TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[puppycat]

I'm off too. Not tired but achey so going to snuggle in clean pj's in my bed

 

[LoolaBear]

thanks everyone.
She will always be a special little star in the sky for us.
ive learnt to cope with things and now when i think about Sonnie i smile rather than cry, and everytime i look at her big sister i see a little bit of her as Sonnie was the splitting image of her big sister.

so now a new stage of my life is happening, im going to be a wife! eek scary thought.

the aches and pains ooo i remember them well, im reminded ever 24 days on the dot as since loosing the baby my periods now feel like the contractions did when they first started and i had to endure 22 hours of them!
i hope they settle soon though, not nice having that little constant reminder bugging you when you just want to learn to carry on. xx

 

[LoolaBear]

ooooo i just realised the time. im offski as ive got to be up early in the morning, saturdays i get the lay in sundays i have to get up with the twins thats the deal in our house lol.
speak to you all tomorrow and thank you for letting me join. xxx

 

[emilyrose.x]

I'm off too. Not tired but achey so going to snuggle in clean pj's in my bed

night night hun xx

ooooo i just realised the time. im offski as ive got to be up early in the morning, saturdays i get the lay in sundays i have to get up with the twins thats the deal in our house lol.
speak to you all tomorrow and thank you for letting me join. xxx

lol! night night hun, look forward to speaking to you soon!
big hugs and baby dust for all the beautiful ladies on here xx

Mwah xx

 

[lilrojo]

You ladies are all so wonderful on here... did lots of bding last night and will be again tonight... as another smiley face appeared this afternoon.. must of caught it right on! FX that this is the month.. I'm off for one day and there are 6 new pages of posts to read through.. Hope you all are well...

 

[joey300187]

ok ladies here goes.

woke up this morning 2 days late and plucked up the courage to do a test, the result......... BFP!!!!!! am in absolute total shock and over the moon. This baby WILL stick (already had my other half laid beside my belly instructing the baby to do so!! hehe). please send lots of sticky thoughts my way. Wishing you all a BFP very soon! xxxxxxx

 

[pip7890]

Good morning ladies

I realised this morning that the post rate in this group had slowed down. At first I was concerned that this meant that it wasn't helping or interesting you. Then I realised that it probably meant that some of you (including me) were starting to function a little better and therefore didn't need to be permanently attached to BnB. I think that is a good thing, just make sure you don't disappear completely!

Today is going to be a mad one in the pip household. SIL coming down from Scotland this afternoon to care for DS and house in our absence. Lots of cleaning, washing, packing to be done.

Hope yours is a good one too.

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

ok ladies here goes.

woke up this morning 2 days late and plucked up the courage to do a test, the result......... BFP!!!!!! am in absolute total shock and over the moon. This baby WILL stick (already had my other half laid beside my belly instructing the baby to do so!! hehe). please send lots of sticky thoughts my way. Wishing you all a BFP very soon! xxxxxxx

Yeah Joey! Woo hoo! Our first !!!!!

to you all!

Pip x

 

[joey300187]

thanks sweetie!! hoping you all get your BFP's very soon xxxxx

 

[WinterSun]

Hey all,

Would you mind if I squeezed into here? I would ask if you had room for a little one lol but I'm not so little! Grrrrr BMI haha!

I thought I was pregnant up until yesterday morning. I started bleeding a lot of brown and deep red blood so we went along to the hosp for an internal scan. I was 5weeks 5/6 days or so I thought.

When I had the scan there was nothing there I was so confused as we had got positive HPT from the 30th Dec right up to the 4th of Jan (when we did our last one and was still nice and pos!) I had done them at diff times, they were different brands and all "proper" ones, first repsonse etc.. To say we were confused is an understatement really.

The Dr explained about a "chemical" pregnancy. I had heard the term before but thought we had completely gone past the risk of that, as we were testing positive still long after my period. We are sad about all of all this but mixed in is the relief that our baby did not even get to the heartbeat stage, in some way and I not sure if my words will make sense, but in some way that helps us accept this more. If it had to end, whilst we are gutted beyond belief, this is the kindest way if makes sense. Sorry if that sounds rambled.

So, we have decided to jump right back into the saddle so to speak! It was explained to me that yesterday, the start of my bleeding would be classed as CD1. That feels weird as it was a very much wanted baby but now it's just a cycle day

I have 2 older children. My youngest is 12! I am 36 and hubby and I very much want a 3rd baby as much as we wanted our first many moons ago!

So now I have ordered lots of Preg tests again! BUT I am going to be very wary about testing and the Dr had said they will help put my mind at rest next time with blood tests done at a early stage for me. I think I will be to scared to rely on HPT's alone, but that fear may pass as I become a POAS addict again! lol!

That's my story! Nice to meet you all! Sorry for the ramble and I look forward very much to chatting with you all and cheering you on in your journey

Hugs xx

 

[pip7890]

Welcome WinterSun.

I am sorry for your loss. No matter what stage of pregnancy you got to, the loss of a baby is also the loss of future dreams and hopes.

You'll see that Joey has just got her and based on how much some of our ladies are I'm sure it won't be the first!


I'm 40 and my son is 14 and sometimes I think I must be mad starting all over again. My OH wants 5 but he can take a running jump!

Good luck and lots of

Pip x

 

[puppycat]

Wooooo congrats Joey. It's always good to hear BFP's. Don't forget to keep us updated tho.
Hi Winter Sun, sorry for your loss honey. There are lots of ladies here who have only just lost their precious beans. I'm on CD9 today. I hope you are ok x
Pip I think we're all starting to get stronger, each new day helps and I think we all now know if we need to talk there's always someone ready to listen x

 

[poppy666]

ok ladies here goes.

woke up this morning 2 days late and plucked up the courage to do a test, the result......... BFP!!!!!! am in absolute total shock and over the moon. This baby WILL stick (already had my other half laid beside my belly instructing the baby to do so!! hehe). please send lots of sticky thoughts my way. Wishing you all a BFP very soon! xxxxxxx

Thats fantastic news sweetie fx for sticky bean Can i ask how long it took for your af to return before ttc?

 

[poppy666]

Welcome aboard WinterSun. so sorry for your loss all the ladies are lovely on here so if you need any advice or help with anything im sure someone will be online cos they all bnb addicts

 

[joey300187]

thanks hun . we stopped trying since our last mc which was july as we were having lots of test done, this was our first month back ttc. but previously i waited until first af after mc's which for me was the same as my normal cycles (29 days) but i have heard it can range between 2-6 weeks. hoping to see lots more BFP's on here soon xxx

 

[poppy666]

As for me today my stomach is killing me just taken some painkillers... wasnt bleeding after my bath last night so me and OH tried a bit but got disturb woke up this morning bleeding again n in pain arghhhh x

 

[joey300187]

is that still from your mc? bless you hope it stops soon for you. i found it such and awful reminder. Hoping 2011 is a whole different story for you xxxx

 

[WinterSun]

Thankyou all so much for the lovely welcome!

Congrats Joey on your BFP! What fantastic news to walk into the thread to!!

 

[poppy666]

is that still from your mc? bless you hope it stops soon for you. i found it such and awful reminder. Hoping 2011 is a whole different story for you xxxx

Awww thanks yes i mc on 22nd Dec been spotting constantly up until Wednesday now its like a light period with small clots, but this cramping is painful today x

 

[pip7890]

I'm so excited because of Joey's news. It really gives us all hope.

Poor poppy. That's no good. Wish there was something I could suggest to speed things up. Have you been active? Any chance of a long walk to get things moving? How about a little solo action to get your bits contracting? What about homeopathy? Will arnica (was thinking arsenic but that's too drastic) help? Agnus castus (forgive spelling)?

Posting from phone so don't know if there's been a thread on speeding things up but might be worth a look.

to you my friend.

Pip x

Pip x