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[Harry27]

Hello ttc,

I have 2 children very happy to be a Mummy. Bt also had 2 miscarriages a missed missedcarriage and one at 10 Weeks but the baby had stopped growing at 5-6 weeks. It all came away naurally.

I had My Little Girl then 5 years later had a missedmiscarriage then healthy baby Son then the other miscarriage.

Im feeling a bit optimistic that i wont carry full term with it happening twice. Can it? has anyone else ever carried full term after 2 miscarriages or more.

I have never spokem to anyone about it and any advice would be great thank you! Im also 24 years old.

 

[lynne192]

miscarriage is not directly related to carry full term hun unless it has something to do with placenta or linning, i would talk to your about this i only have one living son and suffered many losses my son was born at 33weeks but apparently thats going to be normal for me....

its more to do with your other living children where they full term?

 

[Harry27]

Firstly thank you for getting back to me and yes they was both 9days overdue my Girl was 71b 9oz and my Son was 91b 2oz.

Thanks

 

[lynne192]

they seems like you'll go full term if you were to get pregnant it could be genetic defects, and such that caused miscarriaged talk to your doctor. how long have you been TTC?

 

[Harry27]

I have only been trying for roughly 6 weeks and thank you. I think im going to talk to the doctor just for piece of mind,

 

[lynne192]

wow thats a short period of time to be worried about anything lol we've been trying 4 years

 

[Harry27]

Really 4 years without anything? Wow very patient Lady. That must have had its ups and downs for you, i think with me it is because of the 2 i have lost. But 4 years is no comparison at all.

GOOD LUCK! x

 

[lynne192]

thanks not something i want if i had choice wouldn't wait even 1/100th this long but such as life. we've getting IUI i have a sever needle phobia but now have to self inject up to 6 times each month but needs must. best of luck TTC personally i wouldn't be worried after you stay pregnant, premature labour is not as common as you think and even less so if you had two babies over due. my babies will be lucky to get to 30weeks my son was and i had him at 33weeks on the dot after 13days of labour. all my other pregnancies have been suspected ectopics, miscarriages or just chemicals.

 

[Harry27]

bless i cant emagine how strong you have got with that over time! its deffo not been an easy ride for me but atleast mine went over term.

I have loads of respect for ladies that never give up! how many kiddies do you have all together? x

 

[lynne192]

thanks sorry 2 hear of your problems i only have one living child my son james.

 

[Harry27]

thanks sorry 2 hear of your problems i only have one living child my son james.

Bless! how old is he his pictures you have on here are so cute!

Bet you are so proud of him

xx

 

[lynne192]

thanks pictures are old will need to update at some point. he is cute but i'm biased lol

I am proud of him but he's hard work because he has extra needs

 

[Harry27]

awe bless, my Son Harrison has just had his 2yr review and apparently (which i knew anyway and tried to get people to listen) his speach is not very good at all so refering him for speach therapy and stuff.

Just looked autism up too and got back to our health advisor but he said not too worry at this stage so will see :/ x

 

[lynne192]

we went through that too my son grew out of that and doesn't have autism his speech still isn't great but he's getting there we now think he has AD/HD, OCD or maybe aspergers syndrome (which i have too) its shame the kids go through that but you will not believe the amount of mothers i have talked to with sons that go through this xx

 

[Harry27]

wow! thank you for getting back i feel im blowing everything up in the air and really worrying about him today, when you think your the only one! im very wrong indeed! only time will tell now he definatley has something we need to work on and got him into doctors for tomorrow hopefully see if they can offer us any advice. i can emagine your days are pretty eventful too.

Thanks again i really appreciate you getting back to me with this.

 

[lynne192]

yeah i self help my son because he is currently waiting to reviewed in our new area and because he is off nursery its killing me lol i would get the wee man into a good speak and lanuage programe which they run your Health vistor should help you if you have one if not i am sure doctors will be happy to refer. james had a great one in our old area and with her help be came on great started talking he is talking now but not great and not at his leave his understanding is pretty minimum to but we get there its soo common in boys you wouldn't believe it but its understandable that you would think and feel like you are alone alot of the time i do and wonder how other kids can be like james but we have our good and bad days we're taking him to the beach tomorrow till sunday so hopefully that helps burn his energy

how's your week going?