lol!! Did you know him for a while before you got together?
i moved in with dh after about 2 months of dating, i'd known him for about 3 years beforehand though lol. love him so much.
Yeah, we knew each other online, for about 5 months, before getting together. I'd met him on this website, and he'd been trying to woo me, but then somehow I wound up hooking up with another guy that I met on the same website, something really spontaneous, that guy was named Max... and I dated him for 3 months. And during that whole 3 months, Baz was still around, still interested, and when Max dumped me, I was heartbroken, and just wanted to get out of the house, coz my dad basically put me on like "depression watch" and I hated it... and rather than asking Baz if I could go to see him, I asked him "Can I come meet your horses?"
He wasn't offended, he didn't get bothered, and he said to come down the next week, so I did.
He looked after me when I got weepy, introduced me to my horses, and while we were watching a movie, I was sitting on the floor where I love to sit while watching movies, and he was behind me, just rubbing my neck and the back of my head while I basically did goo-goo bliss face, coz I love head massages.... and then he was laying down and I turned to say something to him and his face was like an inch from mine and there was like, some weird, magnetic force that I couldn't turn away, and he very slowly kissed me.
Somehow in that single second I knew it was right just then...
I mean, you know how there are like, 100 different ways to kiss? My ex had ONE idea of kissing... and that was basically the "I'm so horny I want to eat off your face" kiss... NOT altogether appealing to be honest...
But Baz was gentle and sweet, he doesn't force his tongue down my throat or be really pushy. It's nice and soft and lovely. And the first time he kissed me, I just kinda went like "yup, thats it right there"
Somehow we ended up in the sack 20 minutes later though!
He has four dogs, a chihuahua and 3 big American Staffies, and his youngest dog, Russell, he NEVER "talks" to people apart from Baz... you know, that weird doggy talk? Not barking, but weird sounds, like he's trying to talk Scooby Doo style. Well, Russell won't even do it to Baz's kids, and he's been around them his entire life. In 20 minutes of creeping out of bed, I had Russell, his dad Sherman, his mum Abbi and the little chihuahua, adoring me, talking to me, trying to give me kisses. Baz was stunned.
And then when one of his two headshy horses was all over me like a rash within five minutes, I think THAT was when Baz realised I was keep worthy, as he reckons, coz animals can tell about people and whats really inside of them....
Which I reckon too. Before going down to his place, I was more worried about whether his animals would like me, than whether he'd like me. I mean, I don't care if a person doesn't like me, but if an animal thinks I'm not worth the time of day, THAT bothers me. I'm strange like that.
AND now that I've ranted like a cretin... I shall shut up!