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Ttc for over 18 months and still not pregnant :(

BeanyBoo

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Hello, i am new to this but have been reading through all of the ttc forums and success stories for over a year now :). And I'll admit it i have become obsessed with being pregnant and all the symptoms and vitamins to take lol.
My story basically begins with me coming of the depo provera injection in December 2012, which i came off as me and my fiance are ready to start a family so bad :). I thought that getting pregnant would happen so fast and would take no trouble or time at all. But oh how i was wrong... My periods were so irregular and my mood swings were un bearable,i had 12 months of torture and i had become so obsessed my fiance began to loose hope.

After a year passed i began having a regular 32-35 day cycle and with every cycle i would be having all the symptoms of pregnancy. I was adamant that each cycle would be the one i got caught but that was not the case. I began having doubts that even though i was having regular periods i was not ovulating as i read many women who had that problem. So i invested in a Clearblue Fertility Monitor, i thought that by using that i could figure out if i was ovulating and increase my chances of eventually becoming pregnant. My problem now is that i have began having mid cycle bleeding and the days i am suppose to be ovulating i am infact having a light bleed for three days ::cry:. So i am desperate to hear others stories of their journey as i am taking pregnacare, evening primrose and vitamin b6 everyday and i have been using the cbfm but due to the bleeding i have stopped mid cycle.

Also i have been to my doctor and she has done bloods and they have come back as being normal and i have also had a internal ultrasound which has shown everything looking healthy including my cervix apart from very small cysts that are on my ovaries :/. The doctor informed me that it could be cause by the depo injection. And i have now been referred to the fertility clinic and waiting for an appointment :).

Sorry for the essay i just want to share my story so far and ask for advice from others who are ttc also. I'm sick of googling things and taking vitamins and peeing on sticks haha.

Hope to hear some of your stories and some advice soon xx
 
Depo sucks coming off of.. I came off of it back in sept of 2013 and had irregular cycles til jan/feb this yr and I'm still not sure if I'm ovulating every cycle. If you were on Depo for a while it can take a while for hormones to regulate. Be patient and your hormones will regulate. You will get preg. My ex coworker has completly irregular cycles and she BD every chance she gets incase she ovulates. :)
 
Dont loose hope. Ive been tryin for almost 7 yrs now! Dr finally let me try clomid today was my last dose. I hope i finally ovulate and cam get prego.
 
Its horrible, and to make it more frustrating my sister is super fertile she got pregnant first time trying with my nephew then went on to have twins naturally first time trying a year after my nephew was born :(. I don't know if the vitamins are working but i this month I'm on CD 36 and no sign of AF just sore boobs :(. I've just started taking pregnacare :/. Would that delay my period??

I'm trying not to give up but as every month passes and all my friends and family are getting pregnant its so dis heartening when me and my fiance have so much love to give. Thankyou so much for your reply's :) and my fingers are crossed for you hoodiesgirl87 :D
 
Sorry it has been so long for you. I'm not far behind you [15 months now] and really do empathise with how upsetting it is, especially when others around you seem to get pregnant so easily!

I'm glad you have been referred to a fertility specialist so at least you might be able to get some more help that way.

Wishing you lots of luck. x
 
This month will be month 20 of ttc and nothing :/. I have tried to relax...gone on holiday, weekends away but still nothing lol. I have just got my letter for my fertility clinic date today!! One step closer to finding out what's happening i suppose! :). Thankyou!! Fingers crossed :) x
 
Glad you have your letter for the fertility clinic! I think it will be the one I end up going to if I need to as I am in Aberystwyth so have to go to Shrewsbury clinic - noticed you were in Welshpool!

Hope the appt goes well and reveals some answers for you and a treatment plan x
 
Yes it is :) i hope it shines some light as to what is going wrong. My gp said everything looks right and she doesn't understand what's going wrong. She said stress looks like the only thing that is holding me back but i have been so relaxed and still nothing lol. Thankyou, i will keep you updated as to what treatment he suggests and what he finds.

anyone have any success stories?? X
 
There are lots of success stories on B&B - it might be worth looking in the pregnancy picture forum or on diary entries/journals - especially in the long term trying to conceive forum.

Just thinking that those who got pregnant, might not be around this part of the forum anymore so worth looking around just in case <3
 

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