TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[joey300187]

I just realised i never put my details on here lol.

Im 23 been ttc since july 2009. lost our first angel in Oct 09 at 8 weeks then had 3 more mc's feb, may and july 10 all just before 5 weeks. Had various test done and all have come back normal. so after a break (we stopped ttc after last mc) we have now started back trying again this month. Hoping its 1st month lucky xxx

 

[puppycat]

Hi Joey

Sounds like you've been through the mill, how frustrating that they cannot find a reason for it

You're in good company though xx

 

[pinkflamingo]

hi all,
I was kindly pointed in your direction by Emilyrose, and hope it is ok for me to join you.

I am Donna and am 29 years old. I got my BFP last November and was so excited as we had been trying for 14 months. I have PCOS and hubby has had a lot of health issues over the last couple of years and so things have rather been against us! Anyway, I was so excited that there was no way i could wait until my 12 week scan, so we booked an early one when I was just over 7 weeks. The sonographer could not find a heartbeat and told me the measurements suggested baby was 5 + 6. She booked us in for a scan 10 days later and confirmed that we had had a mmc. I opted for nature to take control of things, but so far nothing has happened (it will be 5 weeks since baby died this week). I have a scan booked at the hospital on friday and if nothing has happened by then, I may seek medical intervention. DH and I would like to try again asap for a baby, and I hope that we get our BFP soon, so that the end of 2011 can be a lot brighter and happier than the start of it.
I am so sorry for all our losses and wish everyone a happy and healthy 2011.

xx

 

[joey300187]

Hey hun

i was gutted when i first found out they had no reason for me but now have decided to look at the positive- theres no reason my next preg shouldnt be a healthy happy one .

thanks for reply. this site is doing me the world of good being able to talk to ppl that understand.
how do you get the signature thing at the bottom of ur posts hun. i think theyre well pretty xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hi Joey!! Sorry for your losses ! Il have my fingers crossed that this month is your lucky month as i hope it is for all the lovely ladies on here xx

Hey Donna! yaay glad you came the ladies who set this group up are genius's i swear its brill!! Everyone supports eachother - best thing since bread

big hugs to all the ladies and that WILL happen for us all this year!! xxx

 

[BFPSeeker]

Hey ladies

Wow, i havent logged in for 24 hrs and i've missed like 10 pages!

Hayley your tarot sounds cool - did you have your cards read?

Just to add to the BD debate - I go to a chinese medicine practitioner once a week for acupuncture. Have been going since August. She says no BD for 2 to 3 months !! I'm ignoring her and doing it anyway I think if you feel up to it then you should just go for it .

I think my hormones are all over the pace at mo - have had sore boobs for about a week which i usually only get for a day or so when i ovulate or when AF due. No CM though so dont think ovulating yet - could take me while to get back to normal i think

ovulation dust to all

 

[joey300187]

Hi hun
thanls for the good luck message really hope you too get a BFP!! im on day 24 now so am hopign and praying for some good news really really soon! hehe. i agree too the ladies setting this up are great! xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

BFPSeeker - hehe "Wow, i havent logged in for 24 hrs and i've missed like 10 pages!" all little miss chatterbox's on here which is brill ..
im really gutted because i have checked the having sex thing on internet (Google as always ) and on there people say once you have stopped bleeding its fine - why the hell has the gyno nurse told me i gota wait? confirmation scan not that far away now so once that then i am on it like sonicc ..x

Joey - thankyou sweet whoop i hope you get it very very soon!! xx

 

[pinkflamingo]

just a quick question about something I posted yesterday, and which some of you may be able to help me with
Sorry if tmi, but when I went to the toilet yesterday, there was a lot of what looked like ewcm on the tissue paper. I realise that this is a sign of OV, but is it even possible that I could I be ovulating when I have not had ANY bleeding at all from my mmc yet? I have been reading about the body reabsorbing when you wait for a natural miscarriage, but like I say I have not had any bleeding at all.
Am just a little confused about what my body is doing (and not doing!) at the mo!
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Thanks xx

 

[suffolksarah]

Hi girls, back again.
Got home from work, OH is feeling better so may get some nookie in his evening!!!
Although now not preg, i had better start the annual new year diet, didnt think i would have to this year. sweet and sour quorn, (so bland!!!), but washing it down with a big glass of Sheridans and a mince pie (OHHHHHH love that drink) and watching Got to dance on Sky1, it cracking me up, surely some of these people realize they cant dance!!!!!
Seem to be in a good mood today, i think its the going back to work, feeling normal again!!
Looking forward to our first tonight, they legs will be up, eventhough im not sure if i am ov or not!!!!
xx

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi Ladies!

Hope you are all well and feeling positive!

I have had few cramping OV pains today but OPK is negative, but HPT is negative too so hopefully will OV soon!

Think I will need to tonight!!

xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

hello ladies welcome to you all and thank you ladies for sending these ladies in our direction.

how are we all tonight?

im sleepy so wont be on late.

if anyone wants siggy please pm me and i will send

 

[HayleyJJ]

welcome joey pinkflamingo and bfpseeker all your way and lots of

 

[laura_2010]

Hi im sooo hopeing.... I found out I had mmc 26th Nov and decided to have a d and c 30th nov..... at 12weeks 6days!
Ive had my first AF so now up for TTC againe and hope this year will be our year!! xxx dust:

 

[HayleyJJ]

welcome laura were al in same boat but some of us are ttc without first af(most are capricorns hehe) and we think were ovulating whoop whoop

where you from babes?

 

[Deethehippy]

Please can i join here? I had a miscarriage in 1997 and december 2010.
I have two wonderful children, my son born 2000 and my daughter born 2002.
I just would love so much one more child with my current partner
(I am 37 in feb)

 

[RIPBABYRENEE]

Hello Hayley, Im actually in the same boat. I lost my daughter May of 2010 and have been basically trying ever since. Hope everything works for you.

 

[suffolksarah]

Hi Dee, welcome!!! I have spoken to you elsewhere on B&B!!!
out with 2010, 2011 is our year!!!!! xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

welcome dee and ripbabyrenee hope you have fun in our group xxx

 

[poppy666]

Evening ladies hope you dont mind me joining

Ok im 40 and MC @ 9wks on 22nd December at home 4hrs prior to having an ERPC which still went ahead because there was still quite a bit of tissue left inside.

Took an OPK test yesterday which was positive, but didnt DTD last night because i actually didnt think i was emotionally ready, ive been so horrid with everyone off and on over the last two weeks i think i was trying to rush to get pregnant again to try fill the huge empty gap that im feeling at the moment so decided to just NTNP over next few weeks till my 1st AF shows up and come to terms with whats happened over Christmas.

Really sorry for your losses