ugh men!

[AriannasMama]

Warning, this is an OH rant, lol.

So I was supposed to go to OH's house after work tonight, I called him when I got off and he is like "yeah, can you just come tomorrow now? A guy from work invited me to the bar".

WTF. We made plans and he wants to ditch them to go to the bar? Ugh, I hate that such small things piss me off, but it makes me feel like he would rather go to the bar then see me. The only reason I can't go is because some bars don't let you in unless you are 21, even if you aren't drinking, I asked him why he didn't just tell his friend to get a case of beer or whatever and hang out at his house so we could still hang out, but of course that makes NO sense to him.

 

[abarker6]

aw sweetie I know how it goes. I would say just pamper yourself and then go hang out with your OH tomorrow. Im sorry that he ditched you. that was really messed up of him.

 

[samone00]

sry..hun fob does the same to me

 

[pinkribbon]

God, that really boils my piss when OH does that. It makes you feel 2nd best. Either get angry and freeze him out for a while or make him suck up to you when he sees you the next day.

 

[Sophiiie]

Logical things never make sense to men my trick with my OH is to let him go, but make him feel bad about it, usually what they do to make it up to you is better than what you'd planned to do originally if that makes sense lol xx

 

[AriannasMama]

I did make him feel bad about it, lol. Then when his plans to go to the bar fell through and he wanted me to come over I was like "nope its too late and im tired, your the one who wanted to go to the bar instead of seeing me"