TTC and Beyond!

[morganwhite7]

Could be ovaries at that angle like Waves said, but that pic (at least on the left) looks exactlyyy like my bleed. The blackness on the right is what makes me think ovaries, since that is DEF not a huge bleed, or you'd know. But if you aren't bleeding I wouldn't worry, bc if there was a SCH I think you'd have to be bleeding somewhat. I bled from 5w2d all the way up to 9 weeks, had a nice 2/3 week break, and it's back again. SCH's suck and doctors have virtually NO answers/treatment for them. If you really want to know, you can call in and have them take a look at your records real quick and call you back. It is simple for an OB or US tech to determine those things by looking at the scan!

 

[MrsAmk]

Thanks, yea I know its not my ovaries. They are much more to the left and right (ive seen them a hundred times on u/s). Hoping its nothing! I will freak if I bleed.

 

[goldstns]

Emily- what do braxton hix contractions feel like? Not that I am having them at all, just wondering.

We went to our hospital tour and I started crying! I can't believe it will be here sooo soon.

My shower invites have been sent out Im getting excited for it!

Spending my day applying to new jobs because this shut down sh!t sucks! Ill be surprised if it isn't just a waste of time seeing that no one will hire a preggo!

 

[brunettebimbo]

Yay Molly! Great picture

 

[BubsMom17]

Emily- what do braxton hix contractions feel like? Not that I am having them at all, just wondering.

Well they are different for everyone. I started getting them at 20 something weeks when I was pregnant with Danny, and at like 16 weeks this time. They feel like... well... imagine a blood pressure monitor band around your tummy. It gets tight, tight, tight, then release. You bump gets hard like a rock! That's what they feel like for me. Some women only know they get them cuz their bump gets hard. Some women only get a few, others get them a lot. I have an "excitable" (aka irritable) uterus and they trigger easily for me. I get minimum 10-15 a day once they start. Now it more than that, since it is several per hour.
They do NOT hurt. They are uncomfy, like having your blood pressure taken, but not at all painful.
Last time thought they transitioned into real contrax for me, so I am just trying to be aware if they start hurting in my back or start feeling crampy.

 

[jury3]

Molly-Your babe looks like he/she is growing well! I have no idea about bleeds...why wouldn't your doc let you see?

Emily-That is so exciting!!! I'm very jealous you'll be off work soon though lol

Nikki-I don't blame you! This is crazy. A girl I went to high school with has brain cancer and was saying that she's going to have to pay out of pocket until the government opens back up/gets back to work...So ridiculous!

 

[frsttimemama]

Molly, I think your picture looks ok! Try not to worry too much. Call your dr if it will help you feel better!!

 

[wavescrash]

I think, think, think, think that I felt the baby move a few times so far this evening. There's always a chance it's just crap (literally) moving through my bowels because it's such a light sensation that I can't tell for certain but I think it was actually the baby. I'm 18 weeks tomorrow with my 3rd. I know what I should be looking for lol. I'm so annoyed that I haven't felt anything definitive yet when these moms in my March due date club who are pregnant with #1 or 2 have been feeling movement since 14 weeks. Some even feeling kicks on the outside already.

I know those of you further behind me are probably feeling the same impatience I am... it's just annoying having everyone else as far along as me feeling constant/definitive movements and I'm questioning "is it poop or baby?" lol

 

[asmcsm]

Here's the progression pic from the test I took this morning. Top is 14DPO and bottom is 16DPO. Yay for it getting darker!

 

[frsttimemama]

How awesome you are feeling movement Amanda! I definitely miss that so much!

That progression looks great, Ashlee!

 

[morganwhite7]

Awesome progression Ashlee!!

And how exciting for feeling movement Waves! I think you were right.. by 18 weeks with your third I think that is right on time!! 6 days to go!!!

P.s. OMG another BFP. This is insane girls.

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

Hello! I am here! Thank you Morgan for the link! Just found out this morning. FX everything is healthy!

 

[asmcsm]

Omg my nipples are so sore! Last time I didn't get this, only my boobs got sore

 

[morganwhite7]

Ashlee- My boobs stillll do not hurt in the least bit.. But my nipples hurt like crazy! Ew they're also getting darker/larger like they say lol that's always fun!

Waves- Your FB pics from the Falls are too cute!! Is it still interesting from the U.S. side? Your pics look like you guys got really close! My passport expired but I'd love to take a mini-vacation there. Haha oh and also just wanted to say that Papa Pat looks awesome.. hehe. You have a really adorable little family

P.s. Julie & Rachel I still need your due dates! And Britt whenever you calculate it

 

[TTCaWee1]

Hey ladies!
Congrats Britt that is awesome!
Ashlee you progression looks great! I'm yeah I totally get the boob and nipple pain. Still hasn't gotten better. My nips burn, itch, hurt...DH was being seductive and I literally screamed. Then we both cracked up. Ugh I don't know how I'm going to breastfeed with these things.

Kara and Molly your pics look great. I can't comment on the billed thing bc I have no clue. Sorry.

Sonia can't wait to hear about your appt!!

Emily you are almost there! I'm excited for you!

As far as genders -
Me boy
Kara boy
Julie - boy/girl
Morgan boy
Amanda girl
Sonia ?
Molly ?

 

[asmcsm]

Lol Rachel that's exactly what I was thinking, I have a feeling they're only going to get worse and breast feeding is probably going to really hurt at first lol

 

[morganwhite7]

Hey girls I need some advice, I just scared the shizz out of myself reading an article..

I really want to have 2-4 babies. We'd stop at 2 if we had one of each sex. But I am reading about how awful repeat c-sections are (risk of placenta previa/accreta, uterine rupture, etc). Should I try VBAC, against the risks, so that I can have more babies if we choose? Or go the safe way and do c-section but not be able to have as many babies? I would be so scared to have a 4th surgery for a 3rd baby. I know I'm getting wayyyy ahead of myself, but you kind of have to in order to make these decisions! My heart is a little broken now, realizing all the risks involved in both options. Been crying to hubby for the last hour, he said to "relax, it's no big deal". But that made it worse. Grr it is a big deal, this determines the size of our family! It would really, really, really be difficult for me to have a vaginal delivery with how the last pregnancy turned out. If I did it, it would take a LOT of will-power. But I am now considering it due to the risks for future pregnancies.. Any advice/kind words would be lovely girls

 

[asmcsm]

Hey girls I need some advice, I just scared the shizz out of myself reading an article..

I really want to have 2-4 babies. We'd stop at 2 if we had one of each sex. But I am reading about how awful repeat c-sections are (risk of placenta previa/accreta, uterine rupture, etc). Should I try VBAC, against the risks, so that I can have more babies if we choose? Or go the safe way and do c-section but not be able to have as many babies? I would be so scared to have a 4th surgery for a 3rd baby. I know I'm getting wayyyy ahead of myself, but you kind of have to in order to make these decisions! My heart is a little broken now, realizing all the risks involved in both options. Been crying to hubby for the last hour, he said to "relax, it's no big deal". But that made it worse. Grr it is a big deal, this determines the size of our family! It would really, really, really be difficult for me to have a vaginal delivery with how the last pregnancy turned out. If I did it, it would take a LOT of will-power. But I am now considering it due to the risks for future pregnancies.. Any advice/kind words would be lovely girls

I will tell you that I personally would go with the VBAC, but you have to do what is right for you hun. You can always just see how it goes and decide a little further on. Just pay attention to your body and what you think you can handle. Obviously your doctor thinks it's a possibility for you if they were pushing for it. And if for some reason the vaginal birth isn't progressing the way you guys want it to then you could always go for the Cesarian anyway. I recommend you watch the More Business of Being Born Episode 4, It's entirely about VBACs. You have lots of time to decide. Just make sure you do the research and make the decision you're comfortable with.

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

Morgan- Due date is 6/22! EEEEEKKKK!

I know i'm not the first woman to ever get pregnant but i'm going to a whole RANGE of emotions today. As the day goes on, i'm getting more and more nervous about telling DH. We were TTC, but he didn't think it would happen this quickly. I know he's going to be shocked, and i'm a little afraid of how he might react .. AT FIRST. How did you ladies do it? Were they shocked?

I haven't even missed my period yet, so i'm afraid to get too excited. I'm not even goign to call the doctors until probably next friday. Does this sound about right?

 

[morganwhite7]

Thanks a bunch Ashlee.

I am very antsy to get to talk to my doc about it now to see what he thinks is best (it was a nurse who mentioned VBAC but she didn't know much about our history..). I was not very nice to DH bc I am so overwhelmed with this all right now. The bleeding, the options, and he didn't have much advice but it's "my choice" and there's "nothing to worry about". Ugh I am a mess lol and one hell of a worrywart and it is very hard not to be concerned!! I just feel like he always assumes it's "okay". I'm just going to go do some more retail therapy now.. it's my lunch break.. I think I may go try to find some unisex things to make me feel better. Maybe some cute white Polo socks or something..? Idk we will see