I had some difficulty getting pregnant. My husband has a child already and well we rarely ever get to see her bc of her mother. we have been together for 3 1/2 years. We feel we are ready for a child of our own. The 1st and 6 months I was on and off the depo shot. Later I got on the arm implant for exactly a year. On 08/16/2015 I removed it, I thought it was best not to get on any type of BC because we wanted a baby. The month after I got my cycle. I thought everything was going good but as the months went by my cycle started to act crazy. It would come later and later, eventually it would skip a month. So I got the depo shot again. I regretted it the day after... I have been cramping almost every day, getting headaches ever other day, really bad back pain, my hair has been falling out, and I've gained weight. I only have one more month to go. I really want to have a child. I'm worried that it will take forever before my cycle goes back to "normal". Does any one have any tips to get everything balanced asap? I have read that detox works to get the depo shot out of the system sooner after the 12 weeks has passed. I would love to know about people experience ttc after depo. I have lost faith. I need some hope that it won't take more than a year. since I had been of the implant for almost 10 months and I never got pregnant.