farmwife25
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Hi all. I was looking for some advice and reassurance and I think ill find it here. Ever since I got pregnant I've wanted a boy. I want a baby boy first. So my hubby and I did the weding band on a strand of hair trick and gotboy. The Chinese gender predictor says boy and gut feeling says boy. We went last Monday for our 20 week scan and she says "I think I see boy parts" to clarify she never said it in an unsure way but more of a anticipation statement cuz she asked what most people were guessing baby was. I was over the moon, I said really and she said yes. The rest of the scan she called him a cute boy and never seemed to change her mind. No anyone who knows me knows im not happy unless I have something to worry about so fastforward to friday and DH and I were talking and he said you remember she said "I think" right. My world crumbled. I started crying as I thought back to the appt. I never saw theses said boy parts I never asked her percentage of certenty. How stupid am I? I stressed all weeked and called the imaging office this morn. The receptionist said they dont guarantee gender, wnich I know as people can be wrong. The fact she didnt change her mind should be a good sign, and she never said I think but im not sure, or anything to doubt her finding . I should be happy either way as someone I know just lost their new born and here I am being pety over gender. Any advice. Also I have this odd pic on the disc she gave me of what looks like a penis and 2 testies, but the testies are seperate not in a sack, but again there are no legs or bum visible in the pic so I really dont know what im looking at. I figure she knows best. Its just that dreaded think word. Am I safe to go with her statment?