TTC- frustrated!

[samae23]

I just have to get my frustrations out for a minute. It is SO hard and so frustrating when I am trying to have a baby with my husband and I want it more than anything in the world...and then I see a lot of people I know getting pregnant with "oops" babies. Like seriously, people who never even wanted kids at all. It makes me want to cry.

 

[Jsjskanamks]

I feel the excact same way, its really so hard. I feel like all I see is pregnant women and kids all around! And this week my cousin told me she thought something was wrong with her because she wasn't pregnant the 2nd month off the pill (she already has 2 kids) then called back a day later saying "guess what i'm pregnant" while I'm over here praying and praying to be able to have one! It horrrible trying so hard knowing people can just do it once and it happens.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here

 

[samae23]

I feel the excact same way, its really so hard. I feel like all I see is pregnant women and kids all around! And this week my cousin told me she thought something was wrong with her because she wasn't pregnant the 2nd month off the pill (she already has 2 kids) then called back a day later saying "guess what i'm pregnant" while I'm over here praying and praying to be able to have one! It horrrible trying so hard knowing people can just do it once and it happens.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here

Thank you that's so frustrating!! I swear some people can just sneeze and be pregnant! I've already gone through a miscarriage, and just want my baby so bad! I just keep telling myself it will happen when it's meant to be! I'll be praying for you!

 

[writingislove]

AGREED! I have a friend who's pregnant with her third "oops" baby with the THIRD baby daddy, and she's always struggling financially yet she's getting blessed with all these kids. My cousin's wife is currently pregnant with an oops baby, which just killed me when I found out.

Anyway, you are totally not alone. It is so painful. Have you been TTC long? Sending you baby dust, hoping your BFP comes soon.

 

[samae23]

AGREED! I have a friend who's pregnant with her third "oops" baby with the THIRD baby daddy, and she's always struggling financially yet she's getting blessed with all these kids. My cousin's wife is currently pregnant with an oops baby, which just killed me when I found out.

Anyway, you are totally not alone. It is so painful. Have you been TTC long? Sending you baby dust, hoping your BFP comes soon.

Ugh soo annoying and not fair!!! Children are such a blessing and people so take that for granted! We have been trying for only a few months but I also had a miscarriage
Thanks for the baby dust, sending some your way too!!

 

[Kmb007]

I know exactly how you feel. My SO and I are trying to get pregnant with our first, and it seems like everyone around me is pregnant BUT me. My best friend is (totally happy for her!), but so are a ton of others who never even wanted children. Just makes me sad

 

[samae23]

I know exactly how you feel. My SO and I are trying to get pregnant with our first, and it seems like everyone around me is pregnant BUT me. My best friend is (totally happy for her!), but so are a ton of others who never even wanted children. Just makes me sad

I'm sorry you're having a hard time too sending well wishes and baby dust your way! It will happen