two weeks is up....nother scan tomorrow..

[Ann-Marie]

Hiya,

I posted a couple of times about me miscarrying a twin. I went to hospital 2 weeks ago where they confirmed that this is what was causing my bleeding, and they asked me to go back to them after 2 weeks, and ignore any bleeding inbetween..

However, I went for a private scan last monday, as I couldn't wait, and everything looked fine with the Bean then... they could still see a little shadow of the twin, and told me to expect more brown discharge as it broke down.

Tomorrow I go back in for the hospital scan... (anyone would think I enjoyed being 'probed' !!!! ) and they will see if the twin has completely gone.

I'm still bleeding though... very pale pink and pale brown.. mainly in the morning. Have been for over 2 weeks now. I'm really nervous that bean won't be alive anymore.... Although I'm really really sick, and tired and all the usual...

grrrrrr. I hate the waiting

 

[cupcake]

good luck for the scan, hope you hear great news

 

[maddiwatts19]

Good luck hun, hope it all goes ok!!.

 

[Vickie]

Good luck with your scan tomorrow

 

[leeanne]

Best of luck on the scan!

How have you been feeling emotionally in regards to losing one of the babies?

 

[Ann-Marie]

To me it's still a miscarriage, and I'll always wonder boy or girl, would it have looked like this one..... I still have one though, so I'm blessed with that, and I sort of feel like people will think I'm silly if I see it as losing a baby, even though it is..... I dunno, it's really confusing....
I feel guilty planning and being excited about this one, when I'm still bleeding and losing the other......
Hard to explain really....

........and then there's always the worry that I'll lose the other one still

 

[Ann-Marie]

... also, what if I get an infection from any retained tissue from the one thats gone.....
will they make me terminate Bean..............

 

[Vickie]

I think what you are feeling is completely normal. You are losing one of your babies and no one can fault you for feeling this way. I think I would be the same.

 

[Serene123]

I hope everything is alright at your scan

 

[leeanne]

I would feel the same too. So sorry you have to go through it and truly hope all goes well with you and your other bean!

 

[Ann-Marie]

Thanks.... I think it is, as I'm really sick and tired, but I'll be happier to see once more on the scan

 

[Snowball]

I hope everything goes ok for you hun I would see it the same as you. Try and think positive about the scan, I'm keeping everything crossed for you that things are ok

 

[RachieH]

Anne-marie you have still lost a baby, even though you remain pregnant, you are still entitled to grieve for that loss....Don't feel guilty for feeling sad about your lost baby....I would feel the same way, I know I would.

... also, what if I get an infection from any retained tissue from the one thats gone.....
will they make me terminate Bean..............

The body is an amazing thing, usually in the case of a lost twin at such an early gestation, any remaining tissue will be absorbed by the body without any ill effects - They won't make you terminate your lil bean!

Lotsa https://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a28/RachieH/Graphics/goodluck1.gifhttps://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a28/RachieH/Graphics/goodluck1.gifhttps://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a28/RachieH/Graphics/goodluck1.gif for your scan tomorrow - I'm sure everything will be fine!

 

[hollie86]

All the best for your scan!! Im sure everything will be fine and bean is going strong.

XXX

 

[bluebell]

Good luck at your scan!!

xx

 

[Belle]

good luck. xx

 

[doctordeesmrs]

All the best for your scan.

 

[psycholisa]

Good luck with your scan, everything´s crossed for you!

 

[ColtonsMom]

my aunt had the same thing happen to her. she lost a twin early on, but today she has a healthy and happy seven month old little girl! So, even though it's inevitable that you will worry, try not to too much!
The only thing that happened with my aunts little girl was that she was born with really red spots covering half her body. The doctors told my aunt it was probably where the other twin used to be? I dont know though. They told her it would be gone by the time she was 6 years old, however, it's already gone! And she isn't even one yet!
Anyways, good luck wiht your scan!

 

[charlie07]

Hey Anne Marie

It is a baby, but you are blessed with the little bean that is still growing inside you. Try not to worry (she says, if worrying was an Olympic sport, I would definately be in contension for the gold!!!!), it's easier said than done, but you'll be fine. After today I have faith restored, Let us know how you get on xx