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[Tanikit]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

 

[Annamumof2]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

OMG hun, i am sooooo sorry that happend to you, i hope you will be alright and your husband to, and i am glad that your daughter wasnt there to see it happen.

 

[tryforbaby2]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

OMG! How horrible! I am absolutely and completely sorry you and your husband had to endure such evil and scary behavior! That must be tramatizing and I agree with seeing a therapist for that. I am so sorry honey, so so sorry. Thank Goodness your lovely little baby girl was not anywhere in sight for that nightmare! I hope the police can recover what is rightfully yours and maybe this will motivation (in a bad way, sorry) to start thinking and getting the hell out of that area! I am so sorry Tanikit.

 

[soph77]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Oh my goodness, that is unbelievably crazy. You must have been terrified! I am so sorry you had to go through something as scary as this, but agree, thank goodness noone was hurt and your daughter was not there. I hope they find the shitbags that did it and throw away the key. And your rings, I would be heartbroken, I am so sorry

 

[Ejay]

Tanikit - OMG I am so sorry you had to go through that, that is unbelievable xx

 

[LuckyD]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Oh my god! I am literally in shock after reading this - Tanikit I am so sorry! What an unbelievably scary and horrible thing to happen. I am so grateful that you are not physically hurt and that your daughter was not there. I can't believe that happened to you. I am glad that you are looking into trauma counselling, but man - just so sorry that it happened. Sending you lots of hugs hope you manage to get some sleep tonight.

 

[Moondance]

Anna, I wasn't going to say anything but I did see what he wrote.
Argh, Men!

yeah its alright hun, and hes making me out like i'm a bad mother when im the one that looks after them and feeds them while hes at work 2pm till 10pm, and he is the one that said im aloud lay in's in the mornings and he will take them to school for me, so im like WTF??

so screw him i've had it now.

I didn't see it, but I imagine it must have been pretty bad for you to want to split up with him, and then to change your facebook info to being single...
Is there no way it can be sorted out? Talk to him about it?

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Holy S**T Tanikit!!!! Thank Christ you're both okay physically and that nobody was injured, and omg, can you imagine if your daughter was there? That's the kind of thing that can mess a little one up for life.
for you babe.
OMG.... but look at it this way, if it does motivate you to move away from such a horrible place where such things happen, then I recommend doing it. It definitely does not sound like a place one wants to raise a family!




I had a widdle bit of a temp rise this morning. But I personally think its too late to make a difference. DH has 45 year old spermies, somehow I don't think they're going to last 4 or more days in the search for my eggu.
But we shall see. Stupid late ovulation. BOO!!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

I've been meaning to ask this for a while, but didn't want to sound dense or pervy... but do you girls use normal soap to wash downstairs? I've been using a PH balanced wash from avon, and thats got to be a good thing surely? just a thought...

Just regular soap, just on the outside. Like some others have said, I was told not to go all wild and crazy down there and certainly don't clean 'inside' anything.... I also use summer's eve wipes after just because....

Hey mushmouth, after all the questions we ask on here I don't think there are many things that could be too 'pervy'....
I just use normal soap, but I don't interfere too much if you know what I mean...we are built to be self-cleaning so you don't want to mess with that too much!
It makes me laugh what I find myself talking about on BnB...honestly, y'all know more gory details about me than anyone else in my life!

haha its so true - some of the things I say on here, I don't think I could actually get the words passed my lips with anyone else!

I know, there have been a couple times where I've almost started talking to people like I talk to you ladies on BnB, and go WHOAAA there!!! Not something I want to share! Also, I hate when I think of things in BnB terms and have a hard time explaining to OH what I want to say!

Again, I think this is a sign I am addicted!

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Holy crap, Tanikit! Thank goodness no one was hurt. Material things can be replaced, but I definitely understand the sentimental value of your rings. I would be devastated. I also agree talking to a counselor sounds like a very good idea.

 

[tryforbaby2]

Squirrel, I think we all are a teeny weeny bit addicted! Lmao

Tanikit, I am thinking of you.

Moon, hey 45 year old spermies can still have some mojo! Have you ever concidered 30 year old spermies?

 

[Annamumof2]

Anna, I wasn't going to say anything but I did see what he wrote.
Argh, Men!

yeah its alright hun, and hes making me out like i'm a bad mother when im the one that looks after them and feeds them while hes at work 2pm till 10pm, and he is the one that said im aloud lay in's in the mornings and he will take them to school for me, so im like WTF??

so screw him i've had it now.

I didn't see it, but I imagine it must have been pretty bad for you to want to split up with him, and then to change your facebook info to being single...
Is there no way it can be sorted out? Talk to him about it?

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Holy S**T Tanikit!!!! Thank Christ you're both okay physically and that nobody was injured, and omg, can you imagine if your daughter was there? That's the kind of thing that can mess a little one up for life.
for you babe.
OMG.... but look at it this way, if it does motivate you to move away from such a horrible place where such things happen, then I recommend doing it. It definitely does not sound like a place one wants to raise a family!




I had a widdle bit of a temp rise this morning. But I personally think its too late to make a difference. DH has 45 year old spermies, somehow I don't think they're going to last 4 or more days in the search for my eggu.
But we shall see. Stupid late ovulation. BOO!!!

sense he got home hes been quiet but nice to me, and i dont think he has took notice on facebook tonight, if he has then he hasnt said a word to me

 

[MyTurnYet]

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Oh my gosh! Couldn't sleep so thought I'd come hang around BnB for a bit and saw this...Tanikit, I'm so sorry this happened to you! Like the others said, I'm very glad to hear that you weren't physically hurt, but I can't even imagine how traumatic that must've been. I'm so, so sorry! Again, thank God you weren't hurt. You must have someone watching over you, I believe.

 

[Tanikit]

Thanks for all the wishes everyone. We are all a little exhausted this morning as we battled to sleep. I did get some sleep eventually and so feel a bit better today. There is a lot that we need to do today - I feel a bit annoyed because I have been trying to sort my sugar levels out and the readings were all stored on my sugar machine which also disappeared last night. I know its stupid things we think of now. DD had to ask to go to bed last night because we kept the kids up with us for a long time.

In some ways I am glad I know I am not pregnant this cycle else I would be worrying what had happened to the embryo now.

Hope everyone else is ok - who is next to test?
Will have to try to do something fun today so I can type something good on here next. What is everyone doing for the weekend?

 

[Moondance]

Moon, hey 45 year old spermies can still have some mojo! Have you ever concidered 30 year old spermies?

As in, me be with a 30 year old because I'm 28, soon to be 29, so I should date someone more my own age?
Ummmm, nope.



It might sound weird, but I like older guys. Maybe it has something to do with some twisted mental left overs from what happened to me as a kid, but I don't know.
Plus, where I live... every guy between 18 and 40 is friends with my brother, so they won't touch me because of it!!! I've had guys interested in me, but because they're friends with my brother, they stay away, coz they don't want to like, break my heart and have my brother beat the hell out of them, hhahahahaha. Plus, whether its coz I'm a bit of a fatty, no guys my own age are interested in me. They're too busy being all appearance oriented and dating these tiny little girls who are SO mean...
Sorry, that sounded offensive, but I know these girls, and they think coz they're so thin and hot, they can treat people like crud. I like to sass them. Mwahahaha.

I'm in a relatively good mood today, despite having been to school. Makin friends with this gal in class, Gilda (who likes to be called Jill, so I call her Jillybean, lol). We were just being smart aleccy, sassy bom chica wow wow girls all day, ROFL.

 

[Moondance]

Mine nipples are hurting like CRAP thinks to my dang sweety man. He LOVES boobs, thinks they're awesome for the suckle fests...
He went just a tad too hardcore on Monday when I was there, nipples have been sore ever since, but are actually worse now! BAH!

 

[mushmouth]

Tanikit - Oh gosh - I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I'm glad you're all physically ok and you LO Wasn't there its awful

SquirellGirl - BnB is bad for your brain - not only is it waaaaaay TMI for real life, but a whole different language too! lol

 

[tryforbaby2]

Tanikit, I am still thinking of you, and I hope you and your family can get through this without a scratch. Don't worry about trying to find something 'fun' to write, we are sisters in here and we go through it all together. But it may be a good idea to try and have some fun (despite what happened I know,I am sorry) to help you and your husband cope with it a little better. Who knows, maybe it'll spark some romance for you and DH since you came to a near lethal situation together. All that romance may bring you a surprise for next cycle.

Moon, I see I see!!! Hey if thats your preference than go for it!

 

[CelticNiamh]

hell i give up on him he posted somethign very horrible to me on facebook elier and i have had it, i want to end it he never makes me happy.

no wonder im not pregnant, he gives me so much bloody stress

Wow Anna sorry to hear that, sit him down and have it out with him!

Anna, I am going to try like hell to get some tonight but I am completely exhausted and don't think I'll make it up that late!!! Good Luck for for you tonight!

Niamh, is this the first time she has decided she couldn't make it to something you have for your children? I tend to take things personally but I have been trying to learn not to.
We all have our own lives. Your children are more important to you than someone else's right? She probably feels that way about her son too. His football is important to them as religion (communion right?)is important to you. Don't let yourself feel bad, trust me, there is no reason to be UNLESS she has a habit of doing that to you or otherson more than several occassions.
We have that happen too, I can't stand it. We will go to this one's birthday party and that one's wedding or that one's baby shower, but when our stuff finally comes around a select few whom you are always there for always have an excuse. Like it's ok for me to dish out money and gifts but not ok for you?! I hope I am reading your situation correctly and not just ranting on and on about my own personal BS! Lmao

Before you write her an email explain to me how you feel.

his

Tryfor thanks hun, you will be happy to know I did not send an email while I was feeling a bit upset I left it, on a good note I rang her this morning and we had a great chat and she explained her self better and so did I so Im so glad I did not jump the gun and cause an argument. I feel so much better now and I understand when she can not make it down and you know your right this is a big deal for her DS and he has his day all planned and if it was my Son I be the same, she is sorry she cant get down and normally she is very supportive I was just overly sensitive because of the last time she was down.

This has nothing to do with ttc or having fun, but my DH and I were hijacked tonight - men with guns broke in when we drove the car in and took it and all the stuff in it. They also stole my wedding and egagement rings which I am extremely upset about as I will never see them again.

We've had the cops round. They may find the car again. We are not sure what is insured and what isn't so it'll be a long day tomorrow. What I was most grateful for was: 1) None of us was hurt physically and 2) My daughter was in the house with her aunt and cousin and so not in the car with us.

We will probably get some trauma counselling but for now we have locked the house up as best we can and put the girls to bed. When I have my next child we may emigrate - we have been thinking about it for years, but do I really want two small children in a place like this?

Sorry I am not in a space to reply to everypone tonight - will try to catch up when I feel more settled.

Oh No Tanikit Im so glad you are ok that is awful hun, do get some tramua counselling to help you deal with that you poor thing. so shocked to hear this were do you live

I "think" I'm around CD 21 of a normally 31 day cycle... but my OPKs think I OV'd around CD 13/14 which is a few days early for me, so I hope it brings AF slightly early too... I just hope I fall back into a pattern quick and don't have to wait tooo long!

thanks for the detail Julia! hehe I will keep it in mind!

I have a good feeling for you this month soph! there must be something in the water over here at the mo! hun

I ov early after my mc and concieved again, hope if you do not get a BFP this cycle you will next one

Tanikit - Oh gosh - I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I'm glad you're all physically ok and you LO Wasn't there its awful

SquirellGirl - BnB is bad for your brain - not only is it waaaaaay TMI for real life, but a whole different language too! lol

So true LOL


LuckyD how are you doing hun

I feel like I have missed loads, My inlaws were round last night, I got delayed at the school as well I will be back later to catch up on you all HUGS

PS sorry for typos!

 

[mushmouth]

I ov early after my mc and concieved again, hope if you do not get a BFP this cycle you will next one

thanks hon

 

[tryforbaby2]

Niamh, Thank Goodness! I am glad you and your bestie had a nice chat and sorted your differences. Again, Thank Goodness! I don't know what I would do if I lost my best friend!

 

[LuckyD]

Hey everyone,

Still been thinking about you Tanikit - hope you are doing ok xx

Sorry I haven't had time to catch up with everyone either! Been cooking all day, then family for dinner and then we have family and friends up here all weekend so it's going to be busy (but good). Will have to have a proper catch up after the weekend!

Niamh - so glad to hear that you had a good chat with your friend and are feeling better now. I am doing pretty good thanks love xx

So sorry to be so rushed everyone! Hope you are all doing well xxx take care and promise I will catch up properly soon