies

Gash - I have 26 - 28 day cycles lately. Have Ov pains today but in the right rather than left - unusual for me but I'm only CD7 from first day f m/c bleed so dunno?

Went to M&S with my grandparents, not staying there the wkend now, the few hours away from home helped, as of course did spending money hehe

 

[joey300187]

bless you hun sorry your doctor was so rubbish! my first was brill but the last 3 mcs the docs have been awful never even had a scan after last 3 losses and with the first i started miscarrying (enough to have lost the baby) and then stopped and had to be re started (via tablets) to make everything left pass. cant believe after that the first time they wouldnt send me for checks after the other mc's just to make sure it had all gone.
some doctors just have no common sense.
i think your right i will just be dealing directly with the hospital in future xx

he usually good with like diagnosing problems and giving you good prescriptions etc but during my pregnancy he was a joke. Everything i asked for advice on about pregnancy, his answers were based on his religious views, NOT scientific which pissed me off. im sorry for your losses hun i though confirmation scans were routine? ? supprised they didnt give you one babes.
I dont blame ya hun, i know i will be.
My doctor used to be his mum , but sure shes losing the plot as when i had a chest infection a few months back i had to go in a few times to see her for results etc and on the information the receptionist noticed the doct had put wrong details on my pee pot! ie surname, D.O.B etc, so defo will NOT be going back to her, my doctor (who i have had during pregnancy) made me feel like absolute crap so he can bollocks. My midwife was cool (only had 1 appointment with her but she would let me ramble on about anything to here and ring her if i was worried - she was awesome and the women and doctor at Womans Health Unit were great, cheered me up and could understand how i was feeling so im putting myself under them rather than doct when i next get preggers xx

Bless you sounds like youve got a good team to advise you next time (minus the doctor).lol. dont know bout confirmation scans being routine, unless it was because i only got to 5 weeks with my last 3 as opposed to 8 with the first? not sure, he literally just said "have you got any strong painkiller?" n sent me off. actually one doctor said they would send me for councelling which i agreed i needed at the time that was august and never heard a thing about it since!! shocking. i dont have 1 set doc unfortunatly its whoever has an appointment free i use the doctors surgery on the camp my husband works at (we also live there) so is pretty hit and miss if u get a good doc.
xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Bless you sounds like youve got a good team to advise you next time (minus the doctor).lol. dont know bout confirmation scans being routine, unless it was because i only got to 5 weeks with my last 3 as opposed to 8 with the first? not sure, he literally just said "have you got any strong painkiller?" n sent me off. actually one doctor said they would send me for councelling which i agreed i needed at the time that was august and never heard a thing about it since!! shocking. i dont have 1 set doc unfortunatly its whoever has an appointment free i use the doctors surgery on the camp my husband works at (we also live there) so is pretty hit and miss if u get a good doc.
xx

hehe yea minus the doct arw babes i MC'd at 6weeks 2days, stopped bleeding a few days ago and now got ewcm but it got abit of a orange tinge to it? hmm i think its normal but gota have that scan and check up then guna ask them to do a pregnancy test for me to check hormone levels back down - when my dad looked they were ALOT higher than what they should have been (the day before i MC'ed) your joking? pfft absolute crap init babe.. arw man! have you put any suggestions in about having specific docts? so they know more about your medical history and are more aware ? xx

 

[joey300187]

it just how it is on RAF camps unfortunatly. i always try and request the nice doc but very rarely get him even given my history! lol. i had a load of tests done through st marys in london and they are gonna monitor me next time so wont have to go through my normal docs anyway so pretty happy with that. they wanna do another blood test when i get to 5 weeks gestation to check i dont develop sticky blood in pregnancy and to keep tabs on the bean then once i get to 12 weeks will go through normal process at the local hospital.
aww bless ys hun hope ur hormones sort themselves out. ur lucky having ur dad to run test for you. xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

it just how it is on RAF camps unfortunatly. i always try and request the nice doc but very rarely get him even given my history! lol. i had a load of tests done through st marys in london and they are gonna monitor me next time so wont have to go through my normal docs anyway so pretty happy with that. they wanna do another blood test when i get to 5 weeks gestation to check i dont develop sticky blood in pregnancy and to keep tabs on the bean then once i get to 12 weeks will go through normal process at the local hospital.
aww bless ys hun hope ur hormones sort themselves out. ur lucky having ur dad to run test for you. xx

ooh man! thats crap babes! that will be good going through St Mary's , just more reasuring knowing they have alot more experience arw glad to hear they guna keep an eye on everything me too lol! ewcm is a sign of ov'ing and we cant have sexytime because OH scared incase it makes me start bleeding again and if everything hasn't come away on its own then it will cause BIG complications damnn it! haha my mum makes him check, she always trying to look out for me bless her! she was loving thought of being a grandmummy lol! fingers crossed i can tell her she is guna be a grandma soon lol on internet yesterday it says that after your OH has erm..'ejaculated' (hate that word lol) your suppose to stay laid down for a few mins (even put legs in air to help the direction) i turned around to my OH last night and went " i thought people were joking when they say to lay with your legs in air" before id go straight to toilet after sexytime so no wonder it took a few months lol! we were doing it every day to be sure (when we first started trying) and no wonder i didnt get pregnant, i was letting them all run into toilet straight after lol xx

 

[joey300187]

lol yeah ment to lay for 15 mins with your bum on a pillow and legs in the air. ive tried it quite a few times! haha is rather amusing made hubby laugh. have even heard ur ment to like cycle ur legs ha give it a helping hand. anythings worth a try eh? xx

 

[puppycat]

Yeh stay lying down and if you can O after him then it's all good

 

[emilyrose.x]

lol yeah ment to lay for 15 mins with your bum on a pillow and legs in the air. ive tried it quite a few times! haha is rather amusing made hubby laugh. have even heard ur ment to like cycle ur legs ha give it a helping hand. anythings worth a try eh? xx

Haha!! il have to try that - let get him to pick me up by feet and shake me u and down xx

Yeh stay lying down and if you can O after him then it's all good

we usually O at same time but if he comes first he stays in till i O hehe

 

[puppycat]

we usually O at same time but if he comes first he stays in till i O hehe

Wow lucky you! My DH hasn't made me O for a long time!