TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[HayleyJJ]

igonre the nun

 

[pip7890]

I just realised i never put my details on here lol.

Im 23 been ttc since july 2009. lost our first angel in Oct 09 at 8 weeks then had 3 more mc's feb, may and july 10 all just before 5 weeks. Had various test done and all have come back normal. so after a break (we stopped ttc after last mc) we have now started back trying again this month. Hoping its 1st month lucky xxx

Hi Joey

Welcome to the group. I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I've had two (one in November 1995 and one in December just gone).

You've probably read this elsewhere on the site but some women are swearing by baby aspirin as soon as they fall pregnant. I don't know whether this would be of help in your situation.

for you.

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Em get them to do you one whilst you are at the hospital. They did one for me today.

Pip x

Did they? thanks for letting me know hun, il ask them as soon as i get there! x

 

[emilyrose.x]

igonre the nun

pmsl!!

 

[pip7890]

hi all,
I was kindly pointed in your direction by Emilyrose, and hope it is ok for me to join you.

I am Donna and am 29 years old. I got my BFP last November and was so excited as we had been trying for 14 months. I have PCOS and hubby has had a lot of health issues over the last couple of years and so things have rather been against us! Anyway, I was so excited that there was no way i could wait until my 12 week scan, so we booked an early one when I was just over 7 weeks. The sonographer could not find a heartbeat and told me the measurements suggested baby was 5 + 6. She booked us in for a scan 10 days later and confirmed that we had had a mmc. I opted for nature to take control of things, but so far nothing has happened (it will be 5 weeks since baby died this week). I have a scan booked at the hospital on friday and if nothing has happened by then, I may seek medical intervention. DH and I would like to try again asap for a baby, and I hope that we get our BFP soon, so that the end of 2011 can be a lot brighter and happier than the start of it.
I am so sorry for all our losses and wish everyone a happy and healthy 2011.

xx

Hi Donna

Welcome to the group. I'm so sorry for your loss.

There are a couple of ladies on here who opted to wait for a natural miscarriage but it didn't happen straight away.

Here's to a year flush with and .

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

Wow, i havent logged in for 24 hrs and i've missed like 10 pages!

I think my hormones are all over the pace at mo - have had sore boobs for about a week which i usually only get for a day or so when i ovulate or when AF due. No CM though so dont think ovulating yet - could take me while to get back to normal i think

Tell me about it! Not that I'm complaining - I think it's great that so many ladies are joining in and if it makes a difference to one of us then that's a good result.

As to hormones, my boobs and tummy are all soft again now but my boobs are still so 'sensitive'. What makes that particularly surprising is that I've had two breast reductions (one in 2003 to go from 38H to 36C and another in 2008 to correct the first one). I was told that I wouldn't be able to breast feed again and that I would lose all sensation. Well, the pregnancy has certainly reignited those nerve endings let me tell you!!

Ovulation wise, because I was on the coil for so long I don't really have a cycle as such. I'm just going to look out for signs of ovulation and see what happens.

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

pinkflamingo good luck on friday babes xx

 

[pip7890]

hello ladies welcome to you all and thank you ladies for sending these ladies in our direction.

how are we all tonight?

im sleepy so wont be on late.

if anyone wants siggy please pm me and i will send

Hello

I was thinking that perhaps we can add a member list on your first post (but obviously you'll have to go back and edit it as and when new members join). What do you think? If we do that, what should we put? Username, dates(s) of miscarriages, TTC #1, 2, 3 etc.

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

Hi im sooo hopeing.... I found out I had mmc 26th Nov and decided to have a d and c 30th nov..... at 12weeks 6days!
Ive had my first AF so now up for TTC againe and hope this year will be our year!! xxx dust:

Hello Laura

Welcome to our group. I'm so sorry about your loss.

You're one of our first to have already have a visit from so be prepared for lots of questions in a week or so!!

in 2011 for you.

Pip x

 

[BFPSeeker]

sounds good I cant keep up !

 

[pip7890]

Please can i join here? I had a miscarriage in 1997 and december 2010.
I have two wonderful children, my son born 2000 and my daughter born 2002.
I just would love so much one more child with my current partner
(I am 37 in feb)

Hi Dee

How lovely to see you over this side. Thank you for all the support you have given me in Miscarriage Support.

At last, someone else my end of the age bracket!

Here's hoping for lots of for you in 2011.

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

Hello Hayley, Im actually in the same boat. I lost my daughter May of 2010 and have been basically trying ever since. Hope everything works for you.

Hello RIPBABYRENEE

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Welcome to our group. We are a very friendly (some slightly mad but I won't mention any names) bunch with the same thing in common.

Here's hoping 2011 is your year for a

Pip x

 

[pinkflamingo]

pinkflamingo good luck on friday babes xx

Thanks hun. Am not really looking forward to it but I realise it's all part of this process. It will be the first appointment since the sonographer, and as I haven't had any bleeding etc it sort of feels as if nothing has changed. I think friday will bring me crashing back to earth!

Thanks for the signature too Hayley x

Thanks for the welcome Pip. x

 

[joey300187]

Hi Joey

Welcome to the group. I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I've had two (one in November 1995 and one in December just gone).

You've probably read this elsewhere on the site but some women are swearing by baby aspirin as soon as they fall pregnant. I don't know whether this would be of help in your situation.

for you.

Pip x

Hi Pip,

I have heard this but have been advised not to take anything extra until i have a blood test at 5 weeks gest this is to check wether i develop what is called "sticky bllod" whilst pregnant, i know that i dont have it currently but apparently when preg some ppl can just develop it if they find this out from my blood test they will put me on the appropriate medicine. Thanks for suggestion tho any ideas are greatly appreciated

Jo xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hello Hayley, Im actually in the same boat. I lost my daughter May of 2010 and have been basically trying ever since. Hope everything works for you.

Hello RIPBABYRENEE

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Welcome to our group. We are a very friendly (some slightly mad but I won't mention any names) bunch with the same thing in common.

Here's hoping 2011 is your year for a

Pip x

I am one of the mad ones!!

 

[pip7890]

Evening ladies hope you dont mind me joining

Ok im 40 and MC @ 9wks on 22nd December at home 4hrs prior to having an ERPC which still went ahead because there was still quite a bit of tissue left inside.

Took an OPK test yesterday which was positive, but didnt DTD last night because i actually didnt think i was emotionally ready, ive been so horrid with everyone off and on over the last two weeks i think i was trying to rush to get pregnant again to try fill the huge empty gap that im feeling at the moment so decided to just NTNP over next few weeks till my 1st AF shows up and come to terms with whats happened over Christmas.

Really sorry for your losses

Hello Poppy

How lovely to see you on this side. Thank you for all the help you have given me in Miscarriage Support.

I thought I was doing quite well until I had to call work this morning to say I wouldn't be in. As soon as I told my boss that (a) I had been pregnant and (b) I had lost it - probably due to swine flu - I broke down in tears. Not so good for someone who is meant to be a tough and hard investigator. He was brilliant with me, but it showed me that perhaps I'm not as tough or dealing with things as well as I thought.

We've decided to NTNP for the moment, just until I get my physical (and hopefully) mental health back in the right place. However, I'm still going to be around to cheer the rest of the ladies on.



Pip x

 

[pip7890]

I know i had them about an hour ago walking around Asda its on my right and left tho?

Snap. I've been having those pains on both sides but I thought it was too early for me to be ovulating (26 December is CD1 for me so I'm only at CD9 today. I've just put it down to my uterus contracting and everything moving back into position.

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

hello ladies welcome to you all and thank you ladies for sending these ladies in our direction.

how are we all tonight?

im sleepy so wont be on late.

if anyone wants siggy please pm me and i will send

Hello

I was thinking that perhaps we can add a member list on your first post (but obviously you'll have to go back and edit it as and when new members join). What do you think? If we do that, what should we put? Username, dates(s) of miscarriages, TTC #1, 2, 3 etc.

Pip x

i was just going to put when we get our bfps hun xx

i could ass a memebers list and add bfp when it happens

 

[pip7890]

Anyone Pisces dont tell me your all Cap?

Sorry, I'm major league Capricorn! Hell on earth I think it has been described as !!!

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

hey hayley well you already know me

but for the people who don't im jen 27 i have a 6 year old son i have 4 losses

24+3 march 03 9 weeks march 09 8 weeks aug 09 and 14+3 october 10

just finished my 2nd af since my last lost and i made a resolution this year to take things easy and not stress about it , we have our first fertility appointment in 2 weeks time xx

Hello Jen

I'm so sorry for your losses

Welcome to our group. I think taking a more relaxed approach can sometimes work wonders. Hopefully a different outlook and help from your FS will make the difference and 2011 will be your lucky year.

Lots of to you.

Pip x