One of my best friend's birthdays is tonight. She plans on bar hopping and getting smashed. Completely passed that stage in my life (actually never really got into it), but it's her birthday and getting drunk is one of her favorite pass-times. Anyway, we haven't told anyone we're pregnant yet and we don't plan to for awhile. How exactly do I discretely not drink without it being obvious? I've never been a big drinker anyway so it shouldn't be too surprising to her, but I don't want anyone getting any ideas. Advice?