TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[pip7890]

Pip Pip away!

 

[joey300187]

is that still from your mc? bless you hope it stops soon for you. i found it such and awful reminder. Hoping 2011 is a whole different story for you xxxx

Awww thanks yes i mc on 22nd Dec been spotting constantly up until Wednesday now its like a light period with small clots, but this cramping is painful today x

Do you have a wheatie bag/ hot water bottle worked wonders for me plus that ibuprofen extra i think its called is the quick working one and really helped to knock pain out. hoping it eases soon sweetie xxxx

 

[poppy666]

Pip ive tried DTD last night,

How about a little solo action to get your bits contracting ( like how you worded that) but yep done. What would Agnus castus do? xx

 

[puppycat]

I know it seems like bad news to be bleeding more after DTD but DH and I actually did the deed last Saturday which started my m/c bleed and at least now it's over and done with. I say get on it again to make sure it's all out ;-)
Nice to see you ladies up early on a Sunday. Got the step son here today so it's a bit hectic, on my phone too so bear with me! x

 

[pip7890]

I agree with puppycat. Get a towel down and get on down!

I think agnus castus contracts the uterus but I'm not 100% sure. I've not got time to google as I meant to be playing housework fairy, but I'll have a look later and come back to you.

Pip x

 

[poppy666]

Thanks Pip, well OH works away till Thurseday but he said he may be home Tuesday evening so will get down to it then lol x

 

[LoolaBear]

good morning everyone.
how are we all this morning?
suprisingly im feeling good and upbeat about the month ahead (could have somethingto do with the wedding lol) but my PMA is high so hopefully it will stick around. xx

 

[puppycat]

Hi Loola
Glad you're feeling positive. It definitely makes things easier and I think you can deal with things a lot better if you're feeling upbeat.
I haven't really slept well the last few nights so i'm absolutely shattered. Just cooking Sunday lunch with a 7yr old boy running around as well as my daughter demanding my attention. It's going to be a long day this end! x

 

[BellasMummy]

ok ladies here goes.

woke up this morning 2 days late and plucked up the courage to do a test, the result......... BFP!!!!!! am in absolute total shock and over the moon. This baby WILL stick (already had my other half laid beside my belly instructing the baby to do so!! hehe). please send lots of sticky thoughts my way. Wishing you all a BFP very soon! xxxxxxx

Congrats!! Yay our first so exciting!!

I am only 2DPO and already VERY impatient!!

xx

 

[poppy666]

good morning everyone.
how are we all this morning?
suprisingly im feeling good and upbeat about the month ahead (could have somethingto do with the wedding lol) but my PMA is high so hopefully it will stick around. xx

LoolaBear just replied on Soy thread, i also concieved naturally 9mths ago had a healthy boy but took the Soy last cycle n mc at 9wks x

 

[emilyrose.x]

ok ladies here goes.

woke up this morning 2 days late and plucked up the courage to do a test, the result......... BFP!!!!!! am in absolute total shock and over the moon. This baby WILL stick (already had my other half laid beside my belly instructing the baby to do so!! hehe). please send lots of sticky thoughts my way. Wishing you all a BFP very soon! xxxxxxx

OMG OMG OMG OMG CONGRATS BABES!! !!!
Sending you MASSIVE sticky thought babs!! yaaay so happy for you babes!! big hugs and loving xxx

Hey all,

Would you mind if I squeezed into here? I would ask if you had room for a little one lol but I'm not so little! Grrrrr BMI haha!

I thought I was pregnant up until yesterday morning. I started bleeding a lot of brown and deep red blood so we went along to the hosp for an internal scan. I was 5weeks 5/6 days or so I thought.

When I had the scan there was nothing there I was so confused as we had got positive HPT from the 30th Dec right up to the 4th of Jan (when we did our last one and was still nice and pos!) I had done them at diff times, they were different brands and all "proper" ones, first repsonse etc.. To say we were confused is an understatement really.

The Dr explained about a "chemical" pregnancy. I had heard the term before but thought we had completely gone past the risk of that, as we were testing positive still long after my period. We are sad about all of all this but mixed in is the relief that our baby did not even get to the heartbeat stage, in some way and I not sure if my words will make sense, but in some way that helps us accept this more. If it had to end, whilst we are gutted beyond belief, this is the kindest way if makes sense. Sorry if that sounds rambled.

So, we have decided to jump right back into the saddle so to speak! It was explained to me that yesterday, the start of my bleeding would be classed as CD1. That feels weird as it was a very much wanted baby but now it's just a cycle day

I have 2 older children. My youngest is 12! I am 36 and hubby and I very much want a 3rd baby as much as we wanted our first many moons ago!

So now I have ordered lots of Preg tests again! BUT I am going to be very wary about testing and the Dr had said they will help put my mind at rest next time with blood tests done at a early stage for me. I think I will be to scared to rely on HPT's alone, but that fear may pass as I become a POAS addict again! lol!

That's my story! Nice to meet you all! Sorry for the ramble and I look forward very much to chatting with you all and cheering you on in your journey

Hugs xx

Sorry what you've been through hun, ladies on here are fab and we will all help support you during this BFP's for us all this year xx

Hope everyone okay today? xx

 

[cazi77]

Hiya all i've been away for a few days and its taken me the morning to catch up on what has been happening. Congratulations Joey on your BFP. I feel like i'm about to ovulate - i'm not temping or doing opk until i get my 1st AF but I have that feeling. So itl be plenty of over the next few days!

 

[WinterSun]

Urgh, I keep peeking at the first tri forum, it feels like it's an elite club that I have been kicked out of! They are all lovely there and would never make anyone feel that way intentionally it's just how I'm allowing myself to feel. I was part of the "gang" a couple of days ago and now I don't "belong"... Does that make sense to anyone else? Xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Urgh, I keep peeking at the first tri forum, it feels like it's an elite club that I have been kicked out of! They are all lovely there and would never make anyone feel that way intentionally it's just how I'm allowing myself to feel. I was part of the "gang" a couple of days ago and now I don't "belong"... Does that make sense to anyone else? Xx

Dont think that like hun, i know what you mean but we are all awesome so you shouldnt have any problems fitting in here xx

 

[puppycat]

I pop into first tri occasionally, I do feel a bit like a naughty child if I comment but nobody judges in there, it's great.
You'll be in there for real again before you know it hun x

 

[LoolaBear]

i go all over the place i cant help myself but be nosey!
you will be back in there before long hun and can be apart of the club again. xx

 

[poppy666]

Ahhh dont worry wintersun your part of the 2011 shaggy gang now

 

[WinterSun]

Awww you girls are sooo lovely. I'm just being daft really. Hmmm think I may treat myself to extra roast spuds today! Whoop such a rebel x

 

[puppycat]

My weakness is Roast parsnip mmmmm

 

[poppy666]

Mines yorkshire puddings yummy lol x