Tthf

[MissyMooMoo]

Hello can I join you lovely ladies? I would like to chill with you hehe xx

 

[Moondance]

Can someone pretty please link me to the thread where Julia's BFPs are?
I'd love to have a look!

 

[mushmouth]

moondance -

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-tests-gallery/328705-can-anyone-see-line.html

 

[tryforbaby2]

I have to go to bed too unfortunately...it's almost midnight and I have my job interview tomorrow. Have a great day everyone! Or night, depending on where you live.

Just one more time - so happy for you Julia xxxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks alot Amy/LuckyD Good Luck for your job interview!!! I hope you get it and love it!!!

Tryfor that is so exciting - saw the pictures and could definitely see a line on the second one.

I am afraid I am turning in (as in being a little self obsessed lately) and finding it hard to comment on everything I read here. My DH has got delayed ejaculation now and has not been ejaculating this month. I know I will ovulate today or tomorrow and these last few days I have been crying a lot because I do not know how to get him to ejaculate. This is the first month it has been so bad - the rest of the time we still did manage to get some sperm. Seeing the dominant follicle yesterday has really made me want to ctach that egg and now it seems it will not be - no amount of trying has helped this month. I've kept quiet cause I know he hates me talking about it, but I am so down - we already took last month off (and he did ejaculate then - I think)

He says he wants a baby, but then what is going on? He won't speak to anyone about it. I have been so down lately and this is usually the best time of my cycle. I feel like there are so many things standing in my way of becoming pregnant that this is just the last straw. Sorry to vent here - once I ovulate I should feel better either way because either I will have the 2ww to obsess over or it will be too late for this cycle and there will be nothing I can do about it. Right now though I am very miserable.

Since he won't discuss it with anyone, have you done any research on what you/he may be able to try so he can perform? That must be so frustrating for you, I am sorry. When you got pregnant with your DD, did he have problems with that then? Ooooh Tanikit, there has got to be a way to have him 'get off' so to speak (sorry if gross). I don't want you to miss it either If you need some help researching, please let me know.

 

[Tanikit]

Tryfor my pregnancy with DD was unexpected - we weren't trying. This has only started since December and even then it was only sometimes - now its almost all the time. I have looked up some solutions, but haven't found much helpful advice. If you do find anything that sounds doable please let me know.

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Tanikit - I'm SO sorry you are feeling so down. You had such a hard time last month too. I completely understand why you'd feel like taking a break might help, but I just want you to know you are still in my thoughts, just like all the TTHF gals. I found some threads on bnb about guys who have ejaculation issues, very helpful. This happened to my DH once a couple of cycles ago because I we were trying every night during my ov window. I'm really feeling for you hon and hoping you find a way to work through this. I hate that friggin' "just try to relax" bs but I know that I do get too obsessed with trying and have to find a middle ground that works for both my DH and myself. I hope you and yours can find that too hon. Just be gentle with yourself, ok? *hugs*

 

[tryforbaby2]

Ditto on what jaimie said tanikit. She's such a sweet woman!

I did come across a few threads that mentione ejaculation issues a few times on Bnb. Maybe we can find them and get some advice.

I am so sorry that you are dealing with so much right now Could you,by any chance, talk your doctor about whats going on with him for any 'suggestions'?

 

[soph77]

Morning Ladies.Took 2 tests this morning, both bfn
Really thought we had it this time, oh well at least we get to keep having more fun trying!~
Sorry Jullia, don't think I will be bump buddy with you until next month!!!

 

[Ejay]

So sorry Soph

This is such a supportive community on the TTHF thread, things never seem as bad with all you gals around.

Anyone in the UK watch Outnumbered, you just gotta laugh at the kids, apparantly a lot of it is just improvisation by the children. It's so funny

 

[bbdreams]

Julia!!! How exciting!!! I def. see a line and I usually don't see one when they are light, but I def. see it! I tested yesterday and got bfn, but ff has changed my ov date so now I am only 8dpo again, so I am still hopeful.

 

[soph77]

So sorry Soph

This is such a supportive community on the TTHF thread, things never seem as bad with all you gals around.

Agreed

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Soph The 999 reasons to laugh (at infertility) blog had a contest for the best alternative BFN expressions and these were the winners:

a Beer Feels Nice
Busted Feminine Nest
Bummed For Now
Belief & Faith Needed
Be Freaky Now

Also Soph - what does your DH mean by "on the rag in your mouth?" is he referring to the possibly nasty things a gal might say while she is on the rag? Of course I never say anything nasty when I'm on the rag, hence my confusion

JillEBean / Miss Cranky Pants - Yup, I am Jaimie "two eyes" because my name is like my face, it has two eyes My sister wanted to name me after the Bionic Woman (that was her character's name on the show). My Mom didn't know how the feminine version is spelled so she just threw both i's in there. I confuse people trying to spell it to this day.

Amy - I was going to say that you must have chosen LuckyD because you are a celebrity magnet. but the real reason is better and not the least bit nauseating - it is just super sweet

I've got a REAL embarrassing nick name story, but it belongs to my friends. They call eachother "b" all the time and so one day I asked them why. Turns out they saw this underground, backstage video of James Brown once. He is having kinky sex with some teenager and PEES ON HER FACE! Then he throws her a towel and says "wipe your face b". Romantic, right? Goodness I hope you gals don't mind my off-color stories. I get right nasty when AF shows and it is no holds barred.

Julia - first off, I went back to calling you Julie because when I looked at my notes from when we first shared out names that is what I put down. But I know you don't mind Julia, and I think I'm probably the one that started that, so sorry for the confusion! Anyhoo - there is no way that 8 lines could be wrong, no matter how faint. I just absolutely LOVE it! And I hope you'll stay as long as you want, preferably until we all get BFPs next month I totally knew you wouldn't be able to sleep last night

Ejay - I love that you have "Ejay and Molly's Journal" that is your horses name, right? How is she? I really hope y'all get a foal out of all this trouble!

MissyMooMoo! Make yourself at home! I love your avatar and user name. If you are in the 2ww you have to share your most embarrassing story (teehee)

So I think I need to find a cave when I'm on the rag. I was doing SO well last night - DH was being super supportive and sweet. I was able to tell him little things that disappointed me about this particular cycle - like being bummed that we don't get to tell our family in person about a BFP, seeing my friend's baby, all that crap. And he was just hugging me and helping with dinner and just being super great. And then we went to bed and for some reason I decided to bring up this crap from two months ago - back then he said "maybe we'll never have a baby, it won't be the end of the universe". That has just really stuck in my craw and last night it was bothering me something fierce. I should have kept my mouth shut though because when I told him that bothered me he got really defensive and we got into a terrible fight. It was awful. I sobbed my heart out. We made up around midnight and finally got some sleep but I just can't take these knock down drag out fights every cycle. I know it is mostly my fault, and DH is getting really scared of me I've got to find a way to take it easier when Aunt Flo shows. Either that or find a cave - seriously!

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

BBdreams and Soph - hope these tests are just too early for both of you! (.X.)

 

[honeybee28]

hello

im a bit drunk ooops.

i just wanted to say, julia, YEEEEEEY!!!! Im not even jealous, im just so totally happy for you. fx, tonnes of sticky baby dust etc. you know im always here babe. Im just so oever the moon that things are heading in the right direction.

hey everyone else!!xx

i feel so different this month, it's so strange. like, i really am tthf. i dont feel any stress, we bd when we want not coz it's part of a 'schedule'. so strange. im not even stressed about dh going away even though i havent peaked yet. thank god, or i'd probably be having a nervous breakdown! lol. it's weird. i havent felt like this since before we started ttc.

 

[honeybee28]

Ejay - omg i LOVE outnumbered!!! Karen is hilarious, i love her!!

 

[honeybee28]

(.X.) for soph and bbdreams!!

 

[Ejay]

Jaimie - Molly is the name of my horse, she is sharing a TTC journal with me. She is getting much better thanks, vet is quite conficent that there won't be any premanent damage, so fingers crossed.

Honeybee, it's fantastic, you just gotta laugh at what the kids come out with. Karen tonight at the restaurant, when the american guy talks about shooting the elephant in the room. "you can't shoot elephants"

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

MissyMooMoo - I want to eat that puppy in your pic. I mean seriously, I just want to nom it right up! Too friggin' cute. Is it yours?

 

[tryforbaby2]

Morning Ladies.Took 2 tests this morning, both bfn
Really thought we had it this time, oh well at least we get to keep having more fun trying!~
Sorry Jullia, don't think I will be bump buddy with you until next month!!!

I pray that you tested too early for your body. I would absolutely wish and pray for my friends from BnB (my absolute close BnB friends) to come with me. I am excited and torn all at the same time. It's so hard to be completely happy with my 'news' when I know exactly how it feels to see the red demon. I am sorry soph you are feeling like poo.

Julia!!! How exciting!!! I def. see a line and I usually don't see one when they are light, but I def. see it! I tested yesterday and got bfn, but ff has changed my ov date so now I am only 8dpo again, so I am still hopeful.

Ooooh 8dpo! Thats awesome! Check out my hpt thread (if you wish) for my bloodwork result. Fingers crossed so damned tight for you and soph and amypie!!!

I've got a REAL embarrassing nick name story, but it belongs to my friends. They call eachother "b" all the time and so one day I asked them why. Turns out they saw this underground, backstage video of James Brown once. He is having kinky sex with some teenager and PEES ON HER FACE! Then he throws her a towel and says "wipe your face b". Romantic, right? Goodness I hope you gals don't mind my off-color stories. I get right nasty when AF shows and it is no holds barred.

Julia - first off, I went back to calling you Julie because when I looked at my notes from when we first shared out names that is what I put down. But I know you don't mind Julia, and I think I'm probably the one that started that, so sorry for the confusion! Anyhoo - there is no way that 8 lines could be wrong, no matter how faint. I just absolutely LOVE it! And I hope you'll stay as long as you want, preferably until we all get BFPs next month I totally knew you wouldn't be able to sleep last night

Ewww....gross story! lmao.......Julie, Julia, Julia Ann blah blah blah.....it's all the same. I tossed and turned all night last night. Horrible, aren't I! hehe!

I wonder if we should say a prayer at the beginning of everyone's cycle or beginning of O to pray for egg and sperm to meet, where two can become one and find their comfy home together nestled in the uterus of all of you wonderful mom's and mom's to be. I think that would be beautiful. I don't want to be mushy or odd, but I just want to tell you beautiful, wonderful and supportive women how much you are appreciated and loved.

 

[bbdreams]

Ewww....gross story! lmao.......Julie, Julia, Julia Ann blah blah blah.....it's all the same. I tossed and turned all night last night. Horrible, aren't I! hehe!

I wonder if we should say a prayer at the beginning of everyone's cycle or beginning of O to pray for egg and sperm to meet, where two can become one and find their comfy home together nestled in the uterus of all of you wonderful mom's and mom's to be. I think that would be beautiful. I don't want to be mushy or odd, but I just want to tell you beautiful, wonderful and supportive women how much you are appreciated and loved.

I think this is very lovely Julia and we should def say this prayer!