TTC and Beyond!

[CantHrdlyWait]

So surprised this test worked tonight, but I really wanted to take one! AF isn't due until 10/13 and I was worried it wouldn't come up!

 

[asmcsm]

Yay! They're fun saving my second one for end of next week or week after. Can't wait. For my betas tomorrow!

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

How long should I wait to call my doctor? My period isn't even due until 10/13

 

[asmcsm]

How long should I wait to call my doctor? My period isn't even due until 10/13

Up to you. If you want betas done first then call right away if you want to wait until you can see something on a scan then you could wait

 

[jury3]

Omg my nipples are so sore! Last time I didn't get this, only my boobs got sore

My nipples are super freaking sore. My boobs took a little while to get sore, but the nipples have been the worst. I will barely graze the door frame in our bathroom and it hurts like a bitch! lol DW and the dogs are not allowed anywhere near by boobs or my belly (bc of nausea).

Hey girls I need some advice, I just scared the shizz out of myself reading an article..

I really want to have 2-4 babies. We'd stop at 2 if we had one of each sex. But I am reading about how awful repeat c-sections are (risk of placenta previa/accreta, uterine rupture, etc). Should I try VBAC, against the risks, so that I can have more babies if we choose? Or go the safe way and do c-section but not be able to have as many babies? I would be so scared to have a 4th surgery for a 3rd baby. I know I'm getting wayyyy ahead of myself, but you kind of have to in order to make these decisions! My heart is a little broken now, realizing all the risks involved in both options. Been crying to hubby for the last hour, he said to "relax, it's no big deal". But that made it worse. Grr it is a big deal, this determines the size of our family! It would really, really, really be difficult for me to have a vaginal delivery with how the last pregnancy turned out. If I did it, it would take a LOT of will-power. But I am now considering it due to the risks for future pregnancies.. Any advice/kind words would be lovely girls

I will tell you that I personally would go with the VBAC, but you have to do what is right for you hun. You can always just see how it goes and decide a little further on. Just pay attention to your body and what you think you can handle. Obviously your doctor thinks it's a possibility for you if they were pushing for it. And if for some reason the vaginal birth isn't progressing the way you guys want it to then you could always go for the Cesarian anyway. I recommend you watch the More Business of Being Born Episode 4, It's entirely about VBACs. You have lots of time to decide. Just make sure you do the research and make the decision you're comfortable with.

I completely agree with what Ashlee said. I'm totally for VBACs but you have to do what's best for you. Watch the video she suggested and see if you can find other videos/stories. Do your research and do what makes you comfortable. My mom had 3 c-sections and has had to have surgery to remove/cut scar tissue that caused her a lot of pain. C-sections aren't necessarily pretty after you've had a few of them, but it's not the same for everyone either.

I already gave you my due date!!! lol It's May 5, 2014

Sonia-It sounds like things are progressing just like they should! Yay for a baby in the uterus and not in the tubes

So, all the Chinese gender predictor charts EXCEPT countdown to pregnancy's predict that I'm having a girl. I wonder why that one is different. You'd think that it was standardized...

Also, seriously can't wait for my preggo tea to get here. It's cold outside and I want it!!

Mine were about half and half...maybe bc it's twins...lol Some of them go by the chinese calendar which figures your actual age differently or something like that.

How long should I wait to call my doctor? My period isn't even due until 10/13

I found out on a Sat and called on that Monday. If I would have found out on a weekday, I would have been calling lol I did betas, so they got me in right away just to draw blood. Then they called me the following week to set up my first apt which was at 7 weeks, 3 days I think. Nothing wrong with calling now and letting them know. They'll have their procedures for setting up apts.

 

[goldstns]

Brit- congrats!!!! YAY!! I did bata's the next day, but I was also on a med that needed to stop ASAP if preggo.... so I needed to find out. However I don't think its a big deal to do ASAP.

 

[wavescrash]

With my first pregnancy, I called the day I got my BFP (I was 1 week late when I tested) and they wouldn't see me until 8 weeks. That's pretty standard for pregnant women with no prior history of complications.

With my second pregnancy, I'd had 2 miscarriages prior to that and was going to be seeing a new doctor in a new practice. I called the day I got my BFP and they said the same thing "We see prenatal patients for the first time around 8 weeks" but then I mentioned my two losses, one being just the cycle before my bfp so they got me in at 6 weeks and my doctor scheduled a viability ultrasound but didn't check my betas.

This third pregnancy, I switched doctors like 3 times but I called to make my initial appointment a few days after getting my BFP. I'd had a miscarriage the cycle before (again) so wanted to give it a few days to see if it'd stick around. Again, they said 8 weeks along.

 

[TTCaWee1]

I called the day after my bfp for betas then I saw my RE at 6+1 & 7+3 before switching over to my OB at 9 weeks. I think the standard is 8 weeks for first appt.

 

[clynn11]

So who has scans coming up?!?!

Amanda- finding out whether it's a boy or a girl SOON! How exciting!!!!

 

[clynn11]

Julie- you, DW, and your donor should write update posts on your blog on each perspective/experience with finding out! I stalk it every so often to see if you've updated lol

 

[wavescrash]

Yep! 5 days and 5 hours from now. Not counting or anything

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

Thanks ladies! I think I will at least wait until halfway through next week. I haven't even missed my period yet, so I want to make sure I get that far first. If they aren't going to see me for 8 weeks, I figure it won't hurt to call next week.

 

[morganwhite7]

Oopsie sorry Julie I must have missed it.. but hey! Cinco de Mayo!

 

[jury3]

Cassidy-DW is supposed to be updating it soon. Then I will post the details. I think that's a good idea though, I should have donor's wife do one too...

Morgan-Lol that's ok, I'll forgive you yep, cinco de mayo our wedding anniversary!

 

[TTCaWee1]

No scan for me until Nov. 26 unless I cave and peek at work....just at the baby....

 

[morganwhite7]

Did you guys decide against an early 3d reveal? Ooh also Rachel while I have you- plz give me your DD to add to the front, I apologize if I've missed it!!

 

[TTCaWee1]

April 14th

Still haven't decided on a scan.....I really want to since DHs b-day is Nov. 8 and I'll def be far enough along to tell.

 

[Cowgirl07]

Sorry I have been MIA ladies-the last cycle was hard on me, then breaking my computer didn't help.
Britt-I am so excited for you!
Amanda-SO soon!

 

[BubsMom17]

Hi ladies!
Last day of work for me, and I must admit, I'm nervous!!! What does one do when not working, does not have a newborn, and is not sick??? When I had Danny I was at work on Friday and had him that Sunday! There was no time off in between! I will be spending lots of time with Danny, but I know I will be exhausted! My back and hips are KILLING me! My pelvis clicks constantly in the back, above my hips. I know it's time to stop working, but it is going to be an adjustment. I hardly ever call out!

Anywho, every time I did a gender prediction it was wrong, except for the Mayan one.
(mom's age at conception + the year. If number is odd, it's a boy, if it's even, it's a girl). So for me, I was 26 when I got pregnant with Danny, in 2009. 26 + 2009 = 2035, odd = boy, so correct.
This time, 30 + 2013 = 2043, = boy, right again!
Chinese prediction calendar predicted girl both times...

I'm not sure how that would work with twins... it's not an exact science. LOL...

As for baby carriers, I have a few! I have a ring sling that my friend hand made for me. I got another sling from sevenslings.com for FREE! You can look up a code for sevenslings.com and enter it and get a free sling, then they send you a code for a nursing cover, too! I have my Moby from last time, which was great around the house. But for out-and-about times, I bought the Beco Gemini. It has fantastic reviews and it is soooo versatile! Four different ways to carry your baby, ergonomically for mom and baby. I suggest looking into the Becos.

 

[Disneybaby26]

Sorry I've been MIA the past couple if days, I've had to go to the rescue of a friend. Crazyyyyyyy story! Will read and update later!

Our gender scan is November 21st! Yay!!

Hugs xo.