TTC After MC Sept or Oct BFP!

[fairycat]

I had my D&C on 8/21 and just ovulated a few days ago at 3 weeks. Currently waiting for my AF to arrive so we can TTC for Oct! I am so ready for my rainbow baby, and hope we all gets ours very soon!

Note about ovulation and OPKS - I had a positive OPK for 9 days (I randomly started testing around when I thought I would start O'ing) and then had O pains and tested negative the next day. My OPKs were picking up my HCG. I still have a line eye line on my pg test, but my OPKS have been consistently negative now, so I'm a happy camper.

 

[ILoveme29]

Hiya hun. We lost our bsby at 15 weeks on 17th aug. I got a positive opk yest so are currently ttc, hoping for our rainbow asap. Hope you get yours too xx

I lost my baby at on the 14th of Aug for some reason im getting the flashing smiley face for 5 straight days meaning im at the peak of fertility im hoping for a rainbow baby as well confused about whether im going to ovulate

I got a flashy smiley for 4 days and finally a solid flashy, FX to you BD anyway to keep it covered just in case

 

[ILoveme29]

My AF was really light which is not abnormal for me it varies month to month. Im just wondering is this really AF but it has to be its been 27 days ughh. I just cant wait to see the RE next week im so anxious

 

[LoraLoo]

Probably is Af hun x

 

[dinky]

Hi ladies can I join? I had a d&c on August 28th and I'm on cd21 now. Been getting ewcm for 4 days now so hoping I ovulate soon still getting bfps but I'm defo ttc this month I'm hoping I don't get an af x

 

[LoraLoo]

hope it happens soon dinky! X

 

[ILoveme29]

Hi ladies can I join? I had a d&c on August 28th and I'm on cd21 now. Been getting ewcm for 4 days now so hoping I ovulate soon still getting bfps but I'm defo ttc this month I'm hoping I don't get an af x

Warm welcome and sorry for your loss. Make sure to BD and keep all days covered. Wishing you the best of luck. im on CD 30 and have AF now I'm undecided if I'm gonna try this round or wait but I will BD anyway and see what happens.

 

[dinky]

Thank you loraloo and iloveme29 we have been dtd everyday while in have been getting ewcm and I've been lying on my stomach afterwards and trying to keep it all in as I have a tilted womb and lying on my front seems to help me conceive! My hpts have a barely faint positive now so I think that's almost out my system. I'm on cd22 now. Good luck ladies

 

[ILoveme29]

Hi ladies just an update

So I had a screening and im most likely suffering from mild depression. I get so overwhelmed really quickly, I distance myself from everyone and any event I don't want to be bothered and barely eating. I don't know what to do I have an apt with my RE on Thursday hopefully that can give me closure. when you can just start crying out of nowhere can get kind of annoying I cant wait until this part of my journey is over with. its so hard but thank you ladies for being able to share your stories with me it helps a lot.

 

[dinky]

Awww iloveme29 I hope this part of the journey is over for you soon! It sounds like it has really hit you hard. I know what you mean about not wanting to be bothered with anything I am the same and if it wasn't for my girls needing to be taken to school etc I don't even think I'd leave the house! All I wanna do is sit on the sofa googling silly things about ttc or I keep refreshing these forums! Have they offered you councilling or anything? I try to focus on other things but I think about my miscarriage constantly! X

 

[ILoveme29]

No I only discussed it with DH, I go to my RE Thursday ill see what happens then. I guess this would have been my first I don't have any so god at least blessed you with angels already and hope you get your rainbow soon. I see everyone with kids their so lucky they don't know what us woman have to go through who cant even have one (not saying they feel any less but its a difference). but im praying and wont give up.

 

[dinky]

I totally know what you mean I tried 7 years for my 1st and didn't fall pregnant once in all that time! It was only after a laproscopy when they diagnosed pcos and endometriosis that I was able to conceive! They had to do a lot of work on my womb I had a lot of scar tissue and my ovary was stuck to the side of my womb so they had to put it back where it should be. I had a lot of tests done before that and it took a long time as the waiting lists were long. I'm praying you get your baby soon too I know how agonising it all is x

 

[Justme43]

No I only discussed it with DH, I go to my RE Thursday ill see what happens then. I guess this would have been my first I don't have any so god at least blessed you with angels already and hope you get your rainbow soon. I see everyone with kids their so lucky they don't know what us woman have to go through who cant even have one (not saying they feel any less but its a difference). but im praying and wont give up.

I hear you ILoveme29 - I do not have any children either which makes this so hard because my greatest fear is that it will never happen. Being 43 doesn't make it much easier either.

But one thing I am holding on to is that I was told long ago that I could not have children due to ovary issues - so although it ended in heartbreak, my pregnancy was a miracle. I am trying my best to be hopeful and pray that it will happen again and be successful this time.

We all must hang in there and remain hopeful. It is hard, but we must do it.

 

[ILoveme29]

Wow you been through so much, and im sorry you did. I thank you for reaching out and understanding how I feel. I hope we all get our rainbows and continue to share our journeys together

I totally know what you mean I tried 7 years for my 1st and didn't fall pregnant once in all that time! It was only after a laproscopy when they diagnosed pcos and endometriosis that I was able to conceive! They had to do a lot of work on my womb I had a lot of scar tissue and my ovary was stuck to the side of my womb so they had to put it back where it should be. I had a lot of tests done before that and it took a long time as the waiting lists were long. I'm praying you get your baby soon too I know how agonising it all is x

 

[ILoveme29]

hello ladies any updates?
AFM im waiting to see RE Today nervous as ever but hopeful, I will definitely update after I see what happens

 

[Justme43]

hello ladies any updates?
AFM im waiting to see RE Today nervous as ever but hopeful, I will definitely update after I see what happens

Hey sweetie - no update on this end. Still waiting for AF to show up. My follow-up with my doc did go well though. I've healed good and she gave the all clear to ttc again once AF comes and go.

Other than that, just waiting impatiently. .
I'll check later to see how things went with RE.

Take care...

 

[ILoveme29]

Hello ladies so my apt with my RE went pretty well. Im now on CD12 I usually ovulate CD 14-17 so I will be busy this week lol. However if I don't end up PG im scheduled for my back to back iui's next cycle which wil be approx. 17days. I know the days seem so long when your waiting bu tim trying to be so patient and relaxed. My RE clarified that I don't have a progesterone deficiency which I was very scared about. she believes I MMC due to chromosome abnormality which is not uncommon but not sure if this was the reason either. Im just praying everything goes well and the countdown begins.

 

[fairycat]

5 weeks today and counting... waiting for AF still. Sigh..

My stupid Wondfo tests still aren't negative. Should I be worried? The line is faint but noticeably there still. Seems like the line hasn't gotten any fainter in the last week. At least my digi went negative, so it's still going the right direction.

 

[ILoveme29]

@fairycat I think at this point the best way to tell is with blood work to see your levels if they are going down, I know everyone is different they say 4-6weeks for AF to show so you have a week left. are you experiencing any signs of AF

 

[fairycat]

Well my doc said he doesn't want to add extra stress with unnecessary diagnostic testing. He didn't seem concerned at all about levels going down, nor did he mention any testing for it. I did tell him I'd be testing with pregnancy tests, and he thought it was ok but not necessary. I don't know why the heck it's taking so long. My levels were pretty high, so maybe that's why.. but most women seem to have <5 after a few weeks. Ugh, I'm never the norm.

I've been super grumpy all week, but it has subsided as of yesterday. I was getting tiny cramps here and there, but nothing major. Today I haven't really had anything. So no signs other than that. Tomorrow will be 2 weeks after I ovulated, so based on my previous cycles, I suppose it could start anywhere from tomorrow to Monday. I just hope hope hope she comes or I will probably call my doctor next week and ask if my tests are still positive.