ttc for 5 years .

[nat24c]

hi i have been ttc for over 5 years now with my bf with still no luck we are having iui at the moment with one failed cycle all ready was just wondering if any one is having the same problems we have unexplained inferfertillity we were told .

 

[NIKKIA]

Hi Nat, we are in the same boat as you we have been tying 5 years, and i'm 10dpiui (my first) We have tryed clomid and I had ovarian drilling. I have pcos and don't ovulate. Its so hard to go through this and when i hear people moaning they haven'g got pregnant after 6mths i think ffs! xxx

 

[nat24c]

Hi it so good too know that there is other people going thourgh this I always feel alone .in this just found out the other day that our,best friends are having a baby and they have only been trying for 5 months made me cry the whole day its so hard .if u dont mind me asking how did u find out u had pcos .yeah I know what u mean every body moaning after a few months when ppl like us have been trying for years .

 

[Princess Lou]

Hi ladies, I haven't been trying as long as you, ?only? four years gone July.

I hope you ladies are successful, you deserve it.

Also, it's the ones complaining after !1! month that really get me pissed. Lol. X

 

[NIKKIA]

Nat since we have been trying my group of friends 2 have had there second one is pregnant after 5 mths and another got pregnant on her honneymoon! So i so know how you feel.

4 years is flipping long enough lou. x

 

[MH53ADwife]

hi nat, i my DH and i have been trying for 5 years also. it was unexplained until recently. i had a lot of doctors blow me off, chalk it up as me being paranoid since i get regular cycles. one doctor rolled her eyes at me and said "just start taking prenatals" :/

i just found out last week that i have PCOS, i dont have many symptoms of it, except for trouble with my weight and insulin resistance, but i finally found a doctor who would even test for it.

its really easy to get discouraged at this point, we've had our major ups and downs. i wish you all the best.

and ive had my time getting mad at friends who have gotten pregnant so easy, i have one friend who has been married for 2.5 years and already has 2 babies, 13 months apart. ive cried and gotten mad and bitter about it and ive learned how to deal with it. i defiantly cant stand people bitching about a few months for sure, but the heartache and the stress is all the same.

 

[nat24c]

Hi mh53adwife yes I know how u feel trying too be strong and hold on is so hard .i ask my doctor about pcos but she did think I had it as all the blood test did not come up with anything.we are geting iui treatment at the moment but all ready had one cycle and it failed I just do understand it there is,nothing wrong with us and my bf all ready is a son so makes me think it could be me I am only 24 and thought it would be so easy when we started trying how wrong was I .how have all u ladies manged to cope with it beinh so long I hope use all get some great news soon xxx

 

[NIKKIA]

Hi, Ladies I thought i would give you hope i got my first ever bfp I can't belive it. We have been trying 5 years and it has been so hard. This was our 3rd cycle of iui but only the first the we acctualy got to the insemination stage. xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[nat24c]

Hey nikkia congrats your post has made me smile today and gave me some hope I start my 2nd iui next week and was abit down cos thought it was not going too happen but you have just showen there is still hope wish u all the best xxx

 

[YearningHeart]

Congratulation Nikkia!! You have given us hope now, It makes me happy when ladies who have been TTC for long time then become pregnant. I myself am on similar boat as Nat, I have been TTC for so many years and haven't been pregnant at all.

 

[LoveCakes]

Hi mh53adwife yes I know how u feel trying too be strong and hold on is so hard .i ask my doctor about pcos but she did think I had it as all the blood test did not come up with anything.QUOTE]

Hi girls I haven't been trying as long so hope you don't mind me posting. Just wanted to say Nat 2 sets of my bloods came back fine for PCOS so imagine how surprised I was at my first FS appointment when she went, yeah those are definately polycycstic ovaries! I know you are getting IUI so the answer is probably yes but have you had a transvaginal scan? May be worth it if you have PCO symptoms.